So last night I had a date with a total hotty. She's very close to a 9 or higher. Blonde, 5'6", totally fit, amazing green eyes, face, smile, etc. Oh, she's also 12 years younger than I am. Honestly, her face is so pretty that it's almost distracting. I had to concentrate hard on staying on the conversation.
I'm definitely not close to a 9 in my own opinion. I wasn't expecting much going into the date, but I was pleasantly surprised.
We shared a bottle of Sake and some food. We ended up staying for 3 hours staring each other down with hardcore eye contact, laughing, smiling, conversing, etc.
After we left, she commented on the bar across the street and said that if she didn't have to volunteer for x today, she'd want to go over there with me and drink more. That was the only hint at the end though that she wanted more time with me. I probably should have said ' another time then ' or something at this point.
I'm still not always sure how to end first dates. I walked her to her car, we hugged, and sent her on her way. The location was on a busy street so there wasn't much time to linger there or to go for more. I think we were both playing it a bit cool ( she's also was well aware that I was recently freaked out by a woman coming on way to strong recently ), so now we're in the limbo post date, not knowing if we'll see each other again. I'm waiting to see if I hear from her a while before I decide when I'll send something back to her.
( So, is there a DJ consensus on this? Do you wait to hear from her, or do you follow up first? )
Regardless of whether I see her again or not, I feel like the date was successful compared to some recent dates I've been on. You really can't judge a book by a cover or a woman by her hotness.
Also, I think in her case, she's interested in much more than a man's looks. She's interested in personality and substance before she decides how attracted to someone she is.
I'm definitely not close to a 9 in my own opinion. I wasn't expecting much going into the date, but I was pleasantly surprised.
We shared a bottle of Sake and some food. We ended up staying for 3 hours staring each other down with hardcore eye contact, laughing, smiling, conversing, etc.
After we left, she commented on the bar across the street and said that if she didn't have to volunteer for x today, she'd want to go over there with me and drink more. That was the only hint at the end though that she wanted more time with me. I probably should have said ' another time then ' or something at this point.
I'm still not always sure how to end first dates. I walked her to her car, we hugged, and sent her on her way. The location was on a busy street so there wasn't much time to linger there or to go for more. I think we were both playing it a bit cool ( she's also was well aware that I was recently freaked out by a woman coming on way to strong recently ), so now we're in the limbo post date, not knowing if we'll see each other again. I'm waiting to see if I hear from her a while before I decide when I'll send something back to her.
( So, is there a DJ consensus on this? Do you wait to hear from her, or do you follow up first? )
Regardless of whether I see her again or not, I feel like the date was successful compared to some recent dates I've been on. You really can't judge a book by a cover or a woman by her hotness.
Also, I think in her case, she's interested in much more than a man's looks. She's interested in personality and substance before she decides how attracted to someone she is.
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