If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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You’ll probably be reading a lot about a certain “Eugene” soonMaybe next Gen.... the new "simp/afc" word will be like "Kevin/Kyle" a name like Chad.... but for simps rather than jocks.. lol
Those still sound alpha to me. I would think since Jerry from rick and morty is a perfect example of a simp/afc, Jerry is the perfect name.Maybe next Gen.... the new "simp/afc" word will be like "Kevin/Kyle"
Surprising results so far. I would have expected mostly a young crowd here. Maybe the poll will change.Your naturally going to see older guys here. Young guys today are to stupid and puzzy whipped to even try to figure out why they are failing with women. I work with several.
Good points zekkoSurprising results so far. I would have expected mostly a young crowd here. Maybe the poll will change.
I bet 10 years ago there was a younger crowd, PUA was more of a "hip" thing back then. Now it's just swipe right and left.
Younger people tend to think they're more invulnerable, so they might pass off any failures to just bad luck, or "haven't met the right one yet". It could take them awhile to realize they might need to work on themselves.
I don't think AFC and Simp are the same. I think there is an overlap. I see simps as guys giving women idolizing women on OnlyFans and Instagram. AFC's in 2005 likely had better social skills than Simps in 2021 due to less time spent behind electronic screens.I remember the days of "AFC's", now everyone calls them "Simps".
There is less emphasis on in person approaching now. This was even true before the pandemic. Swiping replaced a lot of bar/nightclub approaching during the 2010s. Day game is a niche, both now and 10 or 15 years ago. Most men, then and now, don't have the guts to do non-bar approaching.I bet 10 years ago there was a younger crowd, PUA was more of a "hip" thing back then. Now it's just swipe right and left.
I also don't think a lot of guys under 26 now are using message boards. It's more of social media, mainly Instagram. I'd say it is similar for 26-35 year olds too. Though Reddit is somewhat of a thing.Your naturally going to see older guys here. Young guys today are to stupid and puzzy whipped to even try to figure out why they are failing with women. I work with several.
The betatization process is so subtle that young dudes or even some 35 year olds have no clue.
If you dont have that lightbulb go off in your head and say you need to learn etc etc. A guy won't find this place.
I think it could be why Rollo said dont bother trying to unplug dudes. Trial by fire kind of thing?
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
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"when the student is ready the teacher will appear"I think it could be why Rollo said dont bother trying to unplug dudes. Trial by fire kind of thing?
the current generation turning 18 will eventually be the most based of all.Still looks like younger guys are somehow representative. I mean the under30 category. Of course, it's not really a big sample so far.
But give it 10 more years, and I bet the average age will be a lot higher. I don't have much faith in the generations tuning 18 in the next few years.
I grew up in a pretty old-fashioned Christian family, but without being restricted too much. I was drinking and partying since 15 without them having a big problem. And I probably ended up the same as you.the current generation turning 18 will eventually be the most based of all.
To explain this, I was raised in a feminist household. I grew up with an anti male outlook. My mother and my sister both kind of were borderline, and as the youngest, I had no real protection other than my father (who my mother used the threat of divorce to keep on check)
my school was 1990s U.K. - very socialist, very feminist.
by 17 I was a revolutionary communist and almost apologising for being male.
as I got older I realised, bit by bit, the total BS I had been raised on. I am now the most outspoken opponent of socialism and feminism.
You don’t forgive people who helped and encouraged you to self harm.
my sister has done it to her boys. My nephews say things like “those guys in that van are the kind of men who don’t treat women well”. When I point out a girl with big t**ts (they are 16 for gods sake, it’s not like I am sending them to a stripclub) they are super horrified.One of them says he doesn’t believe in sex at an early age.
At their age, even with my upbringing, I was getting smashed at raves and had had sex a few times (or “done stuff”)
one of them is getting obese and has found a GF who dropped out of school.
I tried to explain to my sister that what they need is a gym regime and to understand what life is like for men. Their dad is a nice guy but he’s never been that kind of dude . They want their kids to share in their mediocrity, when you know deep down, every male wants to be an alpha and resents being a simp,
THEY all think I’m the one with the issue, that my drives to be successful and gettingwhat I want (a hot wife 11 years younger) are things to be ashamed of. I just don’t care, I am unashamedly interested in the best.
so, long detour but the kids of today when they hit 30 and they see what all this social liberalism has done for them, will end up being the most right wing and based of all.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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Their age is shown under their thumbnail to the left of their posts, except for the ones who hide it. I don't hide mine. I'm 58.Curious to find out what age demographic this board is in... I know there's a range but to see what the majority is would be quite interesting.
How are you finding the game at 58 ? i bet theres a hella weird social dynamic in the generation of women your having to deal with kinda caught between old world and new world social dynamics ?Their age is shown under their thumbnail to the left of their posts, except for the ones who hide it. I don't hide mine. I'm 58.
More straight forward.How are you finding the game at 58 ? i bet theres a hella weird social dynamic in the generation of women your having to deal with kinda caught between old world and new world social dynamics ?
or is it just a lot more straight forward ? very interested to hear
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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