ibew_bro
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 7, 2018
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Hey board got a question for you. About a 1-1/2 years ago I was messing with a women for a few months when it came to an end..I didnt want it to becasue we were having a good time but, She became very flakey. We got into a argument over her flaking out on me one night and not showing up without a call or text. So it ended with her saying she just wants to be friends. I agreed because to be honest I wasnt in love with her and She wasnt relationship material so I really didnt care... Anyway, This girl has continued to message me via FB every few months asking how I am etc..I always end up messenging her back and it goes back and forth a few times. Ive asked her to meet a few times but she made excuses and the the last time I told her to call me, She never did...
I know most of you guys are probably going to say just ghost her or whatever...The truth is, She was awesome in bed and I want another ride! Otherwise I would just ghost her. So my question is, Whats the best strategy to build her attraction for me so that I can maybe get her to actually commit to meeting me again? I know she is just playing her little game to boost her ego with me.
So should I just stop responding all together in hopes that maybe that will spark her interest in me more?
Should I just respond with a few back and forths without suggesting a meet up? Then just say ok Take care of yourself?
Should I ask her to meet me again and when she refuses, ask her, Why she is reaching out then? Since I know here response will be " We are friends" My response will be "no we arent, We never were, We were lovers so there is really no sense in you contacting me anymore"
Any opinions would be appreciated
I know most of you guys are probably going to say just ghost her or whatever...The truth is, She was awesome in bed and I want another ride! Otherwise I would just ghost her. So my question is, Whats the best strategy to build her attraction for me so that I can maybe get her to actually commit to meeting me again? I know she is just playing her little game to boost her ego with me.
So should I just stop responding all together in hopes that maybe that will spark her interest in me more?
Should I just respond with a few back and forths without suggesting a meet up? Then just say ok Take care of yourself?
Should I ask her to meet me again and when she refuses, ask her, Why she is reaching out then? Since I know here response will be " We are friends" My response will be "no we arent, We never were, We were lovers so there is really no sense in you contacting me anymore"
Any opinions would be appreciated