That is a bit of a tall order with me. When I say I"m "(mostly) over my crush", it means I'm not in contact with her. There might be some residuals, which means, if she's in the same room there is some effect. However, if I think she and gay-Tyrone/lite hooked-up, then that would help me not to take her seriously enough to even want to sit three seats away from her, and might even look down on her, and delete the last youtube playlist that is reserved for that occasion. It's not enough to "mostly" be over a crush, just as much as a partial eclipse is not a total eclipse. That 1% makes a difference. I found that out the hard way with the last Great (North) American Eclipse.The key is to get rid of all possible envy of other guys.
Worrying about who might have hooked with up with whom is not a rabbit hole you want to go down.
I don’t care if they bang in the next cubicle lol. You still stay completely chill and enjoy your lunch.
I know you said you are mostly over your crush, and that’s good. Just mentioning this as a reminder.
That being said, how did you get rid of envy of other guys. You don't sound like you are a prolific womanizer that has plenty of options. I'm listening to how you get rid of envies from other guys? This is something that plauges all around. Sometimes its helpful because I find envy helps me make sales. It is like I have to compensate by making more sales.