Did I freak my secretary out?

[TheGambino]

Hi guys,

A couple of days ago I came back from a short vacation trip. I had the usual fun with my secretary I made some threads about. Laughing and having fun. Ok I made some comments towards her I regret now;

I said that her neck is her weak spot (cexual).

And I made some more cexual jokes in the air not perse towards her. And I made a cexual joke of her grabbing a box of salt and put in her mouth from above. Just making fun of her all day. She flirts like she was used too. Ok

this week she was supposed to work solo with me at work cuz our colleague took a week off. She said sunday I’m going to buy some small stuff for your office tommorow and see you at work bye. She also said again like always. What your cooking later? What are you going to do tommorow? With whom.... which confuses me everytime. I stay unclear.

she texts me today at the end of the day;
I’ve seen a male friend Friday evening and he has corona. I called the corona help phone thing and they told me to go in quarantaine for 10 days. I’m so sorry maybe I can work from home. I’m so sorry.

She also told my colleague that her ex and her Broke up for good two weeks ago and she didn’t tell me so!

She knows we are working together upcoming week and now magically she can’t work for 10 days. Told her to do a test and then she if she can come but her parents won’t let her since the risk is too high.

did I freak her off? Is this legit? Any thoughts reminding my last threads about her?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Man you need to get a hold of yourself. Honestly who cares. Your conduct at work should be professional oriented and this is far from it.

Would you want to work in an environment where your boss was hitting on you all the time and made things uncomfortable?

Maybe it is real maybe it isn't. People lie to employers all the time about stuff. Maybe she is going for other interviews etc.

 

[dude99]

Hi guys,

A couple of days ago I came back from a short vacation trip. I had the usual fun with my secretary I made some threads about. Laughing and having fun. Ok I made some comments towards her I regret now;

I said that her neck is her weak spot (cexual).

And I made some more cexual jokes in the air not perse towards her. And I made a cexual joke of her grabbing a box of salt and put in her mouth from above. Just making fun of her all day. She flirts like she was used too. Ok

this week she was supposed to work solo with me at work cuz our colleague took a week off. She said sunday I’m going to buy some small stuff for your office tommorow and see you at work bye.

she texts me today at the end of the day;
I’ve seen a male friend Friday evening and he has corona. I called the corona help phone thing and they told me to go in quarantaine for 10 days. I’m so sorry maybe I can work from home. I’m so sorry.

She also told my colleague that her ex and her Broke up for good two weeks ago and she didn’t tell me so!

She knows we are working together upcoming week and now magically she can’t work for 10 days. Told her to do a test and then she if she can come but her parents won’t let her since the risk is too high.

did I freak her off? Is this legit? Any thoughts reminding my last threads about her?

Is this the same 20 year old you made a previous thread about?

 

[TheGambino]

Is this the same 20 year old you made a previous thread about?

Yes.

 

[Baibars]

You care too much for whatever reason. Whenever i cared too much, i felt bad. Women don't care about you as long as you're not useful to them. I think this woman only cares about her job.
There is a girl at my job i like and she is nice to me whenever we have to work together or she has questions. She is nice to everyone especially if she needs something. This is what i observed. If she'd be interested in me, she would act different towards me. I treat her like every other person at work.
Why should we care about them if they don't show enough interest?

 

[death_wish. .]

20 yrs old is YOUNG. its pretty likely you scared her off.(which is silly on her part to lie about it instead of just confiding in you and telling you she is not interested) smh thats the mind of a 20 yr old girl i guess, just lie and go find another job
NEXT.

 

[Lookatu]

Hate to say it but I saw this train wreck coming from your first thread...

 

[TheGambino]

Hate to say it but I saw this train wreck coming from your first thread...

You think this move from her has to do with everything that happened or might be legit?

 

[bat soup]

Hi guys,

A couple of days ago I came back from a short vacation trip. I had the usual fun with my secretary I made some threads about. Laughing and having fun. Ok I made some comments towards her I regret now;

I said that her neck is her weak spot (cexual).

And I made some more cexual jokes in the air not perse towards her. And I made a cexual joke of her grabbing a box of salt and put in her mouth from above. Just making fun of her all day. She flirts like she was used too. Ok

this week she was supposed to work solo with me at work cuz our colleague took a week off. She said sunday I’m going to buy some small stuff for your office tommorow and see you at work bye.

she texts me today at the end of the day;
I’ve seen a male friend Friday evening and he has corona. I called the corona help phone thing and they told me to go in quarantaine for 10 days. I’m so sorry maybe I can work from home. I’m so sorry.

