Did I fvcking blow my no contact?

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To me it sounds mad butt hurt and blantatly ego driven for me to ignore her completely if she hit me up being nice and genuinely interested. She didn't do anything bad and whenever the time comes, I'll be a better guy and start fresh. And if another girl/girls are around at the time, I'll make MY choice

Of course it would be absurd to not hit it if she came running to you unless she was batsh1t crazy. But why don't you cross that bridge when you get to it? You're way overthinking this. Next you'll be planning a wedding.

Trust me when I say we have all been where you are now. We all thought we knew best only to eat humble pie. If you stick around you will learn some very useful things. By all means make your choice. See what happens. If it works out, come back and tell us.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Yes it does. You are not suppose to leave a door open for your ex for reconciliation. She still thinks you're waiting for her or would let her back in your life. But what you can do is block her on every social networking platform like facebook etc and if someday she decides to contact you then she'll get a surprise and then you can tell her that I am sorry but I can not waste my time on you.

This is what I did.She blocked me first, I waited months and months then one day I snapped and blocked her.I'm pretty sure one day she will get bored and will drop me msg thinking I was good pet dog waiting for bone and then surprise surprise ... let her feel just a bit how it feels.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Picture this in your head,

She's fvcking other dude, she's doing whatever she wants . you wait for her to come back.

Read this couple of times and let me know what do you think about yourself.

Jor.

Go more ... imagine she sucks other guy d|ck and balls, when you cry,think,miss her - because this is what she does.

 

[Yewki]

Going full blown NC is a tool to help you move on. In order to use it correctly you have to actually understand this. The problem is you're trying to use it just to get her back.

If you manage to trick her into coming back to you, you'll still have the same problem... which is, you're still a little b*tch.

 

[Giantsfan88]

Trick her? Wtf is that? As far as she's concerned, I'm aloof. She can never know about any of what I've talked about here. I'm a little b1tch? Fvck you message board tough guy. I hope I get banned.

 

[Yewki]

Trick her? Wtf is that? As far as she's concerned, I'm aloof. She can never know about any of what I've talked about here.

Exactly, you're trying to trick her. As in fake it. If your plan works and she comes back to you, congrats... you haven't changed. History repeats itself.

I'm a little b1tch? Fvck you message board tough guy. I hope I get banned.

Well I didn't expect you to be thrilled about it. Not sure why you hope to get banned though, an easier way is just to stop returning.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Simple answer: yes, you' did blow it. You turned your no contact into her no contact. She's running this thing now, at least while you care that is.

Learn from this. It seems like from the butthurt in this thread, you're only seeking validation for what you hope is the truth. No one here is gonna tell you "yeah dawg, you playing like the boss" because they'd rather help you with the actual truth. The ugly truth is bettr than a beautiful lie. Embrace it, move on, overcome it next time you're in a situation like this.

 

[Giantsfan88]

How is she running it? I just walked away apparently unaffected. Why would that make her less likely to ever initiate?

 

[Giantsfan88]

Simple answer: yes, you' did blow it. You turned your no contact into her no contact. She's running this thing now, at least while you care that is.

Learn from this. It seems like from the butthurt in this thread, you're only seeking validation for what you hope is the truth. No one here is gonna tell you "yeah dawg, you playing like the boss" because they'd rather help you with the actual truth. The ugly truth is bettr than a beautiful lie. Embrace it, move on, overcome it next time you're in a situation like this.

Why do you have to say it's finalized like a death? All I asked about what I communicated through my words.

 

[Giantsfan88]

Simple answer: yes, you' did blow it. You turned your no contact into her no contact. She's running this thing now, at least while you care that is.

Learn from this. It seems like from the butthurt in this thread, you're only seeking validation for what you hope is the truth. No one here is gonna tell you "yeah dawg, you playing like the boss" because they'd rather help you with the actual truth. The ugly truth is bettr than a beautiful lie. Embrace it, move on, overcome it next time you're in a situation like this.

I'm not embracing sh1t that fvcking blows that I had to say "let me know when you wanna get together" like a fvcking phaggot and now my NC can NEVER work. I'm so tight right now.

 

[Thorninmyside]

How is she running it?

Probably by wiping some other dude's load off her chin right now while you're starting multiple posts hoping for someone to agree with you so you can stop feeling like sh*t about what you know to be true. Phaggs don't come any phaggier than you, so good luck boss and I'll be the first to high five you and call you the man when she comes begging.