Just had a third date with a girl. REALLY like her. Pretty, sexy, and I feel that we actually connect. But she dropped a massive bomb on me that absolutely crushed me... She's been living with genital herpes for the last five years. First of all, I have to say that my respect for this girl is through the roof for actually telling me, especially this soon. I told her (with tears in my eyes) that I was sorry, but I'm not willing to take the risk. In other words, "that's a huge deal to me and I can't get passed that. Bye." It hurt like a motherf*cker to say that, too.. But at the same time this is a girl who I actually really like and could see myself in a relationship with at some point.. Should I try to work this out? Or is the risk just too great to be worth it? I'm so torn..