Well summer has started. During school I didn't get to see her much (she doesn't go to my school) but now that it's summer, I was looking forward to change. Today's the first day I take her out this summer. And it was... kinda... boring.
I picked her up around 3:30pm. I change up how I greet her because I used to be the one that goes for the hug/kiss, she's never coming to me. So I don't initiate it. She doesn't either. We just hop in my ride. I have my music UP so and I just lean back and ride, and we do little talking at all. I was thinking that that wouldn't be a bad thing. Do you have to talk while you're in the car? - points from me
Well we head to the flea mall, and have a little fun there I guess. Was pretty easygoing. While we were there, I saw one of my boys. Time to increase my social proof? Eh, I just shake his hand, and exchange no words. Maybe that was a mistake. We move on and she runs into 2 guys that she knows that work there. Well they ask if I'm her bf (they don't really say it out loud, it's like they kinda ask her w/ not much words.) I'm giving them a serious/confident/don't-****-wit-her-look/i'm-a-cool-guy look. Then they procede to talk to her for about a minute (playing around). I think I was totally AFC here because I don't say anything. I just laugh at what supposedly is something funny he says. Damn, I need to speak up! - points from me
After that, we really don't know what to do after that. Me not being the total DJ that I should be, I have no idea what we can do besides go to the mall or the movies (and she's tired of going to the mall w/ people). So we're sitting there, I'm wheelin the car around the parkin lot for fun so it wouldn't be so DEAD. Then we decide to drive her to her dad's house (in a somewhat project). She goes in there for like 5minutes. Comes out and we're just ridin and she looks upset. I ask what's wrong, and she doesn't tell me. I don't take it any further, I just don't speak.
Lastly we go to the movies and I take her to see "CARS". She's laying on me and all kisses me at times. At one time, her phone goes off and she picks it up. I hear a DUDE talking to her. She starts TALKING to him for about 45 seconds. WTF? She doesn't even mention she's at the movies WITH HER BF, she's just at the movies. WTH??? And I swear this has to be the same dude that called her before when I was with her last time. I don't comment about him though. I never act like I'm jealous when I really am.
I drive her home after that, and we still don't talk much in the car. She gives me a good bye kiss and as soon as she's at her door, she's already on her cellphone.
Damn. This isn't good. This is my first relationship and it's been 6 months. What am I to do to keep it from not going STALE? What am I to do about this faggot that's calling her (is he just a friend)?
I picked her up around 3:30pm. I change up how I greet her because I used to be the one that goes for the hug/kiss, she's never coming to me. So I don't initiate it. She doesn't either. We just hop in my ride. I have my music UP so and I just lean back and ride, and we do little talking at all. I was thinking that that wouldn't be a bad thing. Do you have to talk while you're in the car? - points from me
Well we head to the flea mall, and have a little fun there I guess. Was pretty easygoing. While we were there, I saw one of my boys. Time to increase my social proof? Eh, I just shake his hand, and exchange no words. Maybe that was a mistake. We move on and she runs into 2 guys that she knows that work there. Well they ask if I'm her bf (they don't really say it out loud, it's like they kinda ask her w/ not much words.) I'm giving them a serious/confident/don't-****-wit-her-look/i'm-a-cool-guy look. Then they procede to talk to her for about a minute (playing around). I think I was totally AFC here because I don't say anything. I just laugh at what supposedly is something funny he says. Damn, I need to speak up! - points from me
After that, we really don't know what to do after that. Me not being the total DJ that I should be, I have no idea what we can do besides go to the mall or the movies (and she's tired of going to the mall w/ people). So we're sitting there, I'm wheelin the car around the parkin lot for fun so it wouldn't be so DEAD. Then we decide to drive her to her dad's house (in a somewhat project). She goes in there for like 5minutes. Comes out and we're just ridin and she looks upset. I ask what's wrong, and she doesn't tell me. I don't take it any further, I just don't speak.
Lastly we go to the movies and I take her to see "CARS". She's laying on me and all kisses me at times. At one time, her phone goes off and she picks it up. I hear a DUDE talking to her. She starts TALKING to him for about 45 seconds. WTF? She doesn't even mention she's at the movies WITH HER BF, she's just at the movies. WTH??? And I swear this has to be the same dude that called her before when I was with her last time. I don't comment about him though. I never act like I'm jealous when I really am.
I drive her home after that, and we still don't talk much in the car. She gives me a good bye kiss and as soon as she's at her door, she's already on her cellphone.
Damn. This isn't good. This is my first relationship and it's been 6 months. What am I to do to keep it from not going STALE? What am I to do about this faggot that's calling her (is he just a friend)?