I asked about this recently, and received a bunch of responses basically calling me an AFC still. Here is how I look at it: As long as you're honest when asked about your views on you two baning, you are not doing anything wrong. People get together and hook up all the time. That is nothing new. Just don't lead them on, or lie to them, because then you're an @sshole. The dreaded question is going to come eventually...be prepared to answer it, and be prepared that you're probably going to hurt her, but just be honest, and tell her that every memory with her was a good one.