Do you think chicks that say on Tinder that they are interested in older men are legitimate?

Dr.Suave

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She might be bored of getting pumped & ghosted by guys her age.
 

Borknagar

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No, Anne this is online dating in general. You want a legitimate women there's the whole passport and plane cost. I've met legitimate women online to talk to to help heal from a divorce, but had to change my location to parts of the world where there are still good women.
 

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I'd say 98% of the time it's about affluence and money. Proceed with care. There are genuinely those who are attracted to older men for one reason or another - which points to other things, but that is a different post. 10-15 years is not that bad - anything beyond that - again, proceed with caution.

Given so many men here believe that a woman attracted to a man's affluence is ok, they shouldn't have a problem.

A good rule in life is "if it seems too good to be true it most likely is".
 

zekko

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Could be some sort of code for wanting a guy with money. That's not necessarily as sinister as it sounds. It might be as simple as wanting to go to some interesting places that the guys she's been dating can't afford. Can't spend all the time in the bedroom, after all. Well, I guess you could, but there's more to life.
 

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Out of the most recent 10 girls I have talked to on Hinge, the average age gap is 11.4 years younger ranging from 22-48. I'm 47. It's never been easier for me to match with younger women. The average age gap for myself has increased as I've gotten older.
 

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I think a good question is, “Why should we care if women are sincere or not about this?”
 

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At the absolute lower end, the vast majority of men don't even start to mature until the age of 23. In my experience women do like older guys (30+) over younger guys if all else is the same.

None of this is to deny the fact that most women will go where the money is.
 

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Yep, she’s looking for a weekly allowance.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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