TheBaconator
Senior Don Juan
I just need some advice on this.
My ex dumped me but I was an AFC back then and took the whole need space line and got down and hoped she would end up missing me and come back. I went no contact and after about a month she contacted me but when I asked to hang out she played it off. So I stopped talking to her and decided I didn't want her in my life period since she had become such a *****. She tried talking to me friendly after that about 2 weeks later and I told her I don't have anything to say to her and we should just pretty much forget one another.
Now flash forward a couple weeks after that, my grandma got ill and was in the hospital and she found out and came to visit. I was too focused on my grandma to hold a grudge against her during this, but now she talks to me online like we are friends, and I never told her why I was really so angry (her not givin me another chance and moving on so fast), and well I don't want her back at all, I don't really want her as a friend. I know it's not very DJish to hold a grudge, but this girl really fuked me for a while and after 3.5 years wasted. Part of me wants to just ask her why she changed so much, but at the same time I know the right thing to do is probably just focus on bettering myself, but I just feel like I'm letting her get away with screwing me over and now being nice to her. WTF should I do?
My ex dumped me but I was an AFC back then and took the whole need space line and got down and hoped she would end up missing me and come back. I went no contact and after about a month she contacted me but when I asked to hang out she played it off. So I stopped talking to her and decided I didn't want her in my life period since she had become such a *****. She tried talking to me friendly after that about 2 weeks later and I told her I don't have anything to say to her and we should just pretty much forget one another.
Now flash forward a couple weeks after that, my grandma got ill and was in the hospital and she found out and came to visit. I was too focused on my grandma to hold a grudge against her during this, but now she talks to me online like we are friends, and I never told her why I was really so angry (her not givin me another chance and moving on so fast), and well I don't want her back at all, I don't really want her as a friend. I know it's not very DJish to hold a grudge, but this girl really fuked me for a while and after 3.5 years wasted. Part of me wants to just ask her why she changed so much, but at the same time I know the right thing to do is probably just focus on bettering myself, but I just feel like I'm letting her get away with screwing me over and now being nice to her. WTF should I do?