Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

[Mr. Me]

Interesting! I googled her and found she's a 47 y.o. lady looking to peddle dating advice. She posts on loveshack and some other dating sites. Sells a dating book.

But robin, let me tell ya, if you only opened your mind up to what we're saying, you'd finally get the truth! You're halfway there in your advice, just need that reality dose and to get rid of the false beliefs.
..And get a spell checker.

And as to the question would I date a dating coach, my GF gives out dating advice, she used to counsel women and took up women's studies, and I shake my head at her thoughts, but I still date her as she doesn't care that I disagree, she just wants me. Go figure.

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robinincarolina

* Age: 47
* Gender: Female
* Astrological Sign: Virgo
* Zodiac Year: Tiger
* Location: Lexington : South Carolina : United States

About Me

I am a single woman with many interests. I have a small business as a dating coach which took me into online marketing. I promote my dating advice via affiliate marketing and would like to share with others not only my dating advice but how you can take your dreams online and make money through affiliate marketing.

 

[jophil28]

I think that we may have hurt Robin's feelings.

Perhaps she could forgive and forget and tell us why she believes that she is qualified to offer dating advice.
Is this advice co-ed, or for women only?

I am assuming that she has also created a successful LTR with a great guy and can speak from personal success.

 

[Hooligan Harry]

Yes Hooligan Harry I am a proffesional woman, but my proffesion does not determine the kind of woman I am. Yes I have a kid, but no regrets there. She is great. Your 1-6 though are way off target. I don't have a second rate job. I have my own business and am successful because I am good at it, not because I am trying to be Ms. Big Balls. I consult and am a freelance writter. I don't bring my work home, I work from home, I just shut off my computer when I am ready to do so. I like to have fun after working, and I have lots of it. I don't have a blackberry or whatever you call it, just a razor phone with the ringtone "Its 5:00 o'clock somewhere. I like happy hour. I don't consider myself a feminist at all. I love men and appreciate them for who they are and the way they are. I think men should be men and women should be women, period.

Frikken hell, you summed up exactly what I was talking about.

You have a small home business that allows you to support yourself. This does not make you successful, it makes you a functioning adult. I know you feel like Donald Trump not having to take orders from anyone, but I doubt you own the private jets and massive employee roster that would allow you to call yourself "successful". Who says you are good at your job by the way? Have you published many books? Given many seminars? Lecture anywhere? Multimillionaire from your service offering at all? What do you base your belief that "you are very good at your job" on? You sound like almost every other typical female professional I have worked with.

Im curious to know though how it was that you came to be dating consultant. Seriously. What makes you an expert in the subject matter, and expert enough in it to charge a fee for your advice? How did this come about?
in response to generalist statements. You automatically respond with the "well I am not like that" bullsh1t we see all the time. We are not discussing YOU, we are discussing the average college educated woman here. So you may not believe you are points 1-6, like most women believe (the same ones that believe they are, like you know, so super awesome at their job) they are not points 1-6, but chances are a few of them are not far off the mark either.

I have noticed you lied about you age initially, stating you were 35. I saw that. And I did sum you up quite quickly too. Young child or no child, couple of failed relationships and delusions of grandeur.

Dont take this personally. Stick around and maybe you could learn a thing or two. The last thing the people at LoveShack need is more retarded advice that may make sense on the Dr Phil show, but still ends up with you raising other mens children or paying alimony until you die of a heart attack one day.

 

[STR8UP]

Smart women are the most challenging and interesting prospects in my book. If you cant fvck a woman with Ph.D, you need to sit your ass in the back of the class room and STFU.

Yea, my d!ck gets ROCK HARD when I'm in the presence of a female Einstein.

If you aren't checking out the t!ts and ass, you need to check your manhood. If you ARE a man, that is.

 

[Hooligan Harry]

I havent read all the posts, but the guys that go for dumb once or foreigners who are easy to control, are them self insecure on so many levels its fvcking pathetic.

And you call your self DJ's? Pffft...

Smart women are the most challenging and interesting prospects in my book. If you cant fvck a woman with Ph.D, you need to sit your ass in the back of the class room and STFU.

Yes, lets form opinions before we read through all the posts and come to a rational conclusion. That makes sense.

Lets also automatically lump all foreign women into the category of "dumb servants". Its not that you are an outright ignorant BIGOT, its just that there was no way you could possibly know that their level of education is probably higher than yours. I mean those female engineers the Ukraine and China produces by the thousands are stupid enough to be born outside America, like you know.

Finally, the fact that the challenge you present is the desire to have no family, put your "career" in front of your family and relationships, statistically come with the highest divorce rate AND come with the self entitled feminist viewpoint that we would all prefer to avoid makes us all insecure, weak men. Yes. The men are the problem. The men.

Good luck finding your prince. I have no doubt in my mind you are a real catch and have nothing to worry about at all.

 

[Colossus]

Think that's David Dieda (sp?) - was a sh*tty book and I shouldn't have wasted the $15

^^Cosign.

