Date Ideas.. she has to drive

[MrNiceGuy]

Ok, heres the lowdown,

theres a new girl at work who I quite like, we've been getting on pretty well, shes always very friendly/smily to me (although she is to most others, shes probably a bit of a sunshine girl), still I've decided shes worth trying to get busy with..

so I need an idea of a date to suggest, the problem is, she doesnt live in the same town as me, we both work in the town I live (which is pretty big, and where she goes out drinking/shopping and so on) but she actually lives in a smaller town a few miles away and drives to work..

I figure we know each other too well now to just suggest a simple daytime coffee date, but I don't know what to suggest for an evening date, because she'd have to drive which would mean she couldnt drink, unless she stayed over at mine but I can't assume thats going to happen before the date can I..

the other option is to do something after work, but she'd still need to get home somehow, plus since what we do is shift work, theres no guarantee we'd both finish at the same time anyway, even if we were both finishing together the chances are it would be after a closedown (I work in a pub) meaning it would be about 1am when we left work.... it all depends on the rota if we can get a 6 finish or something

I'm not sure what to do, normally I'd just say to her lets go for a drink sometime, get her number then arrange to meet up, but it seems too complicated to actually organise unless shes very very keen (ie shes happy to stay over). I dunno, I need to make a move within the next week or so though, I can already tell I'm in danger of slipping into LJBF territory if I spend too much time with her without trying something..

 

[MrNiceGuy]

come on guys, I want to be able to actually suggest something to her, rather than just "hey lets go out sometime" but not actually be able to organise it/think of something

I'll check the rota for next week tommorow, and work out what time off we both have together..

 

[Ice Cold]

RTFM dude

First of all you have oneitis. I'm gonna tell you to approach 10 other chicks (good option), but you'll ignore me and will still want your new worker chick(bad option).



If you choose the bad option, my advice is:

Coffee "date"

What's needed from you is:

1)approach her
2)suggest the place
3)suggest the time
4)shut up and listen

It helps if you know that you can kino in that cafe


She either accepts or rejects. Accepts - great.

If she rejects, ask her to counteroffer. If she doesn't - next/ignore/attract further.

Cheers

 

[MrNiceGuy]

cheers, you're right, That was a wussy post. I'm in the initial stages of developing one-itis (again), as usual I left it a little too long to try something,

I'm off out tonight, so I'll be approaching other chicks, but I'll still give her a try next week, once again, I'm thinking far too hard about all the details. Its best off that I either get with her now, or get rejected now so I can next her..

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by MrNiceGuy
cheers, you're right...

My name's ice cold dude...

 

[UNOWHO]

Generally, its good to take a coffee "date" first to personally get to know eachother.

Also, for what you originally said, one word: cab.

 

[iqqi]

hahahha,

this thread

will help you out too.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by UNOWHO
Also, for what you originally said, one word: cab.

And who's gonna pay for that?

 

[MrNiceGuy]

Originally posted by iqqi
hahahha,

this thread

will help you out too.

Please, its not got that bad yet.. there is no fluttering of my heart when I think of her, at the moment what I'm feeling is more lust than anything else...

Was making an effort with other chicks too this weekend, (read all about it in my recent post) one of my biggest missed opportunities ever..