Did I fvcking blow my no contact?

[mrpickles666]

I got the last word in (let me know when you wanna get together). Does that make my no contact less effective in the long run? Is the potential of her contacting me lowered because of that statement?

 

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You've got this all wrong brother. For a start you care too much which means it's already game over for you. Game is about control. The moment you stop giving a sh1t is when you start winning. A girl is not your ticket to happiness. Find happiness first and then you'll get the girls.

 

[EvilSpirit22]

Yes it does. You are not suppose to leave a door open for your ex for reconciliation. She still thinks you're waiting for her or would let her back in your life. But what you can do is block her on every social networking platform like facebook etc and if someday she decides to contact you then she'll get a surprise and then you can tell her that I am sorry but I can not waste my time on you.

 

[mrpickles666]

Yes it does. You are not suppose to leave a door open for your ex for reconciliation. She still thinks you're waiting for her or would let her back in your life. But what you can do is block her on every social networking platform like facebook etc and if someday she decides to contact you then she'll get a surprise and then you can tell her that I am sorry but I can not waste my time on you.

so now I have less of a chance of her coming back? If I didn't say anything, we could get back together more naturally? Would I be telling her the same thing you're saying even if i didn't get the last word in?

 

[mrpickles666]

Has anybody ever got the last word in like I did and still had an effective no contact?

 

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Has anybody ever got the last word in like I did and still had an effective no contact?

'Last words' and 'effective no contact' are a contradiction in terms so I'm thinking the answer would be no.

 

[mrpickles666]

'Last words' and 'effective no contact' are a contradiction in terms so I'm thinking the answer would be no.

I just said "let me know when you wanna get together" and left it at that. I'm not gonna contact her ever again unless she reaches out. So my no contact is fvcked?

 

[mrpickles666]

SO I MADE IT LOOK LIKE IM WAITING AND SHE WALKED ALL OVER ME AND WILL NEVER GET RESPECT BACK? Honest answer please.

 

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SO I MADE IT LOOK LIKE IM WAITING AND SHE WALKED ALL OVER ME AND WILL NEVER GET RESPECT BACK? Honest answer please.

Yes. But only in your head. Like I said. Once you stop giving a sh1t none of this will matter. As long as you care what others think you will always be the doormat that others walk all over whether it's men or women.

 

[zorg198]

Picture this in your head,

She's fvcking other dude, she's doing whatever she wants . you wait for her to come back.

Read this couple of times and let me know what do you think about yourself.

Jor.

 

[mrpickles666]

Yes. But only in your head. Like I said. Once you stop giving a sh1t none of this will matter. As long as you care what others think you will always be the doormat that others walk all over whether it's men or women.

Do you still think I could get a shot even with that phaggot beta b1tch "let me know when you wanna get together?"

 

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Do you still think I could get a shot even with that phaggot beta b1tch "let me know when you wanna get together?"

Let me make this crystal clear to you. With your current mind set you have absolutely NO CHANCE. You care too much. Am I getting through to you?

 

[EvilSpirit22]

She ain't coming back. Read this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=222937

 

[Alvafe]

first it don't amtter how you end it or if you had teh last word or not, no contact is about you forget about this girl and move on, to ignore all msg she send you after if she does(that make the last word you want void), you don't look for info on her, delete and block her from all media(cellphone, facebook, e-mail whatever else you had her on), and move on.

what you are trying to do is to force her think she needs you and making her miss you. and that will not work. no contact is not about the girl, is about you, you moving on, you learning from your mistakes and meeting new people without wasting time on her, to make your mind forget about her. I did heard some people saying doing so make they girl come back but I never did remember anyone saying they never break up again

 

[Giantsfan88]

I read it...

She ain't coming back. Read this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=222937

(This is mrpickles666) But a lot of it doesn't apply to my situation, she never ignored my calls and never disrespected me. We only went on a couple of dates and were supposed to each other again a week after the second date and dangerous weather hit. Sh1t got in the way from is seeing each other and without quality time together, it could weaken which is part of it. I contacted her too much without giving her space to contact me which I know was a mistake for her IL. She even invited me to her to something nice and I declined saying "coming to my house." I could have accepted her invitation and rekindled. She didn't do anything that bad and I think you're being way too black and white about it. I still admit my mistakes though.

 

[Giantsfan88]

first it don't amtter how you end it or if you had teh last word or not, no contact is about you forget about this girl and move on, to ignore all msg she send you after if she does(that make the last word you want void), you don't look for info on her, delete and block her from all media(cellphone, facebook, e-mail whatever else you had her on), and move on.

what you are trying to do is to force her think she needs you and making her miss you. and that will not work. no contact is not about the girl, is about you, you moving on, you learning from your mistakes and meeting new people without wasting time on her, to make your mind forget about her. I did heard some people saying doing so make they girl come back but I never did remember anyone saying they never break up again

(Mrpickles666) Why does it have to be that cold? I'm not saying I'd chase her but if she hits me up and I feel like seeing her again, why the fvck not? We had fun and good chemistry

 

[LMFAO]

You care too fvcking much about a girl you had a second date with. A second date means NOTHNG. You are caught up in some disney romance with a girl you barely know. You do realise how pathetic it sounds? Grow the fvck up.

Sh1t happens you didn't see each other again plus she's not interested. Who the fvck cares. Stop posting about it. Go and improve yourself and meet new women and stop making yourself look like a complete mental case on here posting the exact same thing a thousand times.

 

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(Mrpickles666) Why does it have to be that cold? I'm not saying I'd chase her but if she hits me up and I feel like seeing her again, why the fvck not? We had fun and good chemistry

Why the fvck not? Why the fvck are you going NC in the first place? Why the fvck are you even here asking advice? That's why the fvck not.

If she's DTF though absolutely no reason not to hit it. But will you hit it, is the question.

 

[Giantsfan88]

You care too fvcking much about a girl you had a second date with. A second date means NOTHNG. You are caught up in some disney romance with a girl you barely know. You do realise how pathetic it sounds? Grow the fvck up.

Sh1t happens you didn't see each other again plus she's not interested. Who the fvck cares. Stop posting about it. Go and improve yourself and meet new women and stop making yourself look like a complete mental case on here posting the exact same thing a thousand times.

Grow the fvck up? Mental case? I fvcked up and yeah I'm done with these forums for good. You don't know who the fvck I'm meeting, what I'm doing, anything about this girl's actual interest level, the situation, or sh1t about me other than I realize and just cant digest my mistakes right now and I'd rather vent here that than hit her up again. Everything here is or it isn't and maybe if I just went with my natural instincts her interest would have increased rather than relationship/dating "geniuses" feeding me negative bullsh1t from the beginning that fed my overthinking

 

[Giantsfan88]

Why the fvck not? Why the fvck are you going NC in the first place? Why the fvck are you even here asking advice? That's why the fvck not.

If she's DTF though absolutely no reason not to hit it. But will you hit it, is the question.

To me it sounds mad butt hurt and blantatly ego driven for me to ignore her completely if she hit me up being nice and genuinely interested. She didn't do anything bad and whenever the time comes, I'll be a better guy and start fresh. And if another girl/girls are around at the time, I'll make MY choice