Dating Young girl and getting dumped ?

[Buddha]

Hello guys,
Need your opinion here. So I have a good job, travel around and basically good life. Have girls in every country/continents I travel to, but I just sleep with them when am there. Basically young girls - who doesn't like 5 star hotel and nice bars and stuffs? I never buy gifts or anything , just good time. But over the time, you feel empty after ****ing so many girls and crave for that SOMEONE where you can be yourself and build something for life.

And then 3 months back I met this girl and went on a dinner date which went way nicer than I was expecting. We had sex right in the restaurant after they closed (Restaurant owner knows me)
Next day we were planning for 2nd date where I turned AFC, writing her and asking out mostly. We fixed a date after 2 days and I went on with a gift for her, waiting till I get the message she is on the way, and next thing I know she blocked me.

A little about this girl- she is only 23, a social butterfly, 10/10, having several guys lined up, buying her super expensive stuffs, had a pretty bad relationship and after that she turned bitter and had several hookups.

Now back to the story- So I totally NC her for a week and sent her a message from other chat app where she responded immediately As I was traveling we scheduled another date once I was back and he had sex again. Before leaving her place, I mentioned this is our last meeting because of her last time behavior where she cried and said she wants me and that was done by her colleagues because she was freaking out.
Same week, she invited me to go out with her and meet all her girl friends. That was a great night and we end up having sex on the same bed as her friend passed out after heavy drinking. Same night we also had a fight because I found in her phone she was sending the same reveling picture to other guys same time she was sending me whole week.

Next morning , I got up wth several texts from her saying we can not hangout anymore if I don't want something serious as she wants a relationship with me , and guess what- I said yes , only if she get her life clean and get rid of previous guys from her phone/life.

We had several dates where she started introducing to me too her friends and colleagues etc and many times we had fight over her texting,sending pics to her previous guys/hookups.

After dating almost 1.5 months, we went on a weekend holiday, and that night again I saw her phone and learned the following
1. She ****ed a guy hour before coming to my place and having sex with me
2. She write to a guy that she is seeing me in front of me after our one fight, later texting him it was someone else who wrote this message from her phone.

I woke her up to confront and she started panicking and packed her bag in the morning and went away. Ofcourse I tried to stop her and asked for explanation for which she just tried to run away saying she needs time to be alone.

I didn't contact her for a week and she makes Instagram stories of being on a date with the 2nd guy and next day blocking me on the IG but not on other apps which she did earlier.
It's been now 3 weeks, and I have maintained the NC. Now my questions is if anyone can 'Decode" this behavior. Ofcourse I do not want her as relationship anymore, but definitely she is fun and wild to be with, making me feel much more younger and alive. Is there way to get her back just for that part ? Any suggestions or feedback from anyone will mean a lot !!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That's alot of talking dude . But it sounds like you have a great blueprint for dating females in that age range .

 

[Toddz]

You kind of ruined the arrangement by saying yes to a relationship and being insecure about the other dudes she's seeing/sleeping with. If she's truly a 10/10, then you just enjoy the ride and not give a fuk about who or what she's doing. The second you reveal an emotion or caring feelings she'll be gone.

 

[CBear]

She was never "relationship material"

 

[ohrein]

Don't date 23 year old's who send nudes to multiple guys at a time. Simple as that. FWB max, don't get feelings, don't get attached. Have fun with her when you can and don't give a fvck when you can't.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You kind of ruined the arrangement by saying yes to a relationship and being insecure about the other dudes she's seeing/sleeping with. If she's truly a 10/10, then you just enjoy the ride and not give a fuk about who or what she's doing. The second you reveal an emotion or caring feelings she'll be gone.

Yeah, but he doesn't have to put up with this shyt. He realizes that they are a dime a dozen. His game gives him alot of opportunities .

 

[ohrein]

Cluster B psycho

Didn't want to jump there but yeah. Attention seeking, impulsive behavior and a seeming addiction to emotional highs and lows.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Cluster B psycho

Fvck her and all of them like her.

 

[soulforge]

The girl is a straight up hoe.. You should have kept it plain and simple sex..

Instead you went down the relationship route.. Only option now is NC

Maybe in the future you could keep her around as a fuk buddy..

I wouldn't advise it though, she sounds straight up Cluster B

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Treat these bytches how they treat men.

 

[Buddha]

Well, I would like to think it bit differently. Ofcourse she is attention seeker and damaged , but whom to blame ?
We men are somehow responsible and few of us have done similar things to girls as well maybe .
For me personally I don't want to judge a person because of past because one or the other point of time we all go through this and I wanted her to give a chance for the sheer reason she asking for a relationship, telling me she wants to change and bringing me to her life and people.

