Went out with an HB9 this week to a bar. 10 minutes before the date was supposed to take place she said she's really sorry but she misunderstood the gps transport planning app on her phone and she's going to be late and apologised again. I thought OK then if she's a little late and she informs me no big deal I suppose. The rationalisation in my head is that she's really hot and that I'll make an exception.
Walked around a bit in the city and then went to the bar and had a drink while waiting. 30 minutes later I got a phone call from her saying she's arrived in the area and just walking down there, see you in 2 minutes.
Nothing for 5 minutes, at this point I was really debating whether to walk and go home. Then 15 minutes later she called me to say she couldn't find the place in a massive panic and that she asked passers by and no one knew. I walked outside and waved at her. She apologised. I asked her if she parked nearby, she said no she took a train (which takes all of 20 minutes and you'd have to be a total idiot to mess it up - on reflection it sounds like she didn't leave the house until basically the time the date was set on).
Had a couple of rounds of drinks with her, she was very flirty and had a good time although when it came round to the bill she wouldn't even offer to pay. Kissed her goodnight though she wouldn't go for a deep kiss. A closed kiss on the lips which was fvcking bizzare. Texted her a couple of days later, and guess what she's gone ghost. Surprise surprise. I know no one in her social circle so nothing to lose, so I texted her this beauty: "I didn't know it was possible to be as late to responding to a text as to that date, but seems like it is".
Moral of the story:
1) Girls are quite often late to dates, but if it's over 20 minutes then I'm off whether they tell me in advance or not they are running late I don't give a fvck. Even if it's the hottest girl in the world.
2) Not rewarding a girl with a kiss for bad behaviour.
3) Cutting the date shorter than the 2 hours wasted with her. It's too long for a first date. One and an half hours tops.
Walked around a bit in the city and then went to the bar and had a drink while waiting. 30 minutes later I got a phone call from her saying she's arrived in the area and just walking down there, see you in 2 minutes.
Nothing for 5 minutes, at this point I was really debating whether to walk and go home. Then 15 minutes later she called me to say she couldn't find the place in a massive panic and that she asked passers by and no one knew. I walked outside and waved at her. She apologised. I asked her if she parked nearby, she said no she took a train (which takes all of 20 minutes and you'd have to be a total idiot to mess it up - on reflection it sounds like she didn't leave the house until basically the time the date was set on).
Had a couple of rounds of drinks with her, she was very flirty and had a good time although when it came round to the bill she wouldn't even offer to pay. Kissed her goodnight though she wouldn't go for a deep kiss. A closed kiss on the lips which was fvcking bizzare. Texted her a couple of days later, and guess what she's gone ghost. Surprise surprise. I know no one in her social circle so nothing to lose, so I texted her this beauty: "I didn't know it was possible to be as late to responding to a text as to that date, but seems like it is".
Moral of the story:
1) Girls are quite often late to dates, but if it's over 20 minutes then I'm off whether they tell me in advance or not they are running late I don't give a fvck. Even if it's the hottest girl in the world.
2) Not rewarding a girl with a kiss for bad behaviour.
3) Cutting the date shorter than the 2 hours wasted with her. It's too long for a first date. One and an half hours tops.