orbion2013 said:
f@ck saKe... everybody keeps telling me, i have the upper hand by going complete ghost on her, from the very day we had the argument..
yet it does not feel that way... she is the one who sent me the email 6 days later, saying its over...
i don't see how i have the upper hand.... don't worry guys, i will not be texting her... just does not feel good thats all
I like your situation bro.
You have the upper hand, you have the strength but you don't realize it. She threated you bad. Doesn't matter that you made mistakes in the past, you now acted like a man and cut contact from her. You went ghost and
ignored her bullsh*t. It doesn't matter what she texts afterwards, it's all an ego issue, shes trying to convince you and herself that shes ending it, that it's her choise but to be honest it was yours!
If you begged her and acted all AFC or responded with any kind of text she would get validation for her bullsh*T. At that point she will move on and forget about you. Now that you went ghost first and she kept communicating to you, it's really you that have the upper hand. I wish I was in the same situation with a ex of mine but I replied to her and even showed desperate signs so she pulled out and left me for good.
If you want to move on as a man of value, and have her confused about the break up and confused if it was right to threat you badly and have her obsess about you, keep on no contact, keep on ghost and MOVE ON, talk to other girls. You have the upper hand in this situaton for real. If you tell her it's over or tell her anything, she will know how you feel about the situation (doesn't matter if you tell her your indifferent or hurt or dont care about her) and she will get her reply and she will forget about you eventually. If you dont reply at all she will die to know what's on your mind and that's what shes doing, contactig you all the time to get any kind of reaction,
don't give her that validation, attention. If she threated you right over the years and was loving and a good girl, talk to her man end it, if she made your life miserable, ''GHOST''.
Case closed.