"Girls are like busses ever 15 minutes another one is coming"
There was always another woman .. (or so when I was younger).
Interesting point. I wonder if that "younger" version of yourself eventually stopped at a certain age, meaning, the point at which you started seeing new women with a sort of “15-minute delay.”
Also, this entire post makes me think of one specific thing, something
@Pandora also talks about:
Some women have dependency issues. They find a guy and, no matter how turbulent the relationship is or how many problems he has or how badly he treats her. She'll stay. Because there’s something in him that reminds her of her childhood, and also because she have a real issue with emotional dependency and can’t imagine herself without that guy. She might “die” without him. So that guy might have zero objective value, but to her, he’s everything.
And those "happy" couples you see out there, with kids, marriages, big houses, might actually be hiding something very simple: plain codependency.
If a girl thinks you’re her Plan A, rest assured she’ll always be there bugging you, texting you, liking your posts on social media, bumping into you in the street, spending time with you, doing anything to make it clear that she wants
you.
If a girl thinks you’re her Plan B, then all of the above applies too, but only when her Plan A has somehow failed or is "temporarily" out of the picture (loss of interest, etc.).
This "plan b" situation is the worst, and I found myself in it.
From that moment on, I ended up on sosuave.
Wishing you growth, my friend.