Ok just looking for some general feedback on call flakes here.
So I met a girl and within a short time of some chit chat, I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and I said I would call her on a certain night.
Later I sent her a text message saying "hey this is so and so, just wanted to let you know I this is my cell #. I will give you a call around 7 pm on this day."
She responded to the text that it was ok to call at that time that she would be around. We sent a few quick texts back and forth throughout the day but nothing too heavy.
Anyway, I called her about 20 minutes past the time I said I would (remember I said I would call her "around" a certain time). It went straight to voicemail. I left a short message saying "hey its XXXXX, how are are you, give me a call sometime I will be around, bye"
I never heard from her that night, but this morning I get a text saying that she got my message and that she was out with her friends but her phone died.
Here is the thing: if you make an agreement to talk to someone at a certain time and that person decides to go out without their phone charged, that is a major flake in my opinion. Of course it could be a lie.
What is the best way to keep the momentum going here? I think she is trying to test me, which is odd because she is over 30 and so am I. We aren't highschool kids.
Let me know. I still haven't responded to her text yet explaining to me why she didn't answer.
So I met a girl and within a short time of some chit chat, I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and I said I would call her on a certain night.
Later I sent her a text message saying "hey this is so and so, just wanted to let you know I this is my cell #. I will give you a call around 7 pm on this day."
She responded to the text that it was ok to call at that time that she would be around. We sent a few quick texts back and forth throughout the day but nothing too heavy.
Anyway, I called her about 20 minutes past the time I said I would (remember I said I would call her "around" a certain time). It went straight to voicemail. I left a short message saying "hey its XXXXX, how are are you, give me a call sometime I will be around, bye"
I never heard from her that night, but this morning I get a text saying that she got my message and that she was out with her friends but her phone died.
Here is the thing: if you make an agreement to talk to someone at a certain time and that person decides to go out without their phone charged, that is a major flake in my opinion. Of course it could be a lie.
What is the best way to keep the momentum going here? I think she is trying to test me, which is odd because she is over 30 and so am I. We aren't highschool kids.
Let me know. I still haven't responded to her text yet explaining to me why she didn't answer.