"DO you like _____?"
- Thread starter DJoneday
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Senior Don Juan
"WHO TOLD YOU?? I'LL KILL YOU! I'LL KILL ALL OF YOU!!"
Oh wait, that's the one not to use...
Oh wait, that's the one not to use...
Her: "Do you like ______"?
You: "Actually, when you've got those pants on (point to her pants, numbskull), I like you. (smile) You know, I've seen an awful lot of women (always say WOMEN instead of GIRLS...makes you more 'mature') wearing those kind of pants lately, where'd you get them at?
In this reply, you've:
- C&Fed her
- Complimented her on her pants
- Negged her (WITHOUT INSULTING...this is important) by suggesting that she dresses just like everyone else.
- Springboarded into a possible sarge of HER
Give that reply a whirl. (make sure you use 'shirt' if her shirt is cool, and don't use 'pants' if she's wearing shorts, boys)
You: "Actually, when you've got those pants on (point to her pants, numbskull), I like you. (smile) You know, I've seen an awful lot of women (always say WOMEN instead of GIRLS...makes you more 'mature') wearing those kind of pants lately, where'd you get them at?
In this reply, you've:
- C&Fed her
- Complimented her on her pants
- Negged her (WITHOUT INSULTING...this is important) by suggesting that she dresses just like everyone else.
- Springboarded into a possible sarge of HER
Give that reply a whirl. (make sure you use 'shirt' if her shirt is cool, and don't use 'pants' if she's wearing shorts, boys)
Turalyon999
Don Juan
C+F = ****y and Funny