Discussion: You catch your GF/Wife texting another man at midnight

[SW15]

I seen someone's list on here that went something like
1. Alpha males
2. High smv females
3. average females
4. beta males

or something to this extent... If this is the case, then them having female friends is just as bad as gay friends.

You have an accurate depiction of the hierarchy in the sexual marketplace.

There's no reason for an attached woman to text any male who isn't a family member at midnight.

Or at any other time for that matter, IMO.

I like this idea. However, it becomes difficult to enforce in a romantic relationship.

It's possible to screen women for having gay male friends. If you do that, it reduces the available pool of women. especially if your pool of women is mainly Millennial and Gen Z women. Since I am an early Millennial, most of the Millennial generation represents the age range that I seek in romantic relationships. I would say that a significant portion of Millennial unmarried women today have at least one gay male acquaintance or friend. It might even be above 50%. I screen on other things that are more important to me than women having gay male friends.

Although I won't text women who are current co-workers or past co-workers I now count as acquaintances or quasi friends after 8-9 PM, I have had female co-workers or female past co-workers who are industry/field connections text me between 10 PM - 1 AM. Some of them have been married women or women in relationships, some were unattached. None of those texting women has ever placed a phone call to me during those hours. It's my hope that none of my girlfriends ever did that sort of thing.

I have not lived with any of my girlfriends. On nights where a girlfriend is not sleeping at my place, there would be no way for me to know if a girlfriend is texting any male who is not a family member at late hours. I'd like to think that women I've dated haven't done that.

Much of it comes down to screening for characteristics of trustworthiness.