Do You Have to Be Good Looking to Attract Women?

[JdelaSilviera]

Yeah of course looks matter, big deal. But also remember that the definition of good looks varies a lot. Of course, there are people who are very ugly, for 99% of population, but even those probably don´t care of themselves... most people are considered hot by someone, and you would be admired by the quantity of girls that find YOU attractive.

And forget about the myth of the super hot girl, or the super stud.... those people are like 1 in 1000... I can say that even on tv I don´t know any girl that makes me say she is completly beautiful "i would die for her kind of". There are a lot of cute faces out there, but very very few gorgeous people....

The guy you think he´s a stud, is probably a guy with a deluded self-confidence, wich makes him have the balls to approach any girl. And makes him have a cheeky smile, when a girl is rejecting him... cause he believes is so cool she is just playing hard to get. Many times the guy can turn the tables, because women melt, for confidence, balls, etc...

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[MurdocIsGod]

She's not going to sleep with your ugly ass. Now get over it, masturbate, or go kill yourself if that what it takes to stop your self delusion about getting hot women with game that was fed to you by some keyboard jockey or PUA aka business man who wants to make money of desperate virgins and hopeless nerds by selling them the promise of getting hot women with their product. Now masturbate some more and get off the internet.

I actually think I have a shot with her. I don't think she's hot to be honest (she was in that one Transformers scene but that's it) so maybe having a guy speak to her normally would make a change for her.

 

[Vice]

That's not a problem. Be concerned if you're getting approached by gay dudes. For most girls, gay means "he's out of my league, he must be gay".

I never get approached by gay dudes outside of gay clubs, but that's a really interesting insight.

So what you're saying is that girls are intimidated by me/think that they're below my league? Because quite frankly, most of the ones where I live are out of my league.

Can you elaborate some more?

And by elaborate, I mean "stroke my fragile ego" bahaha

 

[MartyMcFly]

I never get approached by gay dudes outside of gay clubs, but that's a really interesting insight.

So what you're saying is that girls are intimidated by me/think that they're below my league? Because quite frankly, most of the ones where I live are out of my league.

Can you elaborate some more?

And by elaborate, I mean "stroke my fragile ego" bahaha

Lol, oh god. Gay clubs? You're just asking for it if you go into one of those.

 

[blueline]

Yeah of course looks matter, big deal. But also remember that the definition of good looks varies a lot. Of course, there are people who are very ugly, for 99% of population, but even those probably don´t care of themselves... most people are considered hot by someone, and you would be admired by the quantity of girls that find YOU attractive.

And forget about the myth of the super hot girl, or the super stud.... those people are like 1 in 1000... I can say that even on tv I don´t know any girl that makes me say she is completly beautiful "i would die for her kind of". There are a lot of cute faces out there, but very very few gorgeous people....

The guy you think he´s a stud, is probably a guy with a deluded self-confidence, wich makes him have the balls to approach any girl. And makes him have a cheeky smile, when a girl is rejecting him... cause he believes is so cool she is just playing hard to get. Many times the guy can turn the tables, because women melt, for confidence, balls, etc...

lol no, you are completely incorrect and have been reading too much PUA literature. There really is not nearly that much psychology involved in picking up a girl. The guy you're talking about has to at least be classically handsome. Women are rejecting him initially simply because they don't want to look like a slut because he is so forward.

 

[Vice]

Lol, oh god. Gay clubs? You're just asking for it if you go into one of those.

It's an unavoidable side effect of a venue that has virtually no competition.

 

[MartyMcFly]

Nooo ****t dude. I actually have to do less work in a gay club if I have friends who frequent them. (They're dudes) I guess the chicks only trust chicks thing has a clause for gays. lol Those guys will talk me up so much and all I have to do is smile and wave.

 

[initiatorhater06]

It happens. Randomly females will muster the courage to cold approach some guys or they get close to their target via social circles. Some will outright stalk guys.

It will never happen too often though, females are cowards & rejection is a lot worse for them.

I'm not saying that they have to approach us guys, well it would be great if more did but the at least that women could do is welcome the advances from any guy they find attractive physically

 

[Kirro]

I'm not saying that they have to approach us guys, well it would be great if more did but the at least that women could do is welcome the advances from any guy they find attractive physically

Yeah....no. Sad to say but women devalue the more sex they have. The whole point is to rise above your competition(other men) & have YOUR advances accepted. Some girls know entire friend circles of physically attractive males, you know what would happen if girls arbitrarily started accepting EVERY advance from EVERY physically attractive dude???? 3 words, amateur ******* porn.

 

[Lorenzo01]

You need not look attractive to attract a women instead you should be enlightened from within to get that by thinking in a positive way and sending positive vibrations to other person whom you want to atract. A attractive personality is secondary and does not matter much if you have that right attitude within you.

 

[FastMen]

theres only 2 kind of girls the 1- girls who just want "s.." and the girls 2-who really want a lovely and lasting realtionship,

So if you meet girl number 1 do you think shes cares if your ugly?
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[oneboy21]

Yes girl are picky about who they sleep with, they want to have sex with a good looking guy.

 

[The_411]

The answer is no. Too many variables affect the process. Sure looking like you stepped out of an Abercrombie Fitch catalog will greatly increase your chances and being better looking will grant you access to a llarger field. However, lots of guys who one wouldn't think are attractive get women and good looking women as well.

 

[IKO69]

Of course you don't. Looks just make things easier if you the remainder of the equation is right. If you have good looks but are really boring and a creep, then you're just a boring, creepy, single guy. Looks are not the end all, be all. As long as you're normal looking, which most people are, looks isn't the issue. It's usually other things. If you think long and hard you'll recognize something you could work on.

 

[Nutz]

This thread just won't die. Here's the honest truth:

Looks help, but solid game can get you women that would otherwise be a couple points (1-10) out of your league. Similarly, bad game can spoil a good looking guy's chances. Ask any woman and they'll tell you a guy they liked (based on looks) turned them right off as soon as he opened his mouth.

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[floydb25]

Just to chime in on a comment about women saying looks don't matter... Of course they're going to say that. Just like they say they're looking for a nice guy to have a relationship with. Nobody wants to be perceived as shallow. You don't believe them when they say this, or when they give advice about other women, so why believe when they say looks don't matter? Because it goes with what you want to believe?

The way I look at is, if you're good looking - women will come to you. Or at least, they'll signify strong signs that you should approach them. They're already interested. Its in the bag. Now you just have to not screw it up. If you're not good looking, you have to go to them, and build their interest.

Either way, it does make a difference. Good looking people have a significant advantage, and generally have it easier. They can also get away with more, and tend to get more chances.

To say it doesn't matter at all - like in one of the videos posted earlier - is nonsense. That guy doesn't know what he's talking about, and sounds like a douche bag anyway. He also looks like one.

 

[DonGorgon]

FACT: young hot women see 99% of your value and attractiveness in the way you LOOK...

The less physically attractive they find you the more difficult they will make it fro you to F them...

If you are ugly you will have very few fast one night stands with young hotties..

you will have to put in much more work than the guys she finds to be cute...

your game will have much less effect if she thinks you are ugly..