 

[Mr. Me]

>> Smart women are the most challenging and interesting prospects in my book. >>

The issue isn't about a woman's IQ. It's about a woman's *attitude*.

You'll find professional career women on match.com, for example, who have difficulty finding men to go out with because they expect men to subordinate themselves to her and her career, being put on the back burner when it benefits her but she still expecting him to "be there for her" when she feels so inclined. When they're with men, they tend to compete with them, acting more like a man then a woman. Real men don't want that, nor do they put up with that. For crying out loud, even in same sex arrangements, one partner's a fem. Then the women lament that those men are "scared" of being with "powerful" women, as that's a lot easier to spout off then to acknowledge that she is being her own worst enemy.

Women may not understand this on an organic level, because they're not men and never undergo the specific male-female experiences a man encounters. So women giving advice to men typically involves issuing men their female mind set to put on, which is expecting men to act and think like women. Kind of an extreme example, but it underscores my point: Imagine an Arab telling a Jew how to relate to Arabs (or vice versa). It totally would disregard the Jewish aspects and factors and be all about thinking and feeling and having an Arab's outlook and perspective. It would basically be telling the Jew to be an Arab.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Sorry, but I smell a troll, possibly two.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

* Age: 47
* Gender: Female
* Astrological Sign: Virgo
* Zodiac Year: Tiger

Chick-crack anyone?

 

[Da Realist]

I say the profession does not matter except for if she is a prostitute or works in porn as an actress or fluffer. Other than that it's how she acts outside of work that matters.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Most professional women are forced into an uncomfortable choice in life. Generally women in this demographic have decided to pursue a career at the sacrifice of caring for a family; some initially disdain the idea of being 'trapped' in a domestic life. Some are aware of this sacrifice and some are not. Most professional women swallowed the (all too common) ideology that "you can have it all", a 'rewarding' career, a family and an equally professional, equally intellectual husband that will respect her choosing the career path and equally share in what she perceives as his domestic duties. And like most professional women, at some point they come to realize this notion is false because the sacrifices required to attain this fantasy defeat it's own conditions. For example:

Timeline of the Professional Woman

At age 18 she's progressed through high school with a high GPA and her single mother or 2 parent family (rarely is it a single father) has raised her to believe she can go far and through the financial aid available only for women and/or the college fund her parents planned for her she's ready for college. Not a bad thing for a woman who's ready to actually meet the challenges of a University and a 'promising' professional career.

At age 24-26 she's achieved a bachelor’s or master’s degree, perhaps a doctorate by 28. But, more often than not though it's a bachelor’s and an expectation of professional respect in the professional world. 90% of professional women graduate with education, psychology, journalism or communication degrees. That's not to say some don't seek out careers in law or medicine, they do, but in far fewer numbers. Regardless of her education, her expectations are the same as her peers - once in the workplace she will be rewarded and respected. Unfortunately, in the professional world, things don’t go as smoothly as her Women's Studies teacher prepared her for. She discovers that to function as a professional she is also required to be responsible as a professional and more times than not, it's not all that 'rewarding'. In fact it entails a lot of rejection and a lot of hard work at the sacrifice of a personal life and personal relationships.

At 30 she sees the girlfriends she went to college with married and having their 2nd child. She still clings to the self-affirmation that her choice requires she have, but can't understand why she hasn't 'gotten it all' by now. She's single or may even be divorced at this point, but looking for that 'professional' and intellectual equal of masculinity that the fantasy sold her, yet it hasn't quite worked out that way. Most guys her age don't have the intellect she expects they should or they lack the status in their careers. Men more successful and mature aren't interested in her since she pales in comparison to the 22 y.o. women they seem to prefer.

At 35 she's achieved quite a bit in her career, but has no prospect for a family at this point. She enjoys reading the articles in the women's magazines that affirm what she thinks she experiences often enough - that men her age are juvenile with 'fragile egos' and only want to become involved with women in their 20's because they feel 'threatened' by a woman who would dare to be their equal. The truth being that men are hardly juvenile at this age, but rather calculating, they generally have a better understanding of what they want and what is satisfying for them after more than a few failed attempts and have learned how the game is played to a greater or lesser degree. Particularly professional men of the same or higher status than she, since they have more access to being particular with the women they choose to become involved with. They are aware that the 35+ y.o. professional woman's personality has been shaped by 12-15 years of expectations of 'having it all' and they are aware that she is generally not a good candidate to start a family with since he knows all too well the sacrifices and responsibilities necessary to achieve his own status. A career man rarely sees a career woman as a good choice for a wife or an LTR, not because he's 'threatened' by her status, but because he's known and worked with enough of them once he's reached 35+ years of age to steer clear of them.

 

[jophil28]

And like most professional women, at some point they come to realize this notion is false because the sacrifices required to attain this fantasy defeat it's own conditions.

Unfortunately, I don't think that they do "realize" that the promise of "having it all" was false at all.

IF they did realize that, they would likely adjust their goals and expectations to reflect a more realistic acceptance of what the world has to offer them. . Instead it seems to be more comforting to cling to their 'fools gold' objectives and blame men for being " immature " or being "commitment phobic".

