dates where girls make you pay

[mexican_player2]

well yesterday i asked a girl out as friends (i have a gf but want some back up) so we went for some beers. the girl get a drink (4 bucks) i pay my beer (1 buck) then im about going to get a seat when the cashier said that the girl didnt pay, then she says: oh sorry can you pay for my drink? i forgot my wallet... i put a front on my face then told her that when i go out with girls is half and half. period.

is not about the money...well actually it is... but also this says a lot of her., like she is interested in someone who can pay for her stuff (actually she is kinda poor), selfish, money hungry etc etc.

have u experienced something like it? what do you do in those cases?

 

[Interceptor]

Women are extremely attracted to Masculine Men who simultaneously are:

Lovers

Providers

Hunters

Warriors

Where do you think you failed?

 

[mexican_player2]

lol, yeah right, i failed in "trickin my money" you simp.

hunters? dude we aint cavemen no more.
warriors? lol

 

[Moby_On_D]

Provider. As annoying as that aspect of a guy paying for everything, women have been socialized to believe this. Unless its outrageous and your going broke from it. But paying for certain things here and there is fine. If you don't think that men are Hunters or Warriors, then you may want to sit down and rethink. The general spectrum of Male species are broken up into those categories at the lowest level to the highest level. Think of it in a more metaphorical sense.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

In your case you shudda just paid for 2x drinks and gave her the "dont push it look" after the second round.You're just freinds it wasnt a date..

One..

 

[backbreaker]

My rule of thumb for dates:

If I call you and take the time to take you out to a date, I will pay and won't even think about it. regardless of what goes in the night.

however if she asks me if I want to go out.. assuming we just met, i'm not paying for her. she can pay for her, i will pay for me.

 

[mexican_player2]

In your case you shudda just paid for 2x drinks and gave her the "dont push it look" after the second round.You're just freinds it wasnt a date..

One..

she said she "forgot" the wallet, else i would make her pay.

you see i dont care if i had to pay, what made me mad was that she was already expecting me to pay like if i were a fukin chump, she didnt say: "lets split", or "i buy the next round" or "how much do you need", she just said, "oh i was expecting you to pay and i forgot my wallet"

all the girls that really liked me and that are decent always tell me, how much do you need or things like that.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

My rule of thumb for dates:

If I call you and take the time to take you out to a date, I will pay and won't even think about it. regardless of what goes in the night.

however if she asks me if I want to go out.. assuming we just met, i'm not paying for her. she can pay for her, i will pay for me.

This is general good manners. If you invite a girl on a date, you know the costs and she does not.

Now the wallet forgetting thing is tacky. I'd next a girl over that. I like to offer something to a woman but I do not accept demands.

 

[backbreaker]

under no circumstances, don't ever make a scene about paying.

if you are less than thrilled on her attitude of the situtation.... pay and leave her alone after you drop her back off.

It's never more than a one sentence issue for me. I've had it where a girl has asked me out to dinner, of course I CAN pay but I like to see how she thinks.. the ticket will come, I will confidently ask them to break it up to two people.. and see her reaction. most women believe it or not don't' have a problem. every once in a while I get one that says "you aren't going to pay for me too? I then say I'm not against paying, but you invited me, therefore you pay for yourself" and they are usually fine with that. I've had a couple show their true colors and had ONE say "what kinda man are you that doesn't pay for me?"... i looked at her, paid her ticket, dropped her back off and never called her again. actions speak louder than words. the ticket is trivial to me. I'm not going to gripe over paying for your dinner,t hat's the least of my concerns. your character is more important.

 

[just so suave]

i dont agree with you backbreaker

"what kinda man are you that doesn't pay for me?"... i looked at her, paid her ticket

u gave in to the spoilt brat :nono:

 

[backbreaker]

no, I didn't want to make a sence in a place I visit regulary. I don't want to be seen as "that little nigglet who got into it with his date"

I don't care what the preception is, because at that point I knew I wasn't going to see her again. similar situtatoin I posted aobut a month ago. I had a woman pick up the cell phone and talk to her ex while we were on a date. Again, it was a place I visited about 2-3 times a month, so I went to the waiter, paid our tickets, and left and went to the club next door and didn't think about her again.

On the contrary, me giving in is paying and thinking it's the "right thing to do".. I'm paying to shut you up and get you home so I don't' have to see you gain without getting into confrontation. I mean you think i really give a fvck about a 30-40 dollar ticket? That's not even worth bringing up.

she is winning (wink) the battle, but has horribly lost the war

 

[Interceptor]

So this guy still hasn't realized that he was considered a cheap punk?
(Man, and I tried to be "refined" about it too.)

