Dealing with Douche-bags on date [VID]

[zekko]

Here's another lesson to take from this video:

All this stuff you read here about an alpha being a guy who is dominant over women, it's garbage. An alpha is a guy who can dominate other MEN. That's what women look for. Notice how Louie gets dominated here, and it churns the girl's stomach. Because he has been shown to be totally and thoroughly beta, or worse. At this point he can be as indifferent with women as much as he wants, but his true colors have been revealed.

I'm not saying a guy has to be alpha to get women. But there's no trick to dominating women, any male without his head stuck up his @ss should be able to dominate a woman. But to dominate other men, that's something not everybody can do. And that's what sets apart a real alpha. You can see that in nature.

There are 5 of them. I'm a big guy about 6'4" and 300lbs. I boxed since I was a kid and I'm in reasonably good shape. Those 5 would kill me without too much difficulty. They are rowdy and at the age where they fight for fun and seem like the type where it can get dangerous quickly. I would puss out and leave.

If the girl I'm with doesn't like that, if she would prefer me to be comatose on a fast food restaurant floor with my teeth in my hair than back away from 5 guys than she is not the girl for me.

Only problem I see with this is that five guys weren't threatening him, just one guy was threatening him. You do have to expect his buddies would jump in it, but you don't know that for sure. If I were to fight this guy, I would say something along the lines of "Is this going to be one on one, or are your buddies gonna jump in too?". Not that you could take his word, but still.

 

[cablecow15]

What would you have done in this situation?

I would've quietly asked them if they could tone it down a bit. If for some reason he approached me and my date and threatened me, I would hit him with the line I usually give guys who try to start things with me: "You can try."

I have a habit of observing my surroundings wherever I am in case of a fight. Though I am trained for MMA fighting, this would be a street brawl, and I'd imagine his buddies would try to get in it. I would use the environment to the best of my advantage in this case.

Has something like this ever happened to you?

Growing up, I was always a pretty heavy kid, so I got picked on a lot and had to defend myself several times. Sometimes I'd win, other times... a few of them would walk away hurting at least haha. In high school, I was 6'6" and over 425 lbs., but I still had some muscle and was surprisingly fast for my size. Was in a few fights, but no situations like this.

Since I've dropped the weight (over 200 lbs.) and put on a crapload of muscle, I tend to be more intimidating these days. I was out on a date once and some kids were loud, but when I asked them if they could be a bit quieter, they apologized and things were fine.

How far in/at one point would you have done something?

When the kid came to the table is when I would've geared up for something, and especially when he waved his hand in the woman's face.

Bass Rutten vids are the best , and their hilarious to boot