Dangers of success with women.

[Bingo-Player]

Women are inherently destructive and cause chaos. Women are the ultimate source of validation for men. More than money, more than status, more than accolades. Whether most men realize it or not a lot of what they do is to get more women and if this encourages you to be a better man that is good however once attaining high levels of success with women a man can fall into the trap of validation seeking and get his life force literally sucked out of him.

I had a period where all i did was focus on women and though i got a lot in the long run it ****ed my life up. I felt i wasnt enough unless i had multiple girls or my "skill set" to get girls werent as sharp. When i got the girls i was high on life, when i didnt, i felt worthless. I would say like a drug addict but not like, i was a drug addict.

Good post but men of all ages lust after sexy & beautiful women

their beauty alone holds enough power to start wars and usually the more beautiful they are the more trouble that tends to follow them

there is no harm in being successful with or understanding our female counterparts in fact in todays world I would argue its essential to understand them so they DON'T ruin your life

They are a massive part of every mans culture and every mans life Like everything its to what level you let them impact your solitude , I know guys who's entire lives revolve around their girlfreinds

Is this healthy ? .....I am not so sure

Its certainly bitten a couple of them on the backside on numerous occasions


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at 31 I treat women largely as entertainment packages I tend to evaluate how much I enjoy spending time and having sex with them and allocate them my attention & time accordingly my favourites naturally get more time and attention

If one starts playing up I just bin it

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Good post but men of all ages lust after sexy & beautiful women

their beauty alone holds enough power to start wars and usually the more beautiful they are the more trouble that tends to follow them

there is no harm in being successful with or understanding our female counterparts in fact in todays world I would argue its essential to understand them so they DON'T ruin your life

They are a massive part of every mans culture and every mans life Like everything its to what level you let them impact your solitude , I know guys who's entire lives revolve around their girlfreinds

Is this healthy ? .....I am not so sure

Its certainly bitten a couple of them on the backside on numerous occasions


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at 31 I treat women largely as entertainment packages I tend to evaluate how much I enjoy spending time and having sex with them and allocate them my attention & time accordingly my favourites naturally get more time and attention

If one starts playing up I just bin it

Don’t get me wrong I love women and have two I’m seeing rn. The trap is when you revolve your life around them. Like others posters have said they lost friends became pieces of sh1t when they do this. And ironically your success with women go down when you focus on them.

focus on you until the focus is on you. Men attract women chase. Men are the prize women should be magnetized to you if your on your purpose.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Can you give example of a strike warranting a dump? Is it severe as unfaithfulness or just an annoying habit?

as a fvck buddy she can go to bars but not drink or smoke around me. Idc. If she’s someone I’m serious with absolutely none of that bull sh1t. I told my main girl if she does any of that she’s out. So it depends on how serious I take the girl. My main girl cut off all her male friends with zero hesitation and I made her delete her snap and she had zero snap back. She’s feminine submissive does what I ask and focuses her attention on how to make me happy. The other girls I’m seeing I rly don’t care as I know a relationship with them would be impossible but their hot so whatever

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

never did molly. but did coke back in the day.

Success with women when your on a roll feels almost identical to Molly. But the crash is also as intense as Molly lmao

 

[Gamisch]

If you followed any of the stuff I said early on when I first made an account, alot of it was about how being a player type for a long time labeled me a "womanizer", had me lose friends, had people lose trust in me, make people think i was sleeping with everyone.. made guys not want to bring their girlfriends around me or have me over when their girlfriends were around, yet have all our other guy friends there.. etc

I mean sht, I got fired from one job because of messin around with multiple women.. I mean im sure i menitoned other sht too but in all honesty and in hindsight, none of the negatives were that bad.. lol. I think the biggest negative is that for a while a lot of women would see me as this player guy and simply not trust me from the getgo. But, I learned to bypass that just by learning to be a genuinely good guy in their eyes.

Besides that, yeah I developed a sex addiction from many years. It started in my late teens early 20's and it just got worse. Andeach time I'd decide I wanted to chill and settle down, I'd get more pu55y thrown at me like the universe was just preventing me from being a standup one woman guy.

Eventually I learned to just keep a balanced life and not fall too far into any one thing.. lust can be very dangerous.

This. You are 100% right.. I didn't even think about this!

Another danger of success with women is indeed about how the outside world will look at you. That one incel-like friend will now avoid you like the plague.

At some point a dude tried to literary shoot me at a house party while i DIDN'T EVEN talked to his gf(also didn't know the guy) I ws just vibing and he got mad at me outta NOTHING. The typical infamous response of a" bluepilled Alpha ", trying to eliminate me as a possible source of danger to his relationship..