What a doof.
Hey good luck, "playa"!

ROFL.

It's quite obvious you have a way to go before you become a Man.
Not in this lifetime , buddy.
GTFO , loser.


Listen, moron. What you failed to realize is that a REAL Man has the financial MEANS to "PROVIDE" for his selected Woman.
You obviously are living in a junkyard in a cardboard box, and can barely afford to eat, let alone take out a woman like only a REAL MAN can do.
Not only are you being intentionally stupid, but you're pathetic.
You raised Hell because some sweet girl wanted a drink. You cheap punk. She didn't want a yacht, dork. She wanted a measly 2 dollar drink.
Face Reality. Or be a celibate wannabe. Which BTW, you are already accomplishing.


The metaphors of the Four basic masculine traits are there for a purpose.

To understand our own (for you, the lack thereof) Masculinity.
Theses traits, punk, are the basis of our creation, and the basic traits Feminine WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO!


We are Lovers. Because we provide women with Sex, for (both) our Pleasure and for Procreation.
We are Providers. Because we provide for ourselves, our women, and our families. We don't complain if we want to pay for something for a woman we are dating.A real Masculine Man makes enough MONEY, dork!
We are productive, ambitious, and industrious. We have a future, and we have prospects. Something you don't have, living in a cardboard box in a junkyard. BTW,when was the last time you took a bath and brushed your teeth?
We are Hunters. Because We go out and hunt down our dreams and aspirations, and we make them our reality. Be it a job, money, a car, or a woman. We have courage. We have the balls to go out and get what we want. Be it food, a house, whatever.
We are Warriors. Because we have courage, and our physical and mental strength to protect ourselves and our families in case of danger. We can create plans, and act on them to avoid conflicts or disasters. We are Men of Action and that can be in Defense or on planning on some project for our defense and protection. We are in control so that nothing happens to our families who are dependent on us.

The "symp" is YOU, punk. You're more AFC than you want to realize.

And you have been OWNED by a REAL Man.
Now STFU and go in your corner, jackass.

 

[backbreaker]

So this guy still hasn't realized that he was considered a cheap punk?
(Man, and I tried to be "refined" about it too.)

What a doof.
Hey good luck, "playa"!

ROFL.

It's quite obvious you have a way to go before you become a Man.
Not in this lifetime , buddy.
GTFO , loser.


Listen, moron. What you failed to realize is that a REAL Man has the financial MEANS to "PROVIDE" for his selected Woman.
You obviously are living in a junkyard in a cardboard box, and can barely afford to eat, let alone take out a woman like only a REAL MAN can do.
Not only are you being intentionally stupid, but you're pathetic.
You raised Hell because some sweet girl wanted a drink. You cheap punk. She didn't want a yacht, dork. She wanted a measly 2 dollar drink.
Face Reality. Or be a celibate wannabe. Which BTW, you are already accomplishing.


The metaphors of the Four basic masculine traits are there for a purpose.

To understand our own (for you, the lack thereof) Masculinity.
Theses traits, punk, are the basis of our creation, and the basic traits Feminine WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO!


We are Lovers. Because we provide women with Sex, for (both) our Pleasure and for Procreation.
We are Providers. Because we provide for ourselves, our women, and our families. We don't complain if we want to pay for something for a woman we are dating.A real Masculine Man makes enough MONEY, dork!
We are productive, ambitious, and industrious. We have a future, and we have prospects. Something you don't have, living in a cardboard box in a junkyard. BTW,when was the last time you took a bath and brushed your teeth?
We are Hunters. Because We go out and hunt down our dreams and aspirations, and we make them our reality. Be it a job, money, a car, or a woman. We have courage. We have the balls to go out and get what we want. Be it food, a house, whatever.
We are Warriors. Because we have courage, and our physical and mental strength to protect ourselves and our families in case of danger. We can create plans, and act on them to avoid conflicts or disasters. We are Men of Action and that can be in Defense or on planning on some project for our defense and protection. We are in control so that nothing happens to our families who are dependent on us.

The "symp" is YOU, punk. You're more AFC than you want to realize.

And you have been OWNED by a REAL Man.
Now STFU and go in your corner, jackass.

if she wanted a drink that bad, she could have bought one.

women can't have it both ways. you can't scream I'M INDEPENDANT!!! YEAH!!!, give up the role of homemaker to try to be our equals.. then cry for anything with a **** to buy a drink/meal when you go out.

the drink isn't the issue money wise. nor is a meal, nor a date/movie, whatever the case may be. I don't strain myself at night wondering how I'm going to pay for 'dates'... ihave alot of problems. money happens not to be one of them. but blood/money sucking *****es are one of my problems. that's a good way to weed them out.

