Do you Pay for First Dates?

[KirthWGersen]

That is just gaslighting and a misrepresentation of my position.

It is shocking how many here can't comprehend masculine leadership, accountability, and responsibility. They are like little boys that want no responsibility,...still get the fun,...think they are "owed" something, and want someone else to pay their way through life.

But if it were the 1950's western society would be solid healthy and functional rather then destroying itself via the after effects of the Sexual Revolution of the 1960's that came a decade after that.

This is just hilarious now. It is first time I've heard a man use the term "gaslighting" to mean "stop pointing out the flaws in my

That is just gaslighting and a misrepresentation of my position.

It is shocking how many here can't comprehend masculine leadership, accountability, and responsibility. They are like little boys that want no responsibility,...still get the fun,...think they are "owed" something, and want someone else to pay their way through life.

But if it were the 1950's western society would be solid healthy and functional rather then destroying itself via the after effects of the Sexual Revolution of the 1960's that came a decade after that.

This is just hilarious now. It is the first time I've heard a man use the term "gaslighting" to mean "stop pointing out the flaws in my logic". I mean it is common among women, when facts contradict their feelings, but it appears it is spreading.

Explain to me how paying for someone you are sexually interested in, in the hopes of getting in their knickers, is "masculine leadership, accountability, and responsibility".

The Sexual Revolution has been a wonderful thing for masculine men who know how to lead and are accountable and responsible. There has never been a better time to be alive. Instead of having to play silly games, pretend, lie and pay to enjoy the company of women, we can simply interact with them on our terms and enjoy an abundance of great sex and wonderful relationships.

If it doesn't feel that way to you, you may find greater rewards from changing your approach than dreaming of lost world that never existed and, even if it had, is never coming back.

 

[PRW63]

Explain to me how paying for someone you are sexually interested in, in the hopes of getting in their knickers, is "masculine leadership, accountability, and responsibility"

Amazing how this place has been overrun by the Black Pill "Women are the enemy -- but I still want to bang'em" mentality.

Also amazing how feminism has twisted men's thinking that paying for the date is somehow wrong. Men now actually believe the "men & women are equal" therefore women should pay for half the date. That is what feminism preached from the getgo, but now the men have bought into it.

Also amazing how feminism has twisted men into believing that the guy paying for the date is just "paying for sex". Now the Blue Pill conditioned men actually believe it,...and some of the really stupid ones are actually doing it for that reason. Somehow they think the only reason a guy pays for a date is to get laid and has no comprehension of Male Leadership. If he can't or won't pay for the stupid hamburger on a simple date how the h*ll is he going to support a family and a household? Ah! Wait! That's right! He doesn't. He wants a new mommy. He wants a Sugar Mommy to pay his way and tell him what to do,...he'll just stay home and change the diaper of another man's kid that she already had.

By your terminology I suspect you are in the UK or Aussie. Well both are so screwed up right now with Feminism and "Wokeness" I'm really not sure your society will survive another generation. You've got a lot worse things to worry about than if you need to pay for your date's hamburger. We are headed the same way but not quite as far along.

 

[KirthWGersen]

Amazing how this place has been overrun by the Black Pill "Women are the enemy -- but I still want to bang'em" mentality.

Also amazing how feminism has twisted men's thinking that paying for the date is somehow wrong. Men now actually believe the "men & women are equal" therefore women should pay for half the date. That is what feminism preached from the getgo, but now the men have bought into it.

Also amazing how feminism has twisted men into believing that the guy paying for the date is just "paying for sex". Now the Blue Pill conditioned men actually believe it,...and some of the really stupid ones are actually doing it for that reason. Somehow they think the only reason a guy pays for a date is to get laid and has no comprehension of Male Leadership. If he can't or won't pay for the stupid hamburger on a simple date how the h*ll is he going to support a family and a household? Ah! Wait! That's right! He doesn't. He wants a new mommy. He wants a Sugar Mommy to pay his way and tell him what to do,...he'll just stay home and change the diaper of another man's kid that she already had.

By your terminology I suspect you are in the UK or Aussie. Well both are so screwed up right now with Feminism and "Wokeness" I'm really not sure your society will survive another generation. You've got a lot worse things to worry about than if you need to pay for your date's hamburger. We are headed the same way but not quite as far along.

I have two kids. I pay my way. Their mother pays her way. My lovers pay their way. And my kids, when ready the age of 18 will pay their way.

You have to take responsibility for your decisions in life. You want something, you pay for it. You don't expect someone else to pay just because you want to **** them/they want to **** you.

There is a compete disconnect in your mind between what is actually happening and what you think you are doing.

And no, I'm from neither of those countries. Where I live, relationships are non-monogamous until they are not, and no-one expects to be given something they haven't worked for.

 

[PRW63]

And no, I'm from neither of those countries. Where I live, relationships are non-monogamous until they are not,

The exact country does not matter. But the "relationships are non-monogamous until they are not" clarifies a lot for me and why we would never be coming from the same starting point and never get to the same destination. But I respect that you clarified that.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Usually.

 

[sosualadies]

You know she had sex with a first time lover without a date also...