Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

[sodbuster]

Yep if she isn't hot enought to make "my putter flutter" it's off. I'm not looking to need whiskey and viagra to be able to have sex. It's just a fact of life women can't comprehend. I've had women try to set me up with women that outweigh me. Why?

 

[robinincarolina]

Its me again, the woman here. The one that some of you formed an opinion of based on a few posts and one even took the time to google my name. Someone here said don't take it personal, so I won't. I am who I am. I will defend my spelling though. After celebrating my birthday with massive amounts of alcohol, I made the unwise choice of posting here. I could barely see my monitor, let alone get my fingers to function on the keyboard.

I do not claim success, yet that is. All the information in my sites came directly from the writers of the books, just reworded by me. I mostly deal with women and what I try to get through their heads is to let men be men, and men should let women be women in return. As far as being present for a woman, yes that is David Deidra and I happen to like him, but that is my opinion. It was a man who turned me onto him and that man is quite an exceptional man, again, my opinion.

More than likely I am much older than most on here. That being said, I have probably been there, done that already, so that is the only thing I claim to be make me qualified to give advice, life experience. I assume you are all here to learn from one another and seek and give advice. I am not much different except I don't have a penis.

 

[Warrior74]

Its me again, the woman here. The one that some of you formed an opinion of based on a few posts and one even took the time to google my name. Someone here said don't take it personal, so I won't. I am who I am. I will defend my spelling though. After celebrating my birthday with massive amounts of alcohol, I made the unwise choice of posting here. I could barely see my monitor, let alone get my fingers to function on the keyboard.

I do not claim success, yet that is. All the information in my sites came directly from the writers of the books, just reworded by me. I mostly deal with women and what I try to get through their heads is to let men be men, and men should let women be women in return. As far as being present for a woman, yes that is David Deidra and I happen to like him, but that is my opinion. It was a man who turned me onto him and that man is quite an exceptional man, again, my opinion.

More than likely I am much older than most on here. That being said, I have probably been there, done that already, so that is the only thing I claim to be make me qualified to give advice, life experience. I assume you are all here to learn from one another and seek and give advice. I am not much different except I don't have a penis.

if you were a guy, I'd call you a douchebag. Because that's what we call guys who act like you. As it stands, I'll probably just continue to shake my head at how you really don't get it at all. Remember this, men judge women by their actions. What actions have you taken so far on this board? Those are not the actions of an honorable man, so that's why you are getting judged the way you are, you say let men be men, but if you really understood men and this forum you would have found a better way to present yourself and your ideas. Constantly playing martyr, on the 'its me the woman bullshiit', is just lame. Stop it. It makes you look try hard. You are not the only woman here, just the lamest.

Yah we are here to learn from one another, not to converse with a marketer who is just trying to sell other peoples ideas. Nobody is gonna respect that, you know it deep down, your just trying to prove something now because your little ego got crushed. Keep trying babygirl, I'll keep watching and shaking my head. First impressions babygirl, first impressions.

There are tons of dating forums for you to market to. I don't think this is the right one for you. I think you should go over to www.zenmack.com/forums and talk to those guys, they might be more open to your message.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

After celebrating my birthday with massive amounts of alcohol, I made the unwise choice of posting here. I could barely see my monitor, let alone get my fingers to function on the keyboard.

Don't worry, you're hardly the first "woman" on this site to post a drunken screed.

:nervous:

 

[robinincarolina]

I never claimed to understand men on this board. THAT IS WHY I AM HERE, so maybe its you warrior that does not get it. I can't get anything accomplished on this board because there are a few of you who just keep on coming after me.

The reality is I came here because I was invited by one of you. I am no maytyr. Keep watching, I follow a few on this board and you were one of them. Think I even posted your praises somewhere here on one of your post that was excellently written, in my opinion that is.