Another one; ST fecking D's; couple weeks ago I met a woman, went on a date and ended up at her place. Got a little tipsy,Fecked her without protection..i know STUPIDOS . Luckily I had nothing, but the waiting for my test results was a punishment by itself already.


Nobody likes a womanizer,not even (,or especially)"fellow" womanizers ,let alone bluepilled betas.

 

[RazorRambo24]

This. You are 100% right.. I didn't even think about this!

Another danger of success with women is indeed about how the outside world will look at you. That one incel-like friend will now avoid you like the plague.

At some point a dude tried to literary shoot me at a house party while i DIDN'T EVEN talked to his gf(also didn't know the guy) I ws just vibing and he got mad at me outta NOTHING. The typical infamous response of a" bluepilled Alpha ", trying to eliminate me as a possible source of danger to his relationship..


Another one; ST fecking D's; couple weeks ago before I met a woman, went on a date and ended up at her place. Got a little tipsy,Fecked her without protection..i know STUPIDOS . Luckily I had nothing, but the waiting for my test results was a punishment by itself already.


Nobody likes a womanizer,not even (,or especially)"fellow" womanizers ,let alone bluepilled betas.

Yeah man I have literally watched grown men turn into gossipy teenagers telling female friends of ours about sht like "why does <razor realname> get all the girls? what am i doing wrong" and be like jealous and envious of me. Tell me sht like "hey man i like <new girl in group of friends> can u not talk to her please" then get mad when the girl ends up liking me / they never make a move..

Even on this forum man, people project their insecurities on you so much. There's like 1 or 2 guys on here who always try to take jabs at me because they hate that I'm doing well in life and cannot believe it to be possible, because their own lives are pathetic. its wack but then you read their posts over the span of many months and it makes sense.. These dudes are jus miserable lol

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

This. You are 100% right.. I didn't even think about this!

Another danger of success with women is indeed about how the outside world will look at you. That one incel-like friend will now avoid you like the plague.

At some point a dude tried to literary shoot me at a house party while i DIDN'T EVEN talked to his gf(also didn't know the guy) I ws just vibing and he got mad at me outta NOTHING. The typical infamous response of a" bluepilled Alpha ", trying to eliminate me as a possible source of danger to his relationship..


Another one; ST fecking D's; couple weeks ago before I met a woman, went on a date and ended up at her place. Got a little tipsy,Fecked her without protection..i know STUPIDOS . Luckily I had nothing, but the waiting for my test results was a punishment by itself already.


Nobody likes a womanizer,not even (,or especially)"fellow" womanizers ,let alone bluepilled betas.

bluepilled betas hate guys who get women.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Yeah man I have literally watched grown men turn into gossipy teenagers telling female friends of ours about sht like "why does <razor realname> get all the girls? what am i doing wrong" and be like jealous and envious of me. Tell me sht like "hey man i like <new girl in group of friends> can u not talk to her please" then get mad when the girl ends up liking me / they never make a move..

Even on this forum man, people project their insecurities on you so much. There's like 1 or 2 guys on here who always try to take jabs at me because they hate that I'm doing well in life and cannot believe it to be possible, because their own lives are pathetic. its wack but then you read their posts over the span of many months and it makes sense.. These dudes are jus miserable lol

comes with the territory. Ive had almost all my friends in college and hs backstab me or to sly passive aggressive **** because i was getting all the girls. I now keep to myself and only see girls i like and will only associate with those who have their own sh1t going on.

 

[RazorRambo24]

comes with the territory. Ive had almost all my friends in college and hs backstab me or to sly passive aggressive **** because i was getting all the girls. I now keep to myself and only see girls i like and will only associate with those who have their own sh1t going on.

Fucc yea man I cant believe I forgot to mention that part too. I've had GIRLS in my friend groups, let alone guys.. tell girls that were into me some f-ed up sht or some lies just out of jealousy.. then later admit it to me while drunk when I asked them if they said something to the girls. Sadly, i hung around some of those friends a bit too long before I moved on. I still like dthem and they were cool for alot of other reasons but its just like nasty that people would do sht like that.

To be fair one of the girls who did this was like low self esteem and used to sleep with every guy in our friend group (cept me since I was the only guy in our friend group who wouldnt sleep with friends like that )

 

[Gamisch]

The danger of success with women comes down to time: they suck up a lot of it, don't leave you alone. There will be plenty of times you will be bored and wish her gone, but she'll take her sweet ass time to go.

The above was a bit of a lighthearted reply - the last paragraph in the op was good I thought

Also very true.

Combined with what @Thebestthereeveris said, the addiction, it becomes devastating. Eventually you'll have nothing to show for, no quality women, no career nada. Especially when you are an woman -addict, then all of the previous conquers are WORTHLESS to you..you need more and fresh V-g.

