Is this like a chiken giving the cook advice on how to cook it so it will taste excellent.
Please stop with the estrogen filled comments we have enough of those with the dudes here. I understand you are just trying to ensure that your weakness/emotions aren't trampled by us men, but honestly we dont give a hell what you think. The ones who claim they do really dont they are just saying what they were programmed to say.
Lost of control of emotions is a weak/feminine trait homey, you need to simply practice working on self discipline. It is a skill that takes work.
And please I hope no man on here is foolish enough to take advice from a chick on how to get chicks. They dont even know why they fall for the a@@ hole they always fall for themselves.