So will you all please stop wasting your time on me and just let me be until or if I get thrown off. I am not here to bash men or toss around feminism. I am not a feminist. I am not here to promote my ideas, although the clickthroughs were a nice benefit in honesty. I took my signature links out.

 

[Warrior74]

I never claimed to understand men on this board. THAT IS WHY I AM HERE, so maybe its you warrior that does not get it. I can't get anything accomplished on this board because there are a few of you who just keep on coming after me.

The reality is I came here because I was invited by one of you. I am no maytyr. Keep watching, I follow a few on this board and you were one of them. Think I even posted your praises somewhere here on one of your post that was excellently written, in my opinion that is.

So will you all please stop wasting your time on me and just let me be until or if I get thrown off. I am not here to bash men or toss around feminism. I am not a feminist. I am not here to promote my ideas, although the clickthroughs were a nice benefit in honesty. I took my signature links out.

If you stop bringing it up, so will I. But as long as you keep prefacing all of your comments with that stupid shiit, you'll continue to get comments on it. Just say your advice and leave all the rest of the drivel alone. If you read my posts you know how I feel about superfluous bullshiit.

Spit your advice, let people judge it for what it's worth and if they like what you have to say, then they will let you know by clicksthrus and rep points.

You can get off that "one of you invited me" trip, its so many afcs on this board I'm sure you could find "one of you" to marry you here. That holds no weight. There are tons of diverse opinions and personalities, so that doesn't float.

Cut the bull and just say what you have to say. Can the rest of it. You can either heed this advice, or suffer the consequence, but I'm trying to help you, are you trying to listen or be right? Good luck.

 

[robinincarolina]

I am listening. I will drop the subject and take you at your word that you will do the same.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

WARRIOR, don't feed the trolls.

 

[radiodude]

It is the mans duty to become educated and make the money. A woman is fine enough with an AA degree at most. She can't be any more than equal to your own education.

Women with Masters and Doctorates 9/10 times are as Harry pointed out earlier in the thread. You will not be happy with these women.

Highly professional woman won't even take your last name alot of the time if you are dumb enough to marry one of them.

They may be fine for a night but never enter anything long-lasting with them.

 

[Colossus]

I am a little younger than the guys in this part of the forum, but I have a story of one of my (women) university professors that I feel can relate to the topic.

My professor was a woman teaching my engineering ethics class. One of the last few classes, she was talking about women's lack of rights in the workplace and gave examples of her past jobs (a glass ceiling, and all that blah blah blah). One example was about a co-worker of hers that just had a baby. After having her baby and pregnancy leave, she started working again like normal; except she wanted to spend more time with the baby, at home. My professor made it seem how "unjust" it was when this coworker's boss (a man) denied her the ability to work from home, and only go to work once or twice a week. Ironically she blamed it on the fact that she was a woman who was good at what she did and that the boss was intimidated by her work (what boss in his right mind would send one of his best workers away? He had honored her right to pregnancy-leave).

Another example she gave was her first job straight out of Graduate school at Stanford, where she had received her Masters. I don't know the specifics of the job, but it had something to do with each employee having a few companies out in the IT sector to represent. When she was first hired, so was this other guy (let's call him Joe). According to her, he was a tall, good-looking guy, that had a *deep* voice (she kept emphasizing his deep voice and other physical traits). When the management handed them the companies they were going to represent, my professor was handed the top companies (Hewlett-Packard, IBM, etc) while Joe was handed slightly less-tier companies. Here is where the story gets interesting. Apparently Joe had done very well with his companies, earning a lot of money for the company, while my professor hadn't done as well. They sat her down at the end of the year and asked her, "What's wrong? We had a lot higher hopes for you and your earnings." She complained to the class that she had been discriminated for being a women because the company had handed her "all the hard, almost impossible to get" companies while easy-going, everyone's friend, Joe had received the "easier ones." This was her example of how a women could be discriminated against by a (again emphasizing physical traits) good-looking, deep-voiced man.

