1. Always state your intentions. Don't hide the fact that you like sex. That doesn't mean to be crude about it either. Make an innuendo of it. The point is to not waste time on women that aren't on the same page as you (why would you date a woman who isn't interested in sex??). Example of statement of intent: if she asks what your idea of a perfect date is tell her: making love by the fireplace or against the kitchen counter. You are not horny, you are sexual, that's it.. That IS the difference. If she balks or starts giving you a hard time drop her, chances are you are wasting your time anyway. You are not directly telling her you are planning on having sex with her anyway, you are merely stating your capacity as a man. Good way to weed out the prudish women.
2. If she says that she needs to go on dates before getting intimate with the guy tell her that you like women that can be themselves, and act naturally with the guy, without "requiring" certain things first. Women can have sex with guys within HOURS of meeting him, so don't buy into the whole gotta-date-him-first garbage. All she needs is attraction, period. Also, how fast a woman has sex is NO measure of quality. Women who have a habit of holding out for months are too often the worst in bed and have terrible personalities to boot. Moreover, the so-called "slutty" girls are very often self-confident, don't play games, and are very intelligent (have high paying jobs etc). ie. their self-esteem is not tied to how much she can hold out, or ball-and-chain a man.
3. If a woman, before meeting her, starts talking too directly about sex, drop her. She is most likely a****tease and will cancel the date on you at the last minute. Either that or she is simply unattractive, period. It's okay to flirt but if she starts saying direct stuff like how she took out her vibrator that day, or how she enjoys good sex, then drop her. No reasonably attractive women of serious intent talks that way, especially on her own initiative, and especially over the internet.
4. If one of the very first things she asks is "what do you do?", then she is fishing for a provider, and doesn't care about you. And she is most certainly not thinking about sex. But if you want to make sure, then you can make some stuff up about how you are secretly batman and your car is parked on the roof. If she laughs and changes the subject then you're good, but if she persists with the question then she is trouble and must be cut loose. All a woman needs to know is that you have your own place and are independent. Some women will masquerade the question as not wanting to date a bum, therefore she needs to know what you do, what college you went to, and even what car you drive....don't fall for that.
5. On the date meet her for drinks, somewhere neutral where you two can talk and connect. Stay away from fancy places. Don't take her dancing or to dinner. That is rewarding her for no reason, and before she has proven to you that she actually likes you romantically. Save the fancy stuff for after you two have sex.
6. If you are seeing other girls and she asks, tell her. Out of dozens of women I've slept with not one needed to know that I was just with her. Newsflash: deep down women don't really care if you are seeing other girls. It's totally an ego thing. In fact, if you know anything about the Red Queen, you'll know that females are most likely to copulate with the men who are already copulating.
7. If she starts talking about other girls and putting them down she is low self-esteem. If she asks you what you see in her she is low self-esteem. if she puts on a show about how she is in control and in charge of the situation, she is low self-esteem.
8. If she cancels the date at the last minute drop her. It's disrespectful to you, and if she truly had a good reason for it she would have given you fair notice ahead of time. I've never canceled a date, and neither has most guys I know. It's rare for a guy to cancel a date but not so rare for women apparently.
9. Don't tell her you are looking for a relationship because you think that's what she needs to hear. It's weak and makes you look insecure. If she asks what you are looking for say, nothing too serious.
10. Don't brag about yourself. Keep the conversation light and funny, and get to know her. Flirt, tease and be relaxed throughout, and let her chase you a bit. If you met her off the internet and you don't have her number, don't ask for it at the end of the date. Allow her to offer it. If she doesn't chances are she is not interested.
2. If she says that she needs to go on dates before getting intimate with the guy tell her that you like women that can be themselves, and act naturally with the guy, without "requiring" certain things first. Women can have sex with guys within HOURS of meeting him, so don't buy into the whole gotta-date-him-first garbage. All she needs is attraction, period. Also, how fast a woman has sex is NO measure of quality. Women who have a habit of holding out for months are too often the worst in bed and have terrible personalities to boot. Moreover, the so-called "slutty" girls are very often self-confident, don't play games, and are very intelligent (have high paying jobs etc). ie. their self-esteem is not tied to how much she can hold out, or ball-and-chain a man.
3. If a woman, before meeting her, starts talking too directly about sex, drop her. She is most likely a****tease and will cancel the date on you at the last minute. Either that or she is simply unattractive, period. It's okay to flirt but if she starts saying direct stuff like how she took out her vibrator that day, or how she enjoys good sex, then drop her. No reasonably attractive women of serious intent talks that way, especially on her own initiative, and especially over the internet.
4. If one of the very first things she asks is "what do you do?", then she is fishing for a provider, and doesn't care about you. And she is most certainly not thinking about sex. But if you want to make sure, then you can make some stuff up about how you are secretly batman and your car is parked on the roof. If she laughs and changes the subject then you're good, but if she persists with the question then she is trouble and must be cut loose. All a woman needs to know is that you have your own place and are independent. Some women will masquerade the question as not wanting to date a bum, therefore she needs to know what you do, what college you went to, and even what car you drive....don't fall for that.
5. On the date meet her for drinks, somewhere neutral where you two can talk and connect. Stay away from fancy places. Don't take her dancing or to dinner. That is rewarding her for no reason, and before she has proven to you that she actually likes you romantically. Save the fancy stuff for after you two have sex.
6. If you are seeing other girls and she asks, tell her. Out of dozens of women I've slept with not one needed to know that I was just with her. Newsflash: deep down women don't really care if you are seeing other girls. It's totally an ego thing. In fact, if you know anything about the Red Queen, you'll know that females are most likely to copulate with the men who are already copulating.
7. If she starts talking about other girls and putting them down she is low self-esteem. If she asks you what you see in her she is low self-esteem. if she puts on a show about how she is in control and in charge of the situation, she is low self-esteem.
8. If she cancels the date at the last minute drop her. It's disrespectful to you, and if she truly had a good reason for it she would have given you fair notice ahead of time. I've never canceled a date, and neither has most guys I know. It's rare for a guy to cancel a date but not so rare for women apparently.
9. Don't tell her you are looking for a relationship because you think that's what she needs to hear. It's weak and makes you look insecure. If she asks what you are looking for say, nothing too serious.
10. Don't brag about yourself. Keep the conversation light and funny, and get to know her. Flirt, tease and be relaxed throughout, and let her chase you a bit. If you met her off the internet and you don't have her number, don't ask for it at the end of the date. Allow her to offer it. If she doesn't chances are she is not interested.
A nice change from the usual drivel here.
