Do you think that ASMR is a form of p0rn?

[corrector]

Movie scene where one lady is willing to pay $1500 USD for her mother to call her "hon", and then her other friend takes up the money offer instead. If it was a guy as the main character, then people would call him a simp. What a double-standard.

 

[BaronOfHair]

If it was a guy as the main character, then people would call him a simp. What a double-standard.

Women also have a lot more latitude when it comes to turning on the waterworks in public, while we have to be conscientious about crying in front of the rest of humanity. This is the way life has been since times immemorial

 

[BaronOfHair]

I was looking at some videos of chicks doing this - and I find it soothing.

Try this as well

 

[corrector]

Women also have a lot more latitude when it comes to turning on the waterworks in public, while we have to be conscientious about crying in front of the rest of humanity. This is the way life has been since times immemorial

Are are not talking about the public though.
Just the tone deaf chadsplainers,.as well as some others, that dont get it. When people are freaking out over a $2 sub on OF and writing threads about it because they are worried about being shamed (and yet get a locked thread anyway) then you know something is off.

 

[MatureDJ]

"Game" is a necessity for both genders. If Sydney Sweeney had a mouth and demeanor like Melissa McCarthy, her looks alone wouldn't have jettisoned her to stardom

TikTok - Make Your Day

 

[corrector]

Had a very strong rage today. I was kicking things and threw an item from the fridge to the wall and was like cussing around because of some nasty issue...then I came across this video:

I came up with a witty explanation to my mother out of the blue. Feel like totally calm, after just watching 7 minutes of this video.

I'm in a relaxed frame of mind to go to work (ie wanted to skip work today earlier).

I think she really did pluck out some negative energy and toss it out. This stuff is real. At first, when I played the video, I didn't think it wasn't going to work, because it's a video right? I'm like wow. If you are having a bad day you can google search an ASMR for that to get you back on the right track mentally.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Had a very strong rage today. I was kicking things and threw an item from the fridge to the wall and was like cussing around because of some nasty issue...then I came across this video:

I came up with a witty explanation to my mother out of the blue. Feel like totally calm, after just watching 7 minutes of this video.

I'm in a relaxed frame of mind to go to work (ie wanted to skip work today earlier).

I think she really did pluck out some negative energy and toss it out. This stuff is real. At first, when I played the video, I didn't think it wasn't going to work, because it's a video right? I'm like wow. If you are having a bad day you can google search an ASMR for that to get you back on the right track mentally.

If vids like these are your jam, there your jam. It's unnecessary to justify yourself to anyone

 

[Fruitbat]

Because men with mommy issues often identify as submissive and here everyone is a tough masculine guy?

My mum says tough and masculine and so do all her friends, despite what anyone says.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

 

[Murk]

I was into ASMR before it was a thing and naturally saw the whole movement blossom. I was about 17 years old, depressed, skipping school while mum was at work. I would lay on the sofa and listen to people getting massages, softly talking on youtube. Way before the monetisation of youtube came into play. Literally at the birth of youtube when it was homemade low quality stuff people did simply to put content online. Then ASMR took off and I liked watching/listening to head massages and shaves.

I have not needed it in years, I self regulate my stress and relaxation. It served a good purpose for me 10-15 years ago though.

Nothing sexual about it for me, I have ADHD and used to find it difficult to relax and let go of present stress and emotions. These days ASMR has been bastardised by women trying to make money.

 

[corrector]

If vids like these are your jam, there your jam. It's unnecessary to justify yourself to anyone

Felt happy enough to share.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

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