 

[WaterTiger]

Yeah, no woman hating here....damn all those women and their man hating! Lol, you're a joke dude, your entire perspective is skewed by what appears to be bitterness. Intimidated by intelligent women, I didn't use to think it was a possibility until I read posts like this...

He's not "women-hating", he's telling the truth!

A young lady I worked with was attending Sonoma State University. Her major was economics, but the school practically forced her to take "Women's Studies". I used to tease her about having to take a class to learn how to be a girl and Man-hater 101. She agreed with me. She was raised by her father & two brothers and was disgussted by a class that made them look like idiot goons. She squeaked by in the class with a D- because she openly fought with the teacher so often.

Oh! And by the way...
Women should avoid these professions when chosing a husband:
Police Officer-
Fireman-
Clothing Retail Managers-
Military Special Forces-
Doctors of any sort-



Men are not intimidated by SMART women. Men are annoyed with the anti-male crap they get pounded with on a daily basis.

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

The issue isn't about a woman's IQ. It's about a woman's *attitude*.

Bingo. That adds it all up.

It's a power thing, woman get their independence through education, they then say to themselves "I don't NEED this guy as much as I used to", they end up getting shyt attitudes. Hence, one of the primary problems with educated women.

Intimidation is ridiculous. I say more power to women to get more education, just don't lose your humility once you've got that education. Unfortunately most women (on average) do end up losing their humility once they have it.

 

[SmashB]

He's not "women-hating", he's telling the truth!

A young lady I worked with was attending Sonoma State University. Her major was economics, but the school practically forced her to take "Women's Studies". I used to tease her about having to take a class to learn how to be a girl and Man-hater 101. She agreed with me. She was raised by her father & two brothers and was disgussted by a class that made them look like idiot goons. She squeaked by in the class with a D- because she openly fought with the teacher so often.

Oh! And by the way...
Women should avoid these professions when chosing a husband:
Police Officer-
Fireman-
Clothing Retail Managers-
Military Special Forces-
Doctors of any sort-



Men are not intimidated by SMART women. Men are annoyed with the anti-male crap they get pounded with on a daily basis.

Thank God you quoted me, because some douche bag on this website has the audacity to delete posts and not even send me a message? What a moron...as to you thinking men aren't intimidated by SMART women? HA!

Obviously you have a lot of learning to do.

What a completely vague and baseless statement. Welcome aboard, you must be in cohorts with the guy deleting my posts. Eh shrew?

 

[sodbuster]

I have an IQ of mid 140's. I'm not intimidated by smart women-I'm annoyed by them.You date one and she spends all her time trying to compete with you and be better than you are. I COMPETE all day, I don't neee to do it at night. I'm looking for a nice relaxing,night and she wants to turn it into a competition[mine is bigger than yours],so,how much do you make? OH 1/4 of what I do-but you are still smarter? If you were so smart-you'd choose a better profession.And on and on it goes.

I took dissection anatomy,never did find brain tissue in boobs.

 

[Mr. Me]

>> as to you thinking men aren't intimidated by SMART women? HA!>>

You really think men are intimidated by smart women? It seems to me that men are, generally speaking, more muscular then women, therefore stronger then women, allegedly earn more then women do or, more realistically, are in higher paying professions then most women, and bigger/taller then women. They can be found high up on a steel beam working on a skyscraper or working in tunnels far below the earth, out dealing with surviving the forces of nature at sea or in other hostile environments, running into burning buildings, chasing down weapon carrying criminals, defusing bombs, or picking up tons of waste among other hazardous or very physically demanding professions. Even in white color jobs, you can find them going into back stabbing situations with adversaries and competing in a dog eat dog world to make a buck and out gaming other guys tougher then them to get ahead. Guys deal with bigger guys hassling them, smaller guys provoking them, bosses jumping on their ass, as well as all the other bullshyt life hurls at them, and yet, you sincerely believe that a woman with some smarts gets them all sorts of intimidated, hmmm? Sure, sure.

 

[WaterTiger]

I took dissection anatomy,never did find brain tissue in boobs.

Did you find any brain matter in the penis? 'Cause I've always heard about thinking with...you know.

(SORRY! I had to ask...you know I did! Please don't hit me!)

 

[sodbuster]

No worries,just seems to be a common thought amoung women that men are automatica!!y wrong.MY key is stuck,so I have troub!e now. IF we didn't have so many men thinking with their !itt!e head, women wou!d be better Behaved

 

[STR8UP]

In most cases I would probably rather date a waitress than an attorney.

At the end of the day there is only one thing that really matters in a woman outside of individual compatibility. You can go on and on about all of these traits that a man wants in a woman, but everything comes back to femininity.

Why is it so hard to find a decent woman in America? Because they don't want to act like women. The they complain incessantly about the lack of decent men. DUH! You have emasculated and alienated them. THEY DON'T WANT YOUR SKANKY ASS.

I'm not absolving men of guilt. I am simply saying that until women want to revert to their PROPER role, NOBODY is going to be satisfied.