So I guess I do owe you guys a quick update.
Things are the same still, trying to progress with HB9model. We're hooking up on a weekly basis and her IL seems to be increasing still. To my surprise I am feeling like I'm ready for a relationship which I rarely feel for girls. I know she has high IL, all her friends love me, and she is a relationship type of girl (her last one was 2 years or something).
When I realized that I was ready for a relationship with her, I decided to let things unfold naturally, waiting for her to eventually ask for 'exclusivity' since that seems to be what most girls do. Although she has not asked nor talked about this, I have a couple reasons why. For a while she thought I was going to be moving away to Arizona for college but only a few days ago I told her I'd be staying in Southern California because some friends convinced me to move with them to a closer college (true). Also, in a month she'll be going on vacation for a month in Rome and Italy. Or she could simply be waiting for ME to start the relationship.
This is where I need some serious advice as I am foreign to relationships. What I don't want is for me to be waiting for her while she is waiting for me, and eventually her IL drops, thinking that I don't want a relationship since I have not talked about it.
Given the information and situation, do you guys think I should be the one to talk about this with her, and if so, which direction to go about it? Or I could continue to do what I'm doing and wait for hints.
p.s. we first hooked up less than a month ago