Dating Lesson#1: Never ever be a Travis Hunter

[SW15]

Travis hunter is not considered conventionally attractive. I'm sure he's also dealt with some self-esteem and self worth issues.
I know this may be crazy but just go on social media and see how many people talk about his looks

I think OP means this message is more for the common John Doe. Let's be real: dude did NOT win the esthetics lottery ( lookswise).

The common John Doe is a mid tier looking male. He's likely not impressing women due to looks since there is data out there that indicates women rate 80% of men as unattractive.

Travis Hunter specifically is attractive to women on his status as a top tier college football player and his forthcoming NFL payday.

There are mid tier looking men who sometimes get money and status to work in their favor. Jeff Bezos could have been considered an example of this.

 

[Solomon]

The common John Doe is a mid tier looking male. He's likely not impressing women due to looks since there is data out there that indicates women rate 80% of men as unattractive.

Travis Hunter specifically is attractive to women on his status as a top tier college football player and his forthcoming NFL payday.

There are mid tier looking men who sometimes get money and status to work in their favor. Jeff Bezos could have been considered an example of this.

But is having a thot who humiliates you constantly in public and a woman who admitted that she is only with you for money really a win for Travis?

We gotta be honest here yes we know not all relationships are based of raw burning desire but who the **** wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to who you are but only your money.? Eventually, the woman is going to divorce you, take half and go be with the type of man she really wants or she will cheat on you.

Can a woman eventually be attracted to a guy she wasn't initially attracted too? of course but anyone with experience will tell you a woman who has raw burning desire (Or lust) is nothing like that

 

[SW15]

But is having a thot who humiliates you constantly in public and a woman who admitted that she is only with you for money really a win for Travis?

It is not.

Can a woman eventually be attracted to a guy she wasn't initially attracted too? of course but anyone with experience will tell you a woman who has raw burning desire (Or lust) is nothing like that

She doesn't have the genuine burning desire for him. There are women who would have the most burning desire for a future NFL player. If Travis is good in the NFL, he'll have a lot of options with women. On a major college campus, he should have had enough options to find one with burning desire for him.

We gotta be honest here yes we know not all relationships are based of raw burning desire but who the **** wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to who you are but only your money.? Eventually, the woman is going to divorce you, take half and go be with the type of man she really wants or she will cheat on you.

That's bad.

On a smaller scale, this happens regularly to Beta Bobs who have some success in white collar careers and start making something like $150,000 - $250,000 a year. These Beta Bobs were virtually ignored when they were making $45,000 - $75,000 but once they got a few promotions in the white collar world, outcomes changed for them.

Depending on what methods they used to meet women, attention level may or may not have changed for them. On swipe apps, they might have been able to convert more first dates into sex with similar right swipe percentages. Maybe they got a better photo set in a professional photo session. Perhaps they had a good enough social circle to get an introduction to a woman who probably wouldn't have considered him before the promotions and salary increases but now is hot for him.

 

[Gamisch]

But is having a thot who humiliates you constantly in public and a woman who admitted that she is only with you for money really a win for Travis?

We gotta be honest here yes we know not all relationships are based of raw burning desire but who the **** wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to who you are but only your money.? Eventually, the woman is going to divorce you, take half and go be with the type of man she really wants or she will cheat on you.

Can a woman eventually be attracted to a guy she wasn't initially attracted too? of course but anyone with experience will tell you a woman who has raw burning desire (Or lust) is nothing like that

I love this.

Your posts always strike a chord in my heart bro. My culture ( Latin /Caribbean) is really all about status. Its hard to shake that off, even though that mentality doesn't work in my favor. Your philosophy is a deep although difficult one to touch on. But the more I learn about it the more I understand it!

 

[Juan_Man]

Travis Hunter is WINNING. He's heading to the pros and is engaged to a very attractive woman, who was with him BEFORE he started playing college football. I don't know what the big fuss is about their relationship. She said he wasn't her type at first. So what? I'm sure a lot of men and women initially felt that way about their current partners. He's on the right path, as long as he gets a prenup.

 

[Gamisch]

Travis Hunter is WINNING. He's heading to the pros and is engaged to a very attractive woman, who was with him BEFORE he started playing college football. I don't know what the big fuss is about their relationship. She said he wasn't her type at first. So what? I'm sure a lot of men and women initially felt that way about their current partners. He's on the right path, as long as he gets a prenup.

True, but she is also unhinged and unpredictable, just pukes out everything she thinks and the fuss isn't happening without good reason. She emasculated him plenty of times already.

She should stfu and chill in the background. Everyone with some experience been here at least once. Ofcourse you can argue he's winning in life, but yet ( as usual) we see a man with options making poor choices.

He's being used as a cautionary tale. Average Joe is NOT a football star and when a woman acts like she does, the writing is on the wall.

Football's absolute giga Chad Mr Brady was a similar story. And hence we're talking STARS. You and I and the next dude ain't stars.