Do you check other women out while on a date?

[JuanSama]

When I'm out alone, I'm the invisible man. No one gives me any attention. If there's a woman by my side, I turn into Channing Tatum wearing a G-string on stage. All eyes on me baby.

My question is: what should I do with all this attention? Some of the chicks who give me attention are actually hotter than the one by my side, so it's quite hard not to look. Sometimes I reflexively smile too.

Now, I know why they do it because I already read The Rational Male. But is it beta to give them attention back while I already have a plate by my side?

 

[BPH]

When I'm out alone, I'm the invisible man. No one gives me any attention. If there's a woman by my side, I turn into Channing Tatum wearing a G-string on stage. All eyes on me baby.

My question is: what should I do with all this attention? Some of the chicks who give me attention are actually hotter than the one by my side, so it's quite hard not to look. Sometimes I reflexively smile too.

Now, I know why they do it because I already read The Rational Male. But is it beta to give them attention back while I already have a plate by my side?

That is a lose-lose situation.

You lose the girl you're with because you went after the "bigger better deal" right in front of her.

You lose the girl you're now going after because she witnessed you discarding your girl the moment she came around, and there's no longer any mystery or chase.

People in general want what they can't have - when you're out with another girl, you're "taken", even if only for that night.

 

[JuanSama]

That is a lose-lose situation.

You lose the girl you're with because you went after the "bigger better deal" right in front of her.

You lose the girl you're now going after because she witnessed you discarding your girl the moment she came around, and there's no longer any mystery or chase.

People in general want what they can't have - when you're out with another girl, you're "taken", even if only for that night.

Makes sense. I usually try my best to ignore but sometimes I just fail, know what I mean. I gotta be more stoic about this.

 

[New_Journey]

When I'm out alone, I'm the invisible man. No one gives me any attention. If there's a woman by my side, I turn into Channing Tatum wearing a G-string on stage. All eyes on me baby.

My question is: what should I do with all this attention? Some of the chicks who give me attention are actually hotter than the one by my side, so it's quite hard not to look. Sometimes I reflexively smile too.

Now, I know why they do it because I already read The Rational Male. But is it beta to give them attention back while I already have a plate by my side?

Why wouldn't you give a glimpse at a hottie who is "casually" passing by?

You lose the girl you're with because you went after the "bigger better deal" right in front of her.

You lose the girl you're now going after because she witnessed you discarding your girl the moment she came around, and there's no longer any mystery or chase.

I imagine you haven't done it, cause that's not what happens. And if a girl gets so emotionally wrecked that you "lose her" (she's never yours its just your turn) for giving a glimpse at another female who is maybe hotter than her, she saved you a lot of fvcking drama.

 

[JuanSama]

Why wouldn't you give a glimpse at a hottie who is "casually" passing by?

I don't know if it's making me indecisive like the previous comment said.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Now, I know why they do it because I already read The Rational Male. But is it beta to give them attention back while I already have a plate by my side?

Are you asking our permission?

Listen, have you ever been checked out by a girl while her boyfriend was completely oblivious?

Yes?

You know why?

Because she isn't ogling you like a thirsty doe.

Wolves don't let the prey know they're observing. Keep the attention you give other women minimal to non-existence raises your status, because women have no respect for guys who cannot ogle unobtrusively.

And, your observations have to be disavowable, so if you can't be subtle, get sunglasses.