I would like if someone can decode her behavior for this ? and if NC is a way of getting her back to fwb for such girls?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Is there way to get her back just for that part ? Any suggestions or feedback from anyone will mean a lot !!

If by get her back, you mean pie her, sure. Get a **** load of resources, get deezed, acquire assets, and create a sick lifestyle. Live your dream and pull hotter younger girls.

You will run into her years later. She will be fat as ****kkkk, a single mom, multiple kids from different men, and a complete train wreck. There is no sweeter feel.

She's on top form. She is like many other soon to be buffalo cheered off the cliff. You're chasing spoils. She's chasing hypergamy and Chad's. #nextset

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Well, I would like to think it bit differently. Ofcourse she is attention seeker and damaged , but whom to blame ?
We men are somehow responsible and few of us have done similar things to girls as well maybe .
For me personally I don't want to judge a person because of past because one or the other point of time we all go through this and I wanted her to give a chance for the sheer reason she asking for a relationship, telling me she wants to change and bringing me to her life and people.

I would like if someone can decode her behavior for this ? and if NC is a way of getting her back to fwb for such girls?

She's a attention ***** and *** dumpster, yet man is responsible for her ****ty lifestyle choices?

Dead man walking. We got a male feminist here pedaling female victimhood.


In before, said girl gets a train ran on her ass and says that baby is yours lulz

 

[Buddha]

Guys, as mentioned I have no problems pulling off young girls. Infact I have 3 dates lined up next week.
Am in mid 30s, over a period after ****ing so many girls , at the end you crave for this just one girl where you can feel more than that.
In this thread, I would like to know if someone can explain me this behavior of the girl and how to get her back for a rotation , not for relationship.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Guys, as mentioned I have no problems pulling off young girls. Infact I have 3 dates lined up next week.
Am in mid 30s, over a period after ****ing so many girls , at the end you crave for this just one girl where you can feel more than that.
In this thread, I would like to know if someone can explain me this behavior of the girl and how to get her back for a rotation , not for relationship.

What are your 10 bullet points that makes your game work so well on this age range?

 

[MrWood]

i think you AFC'd that all to hell
she had some cawks, you had a 2nd date, 3rd date
she wanted you, maybe for a relationship... but sees you cant handle her and are already emotionaly way too into her at this stage.

there ya go.

 

[soulforge]

Guys, as mentioned I have no problems pulling off young girls. Infact I have 3 dates lined up next week.
Am in mid 30s, over a period after ****ing so many girls , at the end you crave for this just one girl where you can feel more than that.
In this thread, I would like to know if someone can explain me this behavior of the girl and how to get her back for a rotation , not for relationship.

3 dates lined up, wow your doing well? Let me ask you something..

Why the hell do you want her back in your rotation? Do you really want to catch a STD that could possibly effect your health for the rest of your life!!

In your own words... She FVCKED another dude, then immediately came to see you.

Those lips you where kissing? I hope she washed that jizz out of her mouth!

This chick is deceitful, a liar, a straight up Cvm dumpster..

How can you possibly blame men, for this SlVTS behaviour.. She is a grown ass woman, and responsible for her own actions!

Who forced her to take that big fat dik before she came to see you? Nobody!

You talk like you have a abundance of choice when it comes to woman, then why waste your time on a lying sket like this.

This woman is trouble.. I suggest you walk away!

 

[Buddha]

Well, I agree with both of you..

• I AFC'd her, yes !! Reason - After 7 years I decided to involve with a girl for more than just sex and she triggered all the right buttons.
• Why I want her ? If I ask the same question to myself , reason could be I am not used to be rejected maybe, It was always me who was rejecting. Right now I feel she have/had the upper hand and it would be dream come true (for my ego being honest) that she beg.

Such girls who knows their demands and natural player, I know find it difficult to make my next move, hence asking other DJs for any suggestion. For me now it's all the game now and a challenge .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She played your own game on you. And the rejection, your ego can't take that .

I'd say to do the same thing she just did, to show her she doesn't have that much value .

Enjoy the rest of your life and don't complain or over analyzed this one.

Have fun if it's fun, if it stops being fun discard.

It's funny how the "red flags" make you chase harder. That's ego.

 

[Buddha]

You are right, We man like challenge and somehow I do not want to give up. In past I have made such girls come back max within 2 weeks of NC because this is what they are not used to it- Being neglected. I was hoping for the same with this one, but it's been 3 weeks and no response hence turned up here asking suggestion.
Regarding your other questions, I do I pull up with these young girls, Guess it's easy. Give them what 20-25 years can't give them. Dress up well, carry a style, having a nice life style. They all need this . Anytime an young girl is always way mature than the guys of her age. If you mix your age with Fun and lively, they come to you, though not to stay too long.