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Last night I was playing drinking games at a friend's house and one of the girls who I had hung out with a few times started calling me a bi*ch. She was like, "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch." I don't really understand what she was trying to do. I tried to keep my cool and let it roll off my back by reframing it to myself that she was attracted to me and that she was just "testing me." But after the 3rd or 4th time I calmly asked her if she wanted to meet the back of my hand. That shut her up for 10 minutes, but then she started up again! Should I have just treated her like a brat and told her to sit in timeout instead of saying something kind of violent? What do you guys do when a girl is trying to embarass you in public? I understand that she "won" because I let her get to me, but how do I NOT let her get to me?
 

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tell her to leave you alone.

verbally threatening to abuse her makes you look like a fycking loser
 

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I'm pretty sure telling her to leave you alone won't solve the problem. I don't really know what to tell ya. I haven't really been in that situation before.
 

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Originally posted by fmhstud83
Last night I was playing drinking games at a friend's house and one of the girls who I had hung out with a few times started calling me a bi*ch. She was like, "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch." I don't really understand what she was trying to do. I tried to keep my cool and let it roll off my back by reframing it to myself that she was attracted to me and that she was just "testing me." But after the 3rd or 4th time I calmly asked her if she wanted to meet the back of my hand. That shut her up for 10 minutes, but then she started up again! Should I have just treated her like a brat and told her to sit in timeout instead of saying something kind of violent? What do you guys do when a girl is trying to embarass you in public? I understand that she "won" because I let her get to me, but how do I NOT let her get to me?
next time u show her the back of your hand when she starts up again.
 

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hahaha, that's hilarious. from here on out when I'm tested like that in public, I'll laugh and show her the back of my hand. thanks raw
 

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tell her; "first few times it was funny, but now your getting anoying, PSSSSSTTTTTT!!!!!!

That should shut her up for another 10 minutes
 

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I hate it when moles do this. But I have a lovely comeback which certainly puts them in their place. I'll use your case as an example....

"YOU'RE SUCH A *****! YOU GOTTA STOP BEING A *****!

Me: "I may be a *****. You can call me anything you want. But at the end of the day, you're still f*cking ugly" *pleasant smile*

She may get huffy at that moment, but her confidence is sure to be shot from that & she will go quit. Sure to get a few laughs too.
 

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yea show her the back of your hand..and you can be shown the backside of metal bars in a small cage.
 

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come on guys, this stuff is basic. a woman knows the worst thing she can do to you is insult your manhood, and calling you a b*tch in front of people is doing so.

you gotta hit her back in her womanhood.

all you gotta say is something like ....

"you are a great example for other women of what happens when you get f*cked and tossed by too many men. Develop some self respect and maybe you'll stop talking like a street hooker."

or

"Honestly, the only women I've ever known who behave the way you are behaving have been sluts who have no self respect. Move on honey, I don't bang white trash" (assuming she's white)

anyway, any various that basically calls her a slut will send her reeling. She'll probably explode in explatives towards you, to which you keep hammering your point home "listen. get you're sh*t under control. Don't go all ballistic on me just becuase you've banged every tom **** and harry and have no self respect left."

J
 

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Originally posted by fmhstud83
Last night I was playing drinking games at a friend's house and one of the girls who I had hung out with a few times started calling me a bi*ch. She was like, "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch." I don't really understand what she was trying to do. I tried to keep my cool and let it roll off my back by reframing it to myself that she was attracted to me and that she was just "testing me." But after the 3rd or 4th time I calmly asked her if she wanted to meet the back of my hand. That shut her up for 10 minutes, but then she started up again! Should I have just treated her like a brat and told her to sit in timeout instead of saying something kind of violent? What do you guys do when a girl is trying to embarass you in public? I understand that she "won" because I let her get to me, but how do I NOT let her get to me?
You are a f**king b*tch if you are stupid enough to threaten physical vilonce against a girl atleast have the f**king balls to follow through..... B*TCH
 

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As I see it,

she is either Immature and is trying to test you in the stupidest way I can think of... I forgot who said it but throw it back at her verbally, don't threat physical harm because she will expect you to follow through, and will provoke you until you do hit her, so just don't name physical harm at all (this girl seems like trouble... how old are you?)

or she is a piece of garbage and knows you aren't garbage and is going to provoke you for being happy.

I've been in both situations and I dropped both girls, be cautious, these types of girls are the ones who will make your life hell if you don't send them there first.:down:
 

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Originally posted by fmhstud83
I don't really understand what she was trying to do. I tried to keep my cool and let it roll off my back by reframing it to myself that she was attracted to me and that she was just "testing me."
You would have been in a much better situation if you would have said that out loud what you thought deep inside. In every action there is a natural reaction. You could have turned the tables on her and made her seem like the fool.

Her: "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch."

You: Why do you like me so much?? instead of being a little girl why don't you really tell me how much you like me???

Her: " wtf! I don't like you, you are a b1tch"

You: Then why don't you leave me alone if you don't like me?? last girl that called me a b1tch I ended up having sex with her!! continue this behaviour and everyone will know what you really want!!!!

Her: Whatever!! (deep down she will be thinking how the fvck you were able to twist this around and use her words against her!!lol)

Words are like weapons. Know how to disarm your enemies and use their own words against them.
 

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is wayne brady gonna have to choke a *****! lol hahahahah
 

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holy shi*t Djdamage that's an awesome idea. turning the tables like that and demonstrating my control by accusing her of wanting to sleep with me. i really need to work on just expressing what i feel instead of ignoring or threatening. thanks dude
 

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