Cozy rooms to prevent LMR

[BackInTheGame78]

For the most part I've found if you are laid back and let things happen with the flow of the evening rather than trying to push things too hard, LMR is virtually non existant.

IMO, a big part of LMR is you are trying to jump the gun on getting to a point without taking the prerequisite steps beforehand to ensure she is ready to move forward to that step.

There is such a thing as smoothness and transition and if you are having a lot of LMR this is the area you are failing in and need to improve.

 

[SW15]

a big part of LMR is you are trying to jump the gun on getting to a point without taking the prerequisite steps beforehand to ensure she is ready to move forward to that step.

There is such a thing as smoothness and transition and if you are having a lot of LMR this is the area you are failing in and need to improve.

Agree. I had a situation long ago where I think the interior/exterior of my apartment caused a woman not to have sex with me. It was an average looking apartment and there were some flaws with my home's interior at the time. I had no other explanation on why I lost that prospect.

 

[Slag]

A double-wide, a back 40 and a Cummins Dodge?

Don't forget the polyester curtains and the redwood deck....

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Last minute resistance = LMR. Haha, now what is an L7? Vertebrae?

I always thought it was Last Moment Resistance.

L7 is hippie speak for a '(broken/mad) square' or 'uncool / unhip person', from the L plus the inverted shape of the 7 form a square together with only three connecting corners: L7

 

[Serenity]

It got me thinking that if this could be a factor to lower the chances of last minute resistance.

Having a nice space certainly isn't a disadvantage, but it's pretty far down on the list of what causes last minute resistance. Other fears and doubts about who you are as a person are much more important. Sometimes it's even just down to her personal insecurities and there's only so much you can even do about it.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

My lair is popular with women because it's comfy and easy to adjust, but the main reason they love my ground floor apartment is because I'm in it, and my presence permeates the rooms.

The trick is to have a place that screams class. Art on walls, window treatments, quality furniture, area rugs all speak of taste and class. Hide the console. Put some nice picture books on the coffee table, have a clean kitchen and immaculate bathroom. Exude class, it speaks of being established and trustworthy - make your pad a place that is inviting and comfortable a place people like to hang out in.

One of my kittens recently visited one of my acquaintances to collect some quality drugs rare goods and he had recently moved to a new apartment. She told me it looked like the set of Patrick Bateman's apartment in American Psycho or a high class dentist office, and the psychopathic slaughterhouse vibe of the place gave her the creeps and she couldn't relax.

While you don't need tatami on your floor like I have, it doesn't hurt to have something that makes the woman want to curl up in it, like a hammock chair or even an oversized beanbag or huge pillow (pet shops have huge pillows for dogs that work fine for kittens as well), even some sheepskins or deep pile rug.


Or just a comfy fauteuil: