Dating Lesson#1: Never ever be a Travis Hunter

[Gamisch]

His gf openly admitted that she settled for him because of obvious reasons. Yes, this sounds like romantic Disney copium to the masses, but this is one of the worst mistakes a man can make in dating. Only date women that see you as their first option, PERIOD!! No exceptions whatsoever. You can fvck these women and toss them to aside, but NEVER upgrade these women past plate status PERIOD.”! View attachment 13575

Everyone literally takes Travis as an example, while I think OP means this message is more for the common John Doe. Let's be real: dude did NOT win the esthetics lottery ( lookswise).

If it wasn't for the money and status she was dead honest: he is not my type. Now gentlemen, when YOU hear this is in your every day John Doe life...it's a wrap.

This is probably how most of us were fabricated: mama didn't really really felt papa but he was persistent and she gave in. This shows that money and status can put you in that time machine back to the 70 s/80,s.

Nowadays it's a different ballgame. If you don't offer her anything significant, why would she stay? Eventually Travis will be a cautionary tale.

Again: if your woman starts staying sh1t like this you better pack your shyte and go. Passport bro-ing is one of the last ways you can CREATE this dynamic where she has a lot to lose when she stops dating you. And seeing how fast the world's changing , it won't be long before basically all women worldwide will have the same mentality.

Until WWIII starts and suddenly things like looks become unimportant. Untill then...better improve yourself wherever you can so you can have as much leverage as possible.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Until WWIII starts and suddenly things like looks become unimportant. Untill then...better improve yourself wherever you can so you can have as much leverage as possible.

Let's prep for the war between the sexes then, yes?

The problem is that we have people here who want to change people so they match. That's not how change works. Change comes from the inside. You have to lose the Us vs Them attitude and learn to understand what the 'opposite' gender want and need. And then find a woman who complements you instead of compliments you.

I have no problem finding lovers who are good company, because I am good company for them. I don't have to compensate with wealth or influence or status or even looks, because I'm not some trophy to drag around to show personal fortune, nor do I treat my lovers like that.
I don't need attention and validation from strangers, because I have lovers who know me and love me, regardless of my flaws or strengths. Under their influence, I learned how to embrace the good inside myself and harness the bad.
The way to find peace in this world is to attain wisdom by control of the ego. If you don't have emotional self control, someone else will control your emotions. And that will rarely benefit you.

 

[SW15]

Travis hunter is not considered conventionally attractive. I'm sure he's also dealt with some self-esteem and self worth issues.
I know this may be crazy but just go on social media and see how many people talk about his looks

I think OP means this message is more for the common John Doe. Let's be real: dude did NOT win the esthetics lottery ( lookswise).

The common John Doe is a mid tier looking male. He's likely not impressing women due to looks since there is data out there that indicates women rate 80% of men as unattractive.

Travis Hunter specifically is attractive to women on his status as a top tier college football player and his forthcoming NFL payday.

There are mid tier looking men who sometimes get money and status to work in their favor. Jeff Bezos could have been considered an example of this.

 

[Solomon]

The common John Doe is a mid tier looking male. He's likely not impressing women due to looks since there is data out there that indicates women rate 80% of men as unattractive.

Travis Hunter specifically is attractive to women on his status as a top tier college football player and his forthcoming NFL payday.

There are mid tier looking men who sometimes get money and status to work in their favor. Jeff Bezos could have been considered an example of this.

But is having a thot who humiliates you constantly in public and a woman who admitted that she is only with you for money really a win for Travis?

We gotta be honest here yes we know not all relationships are based of raw burning desire but who the **** wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to who you are but only your money.? Eventually, the woman is going to divorce you, take half and go be with the type of man she really wants or she will cheat on you.

Can a woman eventually be attracted to a guy she wasn't initially attracted too? of course but anyone with experience will tell you a woman who has raw burning desire (Or lust) is nothing like that

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

there is data out there that indicates women rate 80% of men as unattractive.

I doubt that.
The thing is, it's all how you ask and who you ask and how you interpret the response.

 

[SW15]

But is having a thot who humiliates you constantly in public and a woman who admitted that she is only with you for money really a win for Travis?

It is not.

Can a woman eventually be attracted to a guy she wasn't initially attracted too? of course but anyone with experience will tell you a woman who has raw burning desire (Or lust) is nothing like that

She doesn't have the genuine burning desire for him. There are women who would have the most burning desire for a future NFL player. If Travis is good in the NFL, he'll have a lot of options with women. On a major college campus, he should have had enough options to find one with burning desire for him.

We gotta be honest here yes we know not all relationships are based of raw burning desire but who the **** wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to who you are but only your money.? Eventually, the woman is going to divorce you, take half and go be with the type of man she really wants or she will cheat on you.

That's bad.

On a smaller scale, this happens regularly to Beta Bobs who have some success in white collar careers and start making something like $150,000 - $250,000 a year. These Beta Bobs were virtually ignored when they were making $45,000 - $75,000 but once they got a few promotions in the white collar world, outcomes changed for them.

Depending on what methods they used to meet women, attention level may or may not have changed for them. On swipe apps, they might have been able to convert more first dates into sex with similar right swipe percentages. Maybe they got a better photo set in a professional photo session. Perhaps they had a good enough social circle to get an introduction to a woman who probably wouldn't have considered him before the promotions and salary increases but now is hot for him.

 

[Gamisch]

But is having a thot who humiliates you constantly in public and a woman who admitted that she is only with you for money really a win for Travis?

We gotta be honest here yes we know not all relationships are based of raw burning desire but who the **** wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to who you are but only your money.? Eventually, the woman is going to divorce you, take half and go be with the type of man she really wants or she will cheat on you.

Can a woman eventually be attracted to a guy she wasn't initially attracted too? of course but anyone with experience will tell you a woman who has raw burning desire (Or lust) is nothing like that

I love this.

Your posts always strike a chord in my heart bro. My culture ( Latin /Caribbean) is really all about status. Its hard to shake that off, even though that mentality doesn't work in my favor. Your philosophy is a deep although difficult one to touch on. But the more I learn about it the more I understand it!