I have to admit that unfortunately in my culture (Caribbean culture) many men live for nothing else but women. Willing to kill or get killed over ****ing h0es. No walking away or using common sense. Nope. We kill over women who'd cheat on us or monkeybranche between us( the same men) anyway...I bring up culture because its baffling how much time our men will invest in women.


E.g many years ago I had a woman, low life dumbazz but hot. Convinced me to call in sick and spend more time with her...dumb azz me also agreed.. Ofcourse I got fired after a couple times but i didn't even mind, thinking how I now could spend even more time with her..that mentality.

Embarrassing to even write this ,but hopefully another dude can learn from this!

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Fucc yea man I cant believe I forgot to mention that part too. I've had GIRLS in my friend groups, let alone guys.. tell girls that were into me some f-ed up sht or some lies just out of jealousy.. then later admit it to me while drunk when I asked them if they said something to the girls. Sadly, i hung around some of those friends a bit too long before I moved on. I still like dthem and they were cool for alot of other reasons but its just like nasty that people would do sht like that.

Ive had chances to fck my friend's girl cause she was coming onto me but didnt cause its bro code. Same friend did some sly sh1t. The real judge of a man is how he acts around women. Does he sell you out? Do you trust your friend around your girl will he try to make a move or just keep it cordial and respect boundaries. Does he put you down or try to make himself look good around hot girls? These are all REAL SIGNS of a mans character and i KNOW all of you guys know what im tlaking about when guys change their personality whenever a hot girl comes around. A real man will stay the same and not change. That is the friend you want.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Also very true.

Combined with what @Thebestthereeveris said, the addiction, it becomes devastating. Eventually you'll have nothing to show for, no quality women, no career nada. Especially when you are an woman -addict, then all of the previous conquers are WORTHLESS to you..you need more and fresh V-g.

I have to admit that unfortunately in my culture (Caribbean culture) many men live for nothing else but women. Willing to kill or get killed over ****ing h0es. No walking away or using common sense. Nope. We kill over women who'd cheat on us or monkeybranche between us( the same men) anyway...I bring up culture because its baffling how much time our men will invest in women.


E.g many years ago I had a woman, low life dumbazz but hot. Convinced me to call in sick and spend more time with her...dumb azz me also agreed.. Ofcourse I got fired after a couple times but i didn't even mind, thinking how I now could spend even more time with her..that mentality.

Embarrassing to even write this ,but hopefully another dude can learn from this!

i was spending too much time with my main girl and told her im going to see her less. Women are in the same category as video games, good food, jerking off, and entertainment. They are there as a referesher from your otherwise stressful workfilled week they should NEVER be the focus or else youll be a sad waste of a man.

 

[corrector]

Women are in the same category as video games, good food, jerking off, and entertainment.

Really?

 

[RazorRambo24]

Ive had chances to fck my friend's girl cause she was coming onto me but didnt cause its bro code. Same friend did some sly sh1t. The real judge of a man is how he acts around women. Does he sell you out? Do you trust your friend around your girl will he try to make a move or just keep it cordial and respect boundaries. Does he put you down or try to make himself look good around hot girls? These are all REAL SIGNS of a mans character and i KNOW all of you guys know what im tlaking about when guys change their personality whenever a hot girl comes around. A real man will stay the same and not change. That is the friend you want.

What I learned is most dudes will fold or act different for a woman . Might even say stuff about you if they know you're likely to get the poon before them, just to like try and eliminate you as competition. Will also go after your sloppy seconds/sleep with girls you already hit/nexted.

But that's why I leveled up and got some real alpha male friends who also experience abundance wtih women. Those dudes are not phased by women and would never act different for a girl. Thank God for that man. When you hang around weaker dudes who dont have options, dont have a variety of pu55y and dont have their finances right, you're basically running with theives.. and There's no loyalty amongst theives. The chance you leave a stack of money out, they're gone with it. Not just literally but also figuratively.

 

[Gamisch]

Really?

SHOULD be, yeah really.

But then again, no man would pay 200 bucks to play 50 minutes with bust up damaged console..or travel to the other side of this planet to play games or pop a molly.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Really?

I actually think they might be on the same level for a “boyfriend” considering such a man is a woman’s pet.

If a woman is not a man’s wife and/or mother of his children or family member, I don’t know why the hell he’d be around her much.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

I actually think they might be on the same level for a “boyfriend” considering such a man is a woman’s pet.

If a woman is not a man’s wife and/or mother of his children or family member, I don’t know why the hell he’d be around her much.

to bust a nut.

 

[Manure Spherian]

to bust a nut.

Anything else?