I proceeded to ask her in front of the class, "I don't mean this in any negative way, but it only seems logical to me that a recently graduated student from Stanford, one of the most prestigious schools in the world, would get the harder to obtain companies and contracts, not because of being discriminated against by men." She proceeded to give me an earful basically not agreeing with me, and I didn't press the issue because she was the one grading my papers.

Great examples. Academia is rife with feminism and pen1s-blaming.

Another example:

My good friend, we'll call him Masal, is an echocardiology fellow at a major hospital. One of his co-fellows is an American female. She decided to get pregnant in the middle of her fellowship, because this is the most convenient time for her in terms of time off and such. So basically, she has a PLANNED pregnancy in the middle of her fellowship, because she knows no one can say sh!t, and leaves the male fellows to pick up the clinic slack. Oh, and the other female fellow happened to get pregnant at the same time, curiously. The hospital allows a certain amount of time off for pregnancies, so she is taking ALL of it (like 8 weeks), during the Christmas season nonetheless, when other people want to take time off for family. Her response? "It's my right. I don't need to accommodate anyone." Not even an offer to pick up extra clinic hours before or after her time off, just flat-out entitlement. The other female fellow is at least taking half the 8 weeks and picking up some extra clinic hours to help the male fellows.

Lack of rights my as$. When a feminist succeeds, it's "in spite" of men. When she fails, it's men's fault.

 

[WaterTiger]

Dear Robin in Carolina:

If you want to understand the minds of the men on this site you have some reading to do. Start with the NoMarriage.com, "the Bible" (as it pretains to this site) and The Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi. This will get you started.

Try not to think of this site as "Getting tricks to manipulate women to sleep with men" but as advice to avoid the nasty, cold hearted women who treat men like crap. You know women like this, you've watched them suck in and crush men's hearts like egg shells.

You've seen them cheat on their husbands and scream "He wasn't paying enough attention to me!" (When in all truth, she was a whyney nag that NO ONE wanted to spend time with.)

You've seen them ruin their ex's in divorce, keep the kids away and be furious when he moved on with his life.

You've seen them behave with reprehencible disregard during "Girl's Night Out".

These are the darling girls the gentlmen are trying to avoid or disentangle themselves from. You have to have a different mindset when you respond to the guys here. They have been warned countless times not to take advice from women, and with good reason. We don't exactly follow a logic path of thinking at times.

Double think what you post, read-read-read, and you'll do all right here.


P.S. Don't get defensive...it shows fear! You never want to show fear to this bunch.

 

[Desdinova]

Women will enter careers based on two things: How they feel about the career, and money.

The amount of money they will make with their career choice will cause them to feel excitement. If they have no money to pay for the education, they can do one of two things:

1) Get the money. Borrow it from Parents, Boyfriend, Bank
2) Get a 5hitty job with low pay and marry a man with money

However, sometimes the money isn't good enough to make them feel like the job is rewarding. If the job is high paying but the work is 5hitty, they will quit and resort to option number two, regardless of how much money they wasted on education.

There's also the third, hidden option.

3) Get money by some other means. They will steal, devise a stupid get rich quick plan (gambling, pyramid scheme), rack up credit cards, or work multiple jobs for more money.

Now, look at these three options. Where can you find a desirable woman in there?

 

[robinincarolina]

Dear Robin in Carolina:

If you want to understand the minds of the men on this site you have some reading to do. Start with the NoMarriage.com, "the Bible" (as it pretains to this site) and The Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi. This will get you started.

Try not to think of this site as "Getting tricks to manipulate women to sleep with men" but as advice to avoid the nasty, cold hearted women who treat men like crap. You know women like this, you've watched them suck in and crush men's hearts like egg shells.

You've seen them cheat on their husbands and scream "He wasn't paying enough attention to me!" (When in all truth, she was a whyney nag that NO ONE wanted to spend time with.)