YOU have a lot of growing up to do talking to that young man like that. That's extremely disrespectful.

 

[Interceptor]

First off, I don't respect those who disrespect me.
Once somone crosses that line with me, there is no reason to watch what I say.
IN addition, the post I made was to be of help to him and anyone who cares to read it.
It obviously has value.
If you still don't recognioze it, it is not my fault. I put it out there for help.

Moreover, while I appreciate you coming to defend this young Male, and I call him "Male", because he is not yet a man, this young male has no right, as do you , to correspiond to me condescendingly. It is completely unwarranted behavior.
So while you may be now basking in your self righteous self, you are also commiting the same offense. A bit hypocritical I think.

NOW...
My main point was.
That fvck the notion that she was "expecting" for you to pay.
Masculine Men, do not have a "problem" with this. While on the date.We don;t make Scenes.
You see, we simply pay because we have Class. We enjoy our selves anyway.
ANd we decide THEN if this is a woman we want to be involved with.
If you throw a sh&t fit, you are obviously immature and not experienced enough with women to simply pay for whatever it is, and then drop her off and never speak to her again.

Youre right about women shoudl not have it both ways. I agree.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

The metaphors of the Four basic masculine traits are there for a purpose.

To understand our own (for you, the lack thereof) Masculinity.
Theses traits, punk, are the basis of our creation, and the basic traits Feminine WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO!


We are Lovers. Because we provide women with Sex, for (both) our Pleasure and for Procreation.
We are Providers. Because we provide for ourselves, our women, and our families. We don't complain if we want to pay for something for a woman we are dating.A real Masculine Man makes enough MONEY, dork!
We are productive, ambitious, and industrious. We have a future, and we have prospects. Something you don't have, living in a cardboard box in a junkyard. BTW,when was the last time you took a bath and brushed your teeth?
We are Hunters. Because We go out and hunt down our dreams and aspirations, and we make them our reality. Be it a job, money, a car, or a woman. We have courage. We have the balls to go out and get what we want. Be it food, a house, whatever.
We are Warriors. Because we have courage, and our physical and mental strength to protect ourselves and our families in case of danger. We can create plans, and act on them to avoid conflicts or disasters. We are Men of Action and that can be in Defense or on planning on some project for our defense and protection. We are in control so that nothing happens to our families who are dependent on us.

I like how you thought this out, and it is true!

Now, the guy was having bad manners for not taking the bill then the girl was rude my demanding he pay, then the guy was rude by making a scene of it.

Backbreaker,
Some women want to be independent and are feminist, others want a man who is reliable and capable enough to submit to. They ae not all the same.

 

[backbreaker]

i think we are actually saying the same thing.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

These days its difficult for women to admit the want a man to wear the pants, feminista's preying on feminine women, ladyboy male feminists prey on them, so they kinda keep it hidden until they know it is safe to be themselves. But when a girl goes against the grain and defies current culture to be what nature intended her to be, that kicks azz.

 

[backbreaker]

I like how you thought this out, and it is true!

Now, the guy was having bad manners for not taking the bill then the girl was rude my demanding he pay, then the guy was rude by making a scene of it.

Backbreaker,
Some women want to be independent and are feminist, others want a man who is reliable and capable enough to submit to. They ae not all the same.

no ****?

you guys are over analzying something extremely trivial. everything I do doesn't sit well with other people, but it sit's perfectly well with me. when I make a decision to be done with someone, I'm done. Fvck perception. my goal at that point is to get home with as little anamosity/problems as possible. if i have to pay 20 bucks for your ticket to do so, so be it.

the problem alto of people have is that they are still trying to qualify themselves though not paying and why they don't pay, hoping it will show much mainly they are. i really don't give a damn. women weed themselves out.

and remember, this is just on dates that I am invited to. again if I take the time to actually ask you out, you can leave your wallet at home, i'd be insulted otherwise.

 

[Boston DJ]

Backbreaker, I agree 100%.

If it is for a nominal amount of money just pay and never look back. I personally don't give a sh*t about paying to just get out of a situation w/o an issue. You make yourself look really petty when you start complaining about small amounts of money regardless of if it is right or wrong on the hors behalf.

 

[mpimpin]

I like backbreaker pay when I ask a girl out. If she asks me out I pay for myself and she can pay for herself. If the attraction is there and you have been playing your cards right who pays won't matter at all.