Dating a Cluster B, a field report and a warning

bigneil

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Don't thank this clown. There are things this woman did in the 3 months that you knew here that clearly indicate something is wrong with her. She may or may not be a true cluster b, but even women exhibiting a few symptoms can be extremely damaging - subclinical is the term.
Quick! Raise your hand if you're a whiny sissy who can't find a backup girl and prefers to stroke his own ego by pretending his girl belonged in an asylum!
 

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I wonder if women are on their forums talking about cluster B dudes, or if it's just them complaining some dudes don't deal with their cluster B crap.
Seems to be a lot of books by women for women with "narcissist" in the title.
 

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Quick! Raise your hand if you're a whiny sissy who can't find a backup girl and prefers to stroke his own ego by pretending his girl belonged in an asylum!
I'll bet you don't have enough star trek tokens in your pocket for your girl to get a free Mr. spok hat to say that to my face: 325 Woodbine Street, Brooklyn , New York 11237.

You are one of the most useless, annoying people on this entire forum and I for the life of me can't fathom how you haven't been banned yet.
 

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I'll bet you don't have enough star trek tokens in your pocket for your girl to get a free Mr. spok hat to say that to my face: 325 Woodbine Street, Brooklyn , New York 11237.

You are one of the most useless, annoying people on this entire forum and I for the life of me can't fathom how you haven't been banned yet.
Is that where your friend who you think could take me in a fight lives? If I wouldn't go back to NYC to have sex with a gorgeous Russian girl who has pined over me for 4 years, I sure as hell aren't coming to see you just to b!tch slap your chunky Italian ass. And for the love of God wash that tank top you're wearing.

Anyhow, I probably haven't been banned because I'm #10 all time in Most Likes and more users create accounts just to take a jab at me than anyone. Take a fag boy like you for example. Yes, I know about Lance and Bruce.

Go back and watch the 2004 Red Sox Yankees series, you virgin weakling.
 

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I understand this. However, as I mentioned before, this to me sounds like a chick who wanted to get her rocks off and wasn't interested in OP as he expected. After the excitement dies down, how compatible both are on the sexual market starts to become a factor.
What do u mean by get her rocks off but not being interested in him? You mean a girl just wanting to hookup with somebody?

And once that sexual tension died down, she realized she wasn't too into him?
 

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I love how FatNeil gives it the large on here, whilst the insecure, gutless retard is under the thumb of his BPD nutjob cheating tart.
 

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A good way for sure to tell if she's cluster b are:

If other people say she's crazy.

And if she has some weird traumatic past.

A girl i dated had those two traits. Most ****ed in the head girl I've ever met.

Like you I just let her be mean and i stayed neutral when I was trying to get rid of her. It worked like a charm. It makes them lose interest real quick.

Try to stay the hell away from the crazies guys.
 

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A good way for sure to tell if she's cluster b are:

If other people say she's crazy.
Beneath every woman whose behavior seems unexplainable there are a series of overlapping issues. If you knew the issues, the situation would appear perfectly clear.

Whatever these issues are, they are cascading and thus you have to resolve each one, often in reverse order.

For example, she wasn't eating right, went on prescription meds, then got kicked out of her house, then started dating the wrong guy, then started stripping. So you get her to stop stripping, get her to stop dating the wrong guy, get her back close to her family, get her off meds, and get her to eat right and you have solved the problem. This requires getting to know them and truly wanting what is best for them. Most people simply create another problem and tack it on the end.

A simpler example is you told your girlfriend something that hurt her feelings (without her telling you), then she said something to hurt your feelings (which seemed to come out of nowhere), and now you're not talking.
 

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I love how FatNeil gives it the large on here, whilst the insecure, gutless retard is under the thumb of his BPD nutjob cheating tart.
Take if from MasterbAce.

Along with not thinking that name through, he uses the opposite form of resolving a problem, throwing out a bunch of words that he obviously doesn't even know the definition of, proving none of them..
  • Insecure? Not financially
  • Gutless? Ask the ten bikers who I pulled over and confronted by myself yesterday, on film.
  • Retard? I scored 760 on my Math SAT (99.9%)
  • "Under the thumb" - not when I'm her boss and I'm making her a star
  • BPD - he wishes
  • Nutjob - provide evidence
  • Cheating - in December? Before we had a commitment?
  • Tart - that part is right.

 
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Take if from MasterbAce.

Along with not thinking that name through, he uses the opposite form of resolving a problem, throwing out a bunch of words that he obviously doesn't even know the definition of, proving none of them..
  • Insecure? Not financially
  • Gutless? Ask the ten bikers who I pulled over and confronted by myself yesterday, on film.
  • Retard? I scored 760 on my Math SAT (99.9%)
  • "Under the thumb" - not when I'm her boss and I'm making her a star
  • BPD - he wishes
  • Nutjob - provide evidence
  • Cheating - in December? Before we had a commitment?
  • Tart - that part is right.

Is that girl supposed to be hot?

So you give money to young women that are full of issues? It's becoming clear now.
 

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1) The 1.5% figure is terribly erroneous. How can you tabulate a percentage when one of the main hallmarks of people with PDs is that the person with a PD doesn't think there is something wrong and as a result doesn't seek treatment.

2) Ultimately, the diagnosis doesn't matter because you can't control someone else's behavior.

3) The big takeaway is to recognize big red flags such as affairs with married men, mirroring, devaluation. As soon as the issue of the affair with a married man was revealed you should be out the door.

4) Toxic behavior is a better label.

5) Cluster B types operate from a playbook so there are many "unofficial" behaviors that can suggests that a person is suffering from a PD.

In this case there are certainly signs suggesting but more information would be needed.
 

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Quick! Raise your hand if you're a whiny sissy who can't find a backup girl and prefers to stroke his own ego by pretending his girl belonged in an asylum!
Bigneil you stroke your own ego daily. Nobody can read a thread on here without hearing about how all your girls are 21 and ranked 99 out of 100 on hotgirl.c0m or whatever the hell it is. Just keeping it real dude.
 

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Bigneil you stroke your own ego daily. Nobody can read a thread on here without hearing about how all your girls are 21 and ranked 99 out of 100 on hotgirl.c0m or whatever the hell it is. Just keeping it real dude.
Unbelievable, but true. That's why I showed proof.
 
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