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Do you think chicks that say on Tinder that they are interested in older men are legitimate?

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As expected, the younger the poster, the more offended he is by a young woman seeking out an older man.

I would never allow a woman OF ANY AGE access to me if it were only about my affluence. That said, I have had situationships and a relationship with a woman more than two decades younger than me. In all cases, more than me buying dinner or takeout never occurred, and neither was money exchanged nor asked for.

Don't hate the player. Hate the game.
 

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I got this in my feed:

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Whats really funny is how womem will now make pictures with their phone in front of their faces.

A flat belly and some shape at hips is enough to get the infamous "99+" notification. While apparently men have to make a selfie while they make an bungee jump from the moon with Elon musk to make her at least check out the next picture..

I also think we overestimate the word "older". C'mon gents, we know that when woman tells you " in the past" she means 1,5 ,2 years max. So older will have a similar kinda of gap: 5 to ten years maximum IF you are handsome and stable.

Her father might be 44-48.
 

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The girls on Tinder I got with. were mostly much younger. They didn’t have anything in their bio that mentioned ‘older men’. I put my age in my bio. but subtracted 10 years (this got sketchy when I got 2 LTR GFs out of it).
 

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I have a banging 17 year old obsessed with me and I’m 27. Not sure how I feel about it lol
 

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Out of the most recent 10 girls I have talked to on Hinge, the average age gap is 11.4 years younger ranging from 22-48. I'm 47. It's never been easier for me to match with younger women. The average age gap for myself has increased as I've gotten older.
This can happen. A lot of talking behind electronic screens isn't all that meaningful so it'd be more meaningful if the average date you went on was 11.4 years younger.
 

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As expected, the younger the poster, the more offended he is by a young woman seeking out an older man.
Much criticism and pondering over women that men do comes from a place of resentment and a reminder that the criticized and mysterious women don’t want THEM.

Bitching about women that are false trads, actual trads, want bad boys, seek older rich men, “Chad Thundercock,” men of other races (eg, “BBC” or Nordic men), tall men, criminals, ordinary oofy-doofies, and yes, even beta men—in most cases it’s from resentment that they’re a womanless man.
 

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Much criticism and pondering over women that men do comes from a place of resentment and a reminder that the criticized and mysterious women don’t want THEM.

Bitching about women that are false trads, actual trads, want bad boys, seek older rich men, “Chad Thundercock,” men of other races (eg, “BBC” or Nordic men), tall men, criminals, ordinary oofy-doofies, and yes, even beta men—in most cases it’s from resentment that they’re a womanless man.
The average woman doesn't want the average man. That's a saying that Rollo Tomassi is known for saying. There are plenty of men being sent to the rejection pile by women. The typical man is a man that's a part of the rejection pile. There's even a regular poster on this board that's 6'4", 230 lbs, and far more muscular/fit than average. It's a man with a "Chad Thundercock" look and he's even sent to the rejection pile. That's likely an extreme example.

The typical man operates from a scarcity mentality with women because scarcity is all he's known. Most woman aren't that interested.
 

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This is for the youngsters here that hate on the idea of desirable younger women choosing older men, read, in the words of a couple of 20-something’s.

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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That last paragraph she wrote said a lot. That's key. You younger guys need to take notice. It's all about how you make them feel and she said it all.
They won’t listen, they will find a way to explain it away.
 

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You guys aré preaching to the choir. Haters are losers. Its been on my signature for a while.

Im on the side of "older" men, always been, in case It wasnt clear (I'll be over 40 In the blink of an eye). Doesnt mean I wont crack a joke In good spirits here or there.

For all I know, most hot girls could indeed have some sort of daddy issue (or not. Im no psychologist, I dont know). And If they did, I wouldnt say its a bad thing, But an opportunity; a sweet sweet opportunity.
 
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