She also told my colleague that her ex and her Broke up for good two weeks ago and she didn’t tell me so!

She knows we are working together upcoming week and now magically she can’t work for 10 days. Told her to do a test and then she if she can come but her parents won’t let her since the risk is too high.

did I freak her off? Is this legit? Any thoughts reminding my last threads about her?

Get rid of her and hire an unattractive matronly-looking woman or a guy to do her job. Otherwise, instead of getting on with your business you're going to be wasting time dealing with all of this BS and drama at work. From her behaviour it's clear that she's not into you at all and if you continue you're going to get yourself into trouble and ruin your business and your reputation.

 

[Glassguy]

Oh look. The 9th thread about this same chick who you've never even had sex with.

Put me down for tomorrow's thread, which will be the 25th edition of "I'm back and working on myself thread".

Seriously. Get a grip. Who tf cares what this girl thinks.

 

[TheGambino]

Oh look. The 9th thread about this same chick who you've never even had sex with.

Put me down for tomorrow's thread, which will be the 25th edition of "I'm back and working on myself thread".

Seriously. Get a grip. Who tf cares what this girl thinks.

Bro, I feel ashamed that I got so caught up. The chemistry is too much and I’m too focused on her for a reason. Its so true, who cares anyway..

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

This is 100% going to result in a law suit, you are Texting her which means she has a factual record of what you are saying, she is probably recording you or what you are saying in the office.

If you have Sex with her past this point, you need to get her consent, even if you do, if she withdraws consent during, and you don't stop, that is rape.

This stinks of a set up dude, no woman is gonna respect you after all this, she'll only entertain it because she has something to gain from you.

 

[Knight of Roses]

This is a dangerous line, if she feels uncomfortable at work and reports your ass, you could lose your job.

I would never hit on my assistants, having s3x with your assistants or underlings should be more of a spontaneous event rather than a maturing romance. You both went to a Christmas party, got drunk, and had fun in the back of her car? Sure.

But hitting on her over the course of weeks with the goal to get some ass? No way

 

[Alvafe]

Bro, I feel ashamed that I got so caught up. The chemistry is too much and I’m too focused on her for a reason. Its so true, who cares anyway..

you still didn't answer @samspade question, are you banging someone else?

we told you over and over to stop, because right now is the girl the problem its you, you are going overdrive over thinking about evey little sh!t she does and what it means.

one rule to follow is it never means sh!t, if even banging her there is a chance it will mean nothing to her, so stop.

 

[TheGambino]

you still didn't answer @samspade question, are you banging someone else?

we told you over and over to stop, because right now is the girl the problem its you, you are going overdrive over thinking about evey little sh!t she does and what it means.

one rule to follow is it never means sh!t, if even banging her there is a chance it will mean nothing to her, so stop.

Yes I bang another 1, yes I spin plates again and pursue new women. I went on a date also but I can’t seem to get over this one. To be honest I’m not sure if she’s playing or if she’s dtf her boss. I would gf her if everything goes well.

either she told her parents she likes me and they told her to take some time off work to settle her mind. Either her story is legit or she is really freaked out and not interested which I seriousley doubt. We really vibe and laugh great. I think she’s confused too because I game her, make her feel good, funny, push pull. I make her feel everything to make her submit and she does...

 

[bat soup]

Yes I bang another 1, yes I spin plates again and pursue new women. I went on a date also but I can’t seem to get over this one. To be honest I’m not sure if she’s playing or if she’s dtf her boss. I would gf her if everything goes well.

either she told her parents she likes me and they told her to take some time off work to settle her mind. Either her story is legit or she is really freaked out and not interested which I seriousley doubt. We really vibe and laugh great.

If she liked you she'd be banging you instead of giving you excuses.

 

[TheGambino]

If she liked you she'd be banging you instead of giving you excuses.

What excuses? I didn’t invite her to my house ever? The only thing is , she wouldn’t mention a guy friend she hanged out with friday night. But then again I tell her also I date a chick.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If she liked you she'd be banging you instead of giving you excuses.

Yep, there is nothing to ever force or finangle. She would be THROWING herself at you...

By the way it's a bad move anyway. There are billions of women in the world, pick one that has less reciprocal damage that can be caused.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Cease and desist.

 

[bat soup]

What excuses?

She said she was ill to avoid being alone with you.