dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
Was reading How to eliminate desire in the bible and came across this
Quote:
Rule 1 of the Tao of Steve: Eliminate your desires. If your out with a girl and you are thinking of getting laid, you're finished. A woman can smell your agenda.
When you interact with a woman and she senses no desire in you, it does a lot of things. First of all, she will feel more comfortable with you. Secondly, by her sensing you are not lusting after her, it causes her to become confused as to why you are not lusting after her like every other guy does: it makes you stand out. By not overtly desiring her, you become a challenge. Because of the affront to her ego, she all of a sudden wonders how she can make you become more attracted to her or at least notice her. Finally, you will more easily have fun and be more fun to be around which will make women respond more positively towards you.
This got me thinking about something that was mentioned in the book of POOk about how we shouldn't be afraid of our desire and sexuality and how this separates the feminine men from the real men and I started thinking does this mean on a first date i should eliminate my kino and and my desire by listening to the eliminate desire post or listen tothe POOk post.....maybe I've interpreted wrong but Just a bit confused that's all
Quote:
Rule 1 of the Tao of Steve: Eliminate your desires. If your out with a girl and you are thinking of getting laid, you're finished. A woman can smell your agenda.
When you interact with a woman and she senses no desire in you, it does a lot of things. First of all, she will feel more comfortable with you. Secondly, by her sensing you are not lusting after her, it causes her to become confused as to why you are not lusting after her like every other guy does: it makes you stand out. By not overtly desiring her, you become a challenge. Because of the affront to her ego, she all of a sudden wonders how she can make you become more attracted to her or at least notice her. Finally, you will more easily have fun and be more fun to be around which will make women respond more positively towards you.
This got me thinking about something that was mentioned in the book of POOk about how we shouldn't be afraid of our desire and sexuality and how this separates the feminine men from the real men and I started thinking does this mean on a first date i should eliminate my kino and and my desire by listening to the eliminate desire post or listen tothe POOk post.....maybe I've interpreted wrong but Just a bit confused that's all