If one just wants to pump and dump... Just lie.Besides if you can't BS your job title and position description you aren't very creative...
Women lie like crazy about their careers. I went on a date with one who was a waitress who moved from Ohio. Was a state trooper there then decided to move to FL lol. Found it odd. She said cause she had a couple relatives down here but waits tables because she said law enforcement paid too low. I went on the net and since it's public info listed it said she made 52k a year. But then I read more and saw she was named in a federal lawsuit. A prisoner she took in on a stop was beaten and she was being sued. I'm guessing she resigned or was forced to retire. I asked her why she didn't become a cop down here and she said pay was too low. State trooper yea, but even the local departments didn't pay a lot lower than that. Still better than waiting tables and with her experience of 15 years they would have snatched her right away.If one just wants to pump and dump... Just lie.
Holy crap, now that sounds like an interesting story to tell.But then I read more and saw she was named in a federal lawsuit. A prisoner she took in on a stop was beaten and she was being sued. I'm guessing she resigned or was forced to retire.
Nah, she wasn't the violent type. Very nice on the date but a bit on the bi polar side maybe. She was interested about going out again but went off on me about texting her about our next date cause she just got back in town and said i was being a jerk cause i wanted to set a time. Said it sucked because she said she liked me but said i act like a jerk.Holy crap, now that sounds like an interesting story to tell.
Red flag that she may be a violent psycho though lol.
I can definitely understand why she definitely wouldn't want to tell people that she is or was being sued for police brutality.
I don't mind talking about work once we have the swallowing part out of the way (it's going to come up at some point anyway). But if she forces the subject right away and digs for details it's annoying AF and is an obvious red flag.First of all thanks to anyone for the feedback, this is something really annoying for a guy in his mid 30s to deal with.
When I'm talking with a woman and she comes up talking about work, it already pisses me off, even more if the keeps asking...wasnt happening while dealing with girls in their 20s while its the norm with women in their early 30s...guess they need a security/utility service provider.
This really annoys me cause I want the attraction to be raw and natural, Im not negotiating unless we talk about rate per hour and agreed performance in advance.
I tried to give random vague answers but b1tches keep asking, even the ridicule answer to move the topic doesnt work as good.
I'm not poor and I basically dont need to count what I spend as long as I dont plan to live like a celebrity yet I dont wanna F talk about it, its personal especially since I struggled in past just like I had countless problems from my family and surelly dont wanna talk about it.
I mean I also would like to know if a girl swallows, gives ass or her body count but I have the decency not to insist...thats basically how we evaluate potential partners.