You've seen them ruin their ex's in divorce, keep the kids away and be furious when he moved on with his life.

You've seen them behave with reprehencible disregard during "Girl's Night Out".

These are the darling girls the gentlmen are trying to avoid or disentangle themselves from. You have to have a different mindset when you respond to the guys here. They have been warned countless times not to take advice from women, and with good reason. We don't exactly follow a logic path of thinking at times.

Double think what you post, read-read-read, and you'll do all right here.


P.S. Don't get defensive...it shows fear! You never want to show fear to this bunch.

Yes I have seen all of those, you are right. There are a lot of bad women out there and they come with warning flags. Here a few things that I consider warning flags, small but worth noting.

She asks why didn't you call

She tell you she wishes you would act more like so and so

She complains she does not get enough of your time

She gets angry when you hang out with the guys

She checks you phone and messages

She goes through you wallet

She rides by your house or places you frequent

She shows up at your house or places you frequent

She asks you to account for your time and whereabouts

She complains that you take her for granted

If she has not heard from you, she will call until she gets you

She uses guilt to get her way

She withholds sex to punish you

She does not listen to you and its always about her feelings

I could make take this list up to 100, but women that do these things are a disaster waiting to happen.

 

[jophil28]

Yes I have seen all of those, you are right. There are a lot of bad women out there and they come with warning flags. Here a few things that I consider warning flags, small but worth noting.

She asks why didn't you call

She tell you she wishes you would act more like so and so

She complains she does not get enough of your time

She gets angry when you hang out with the guys

She checks you phone and messages

She goes through you wallet

She rides by your house or places you frequent

She shows up at your house or places you frequent

She asks you to account for your time and whereabouts

She complains that you take her for granted

If she has not heard from you, she will call until she gets you

She uses guilt to get her way

She withholds sex to punish you

She does not listen to you and its always about her feelings

I could make take this list up to 100, but women that do these things are a disaster waiting to happen.

Aww, you're going easy on your sisters.
Except for the last two, most of those are at the 'mildly irritating' end of the range. Most woman do most of those, and mature men are not so surprised when they do (maybe I am just battle hardened )
HOw about 'fessing up to some of the REAL bad and nasty stuff that you and your sisters get up to..

 

[Warrior74]

Yes I have seen all of those, you are right. There are a lot of bad women out there and they come with warning flags. Here a few things that I consider warning flags, small but worth noting.

She asks why didn't you call shiit test, ignore

She tell you she wishes you would act more like so and so shiit test, ignore

She complains she does not get enough of your time shiit test, ignore

She gets angry when you hang out with the guys shiit test, ignore

She checks you phone and messages fired

She goes through you wallet fired

She rides by your house or places you frequent shiit test, be aware

She shows up at your house or places you frequent one warning, next time fired

She asks you to account for your time and whereabouts shiit test and ignore

She complains that you take her for granted shiit test, be aware

If she has not heard from you, she will call until she gets you shiit test, one warning

She uses guilt to get her way fired

She withholds sex to punish you fired

She does not listen to you and its always about her feelings fired

I could make take this list up to 100, but women that do these things are a disaster waiting to happen.

some of those are fireable offenses. I don't have time for petty drama. I dropped a girl earlier this year for going through my phone. She flipped out and couldn't believe I dumped her. I didn't waver, just told her good bye. She tried being angry at me (she saw some text from some other girls), she tried making me feel guilty, she tried telling me she loved me, she tried everything she could throw at me to shift the power in her favor and to deny that she was wrong for going through my phone, but in the end she got dumped.

When people try to manipulate me it pisses me off. Just be who you are and play your role..

 

[robinincarolina]

I consider most of that list to be fireable offenses or huge warning flags to say the least. If someone went through my phone, or email, or violated my privacy, they would get dumped as well. The only thing I would do different from you is not even give them the opportunity to communicate with me at all to shift the power. She gave up her power when she went into your phone.