Contradicting bible advice, can anyone elaborate?

[dj ben2]

Was reading How to eliminate desire in the bible and came across this
Quote:
Rule 1 of the Tao of Steve: Eliminate your desires. If your out with a girl and you are thinking of getting laid, you're finished. A woman can smell your agenda.

When you interact with a woman and she senses no desire in you, it does a lot of things. First of all, she will feel more comfortable with you. Secondly, by her sensing you are not lusting after her, it causes her to become confused as to why you are not lusting after her like every other guy does: it makes you stand out. By not overtly desiring her, you become a challenge. Because of the affront to her ego, she all of a sudden wonders how she can make you become more attracted to her or at least notice her. Finally, you will more easily have fun and be more fun to be around which will make women respond more positively towards you.

This got me thinking about something that was mentioned in the book of POOk about how we shouldn't be afraid of our desire and sexuality and how this separates the feminine men from the real men and I started thinking does this mean on a first date i should eliminate my kino and and my desire by listening to the eliminate desire post or listen tothe POOk post.....maybe I've interpreted wrong but Just a bit confused that's all

 

[Ease]

When you interact with a woman and she senses no desire in you, it does a lot of things. First of all, she will feel more comfortable with you. Secondly, by her sensing you are not lusting after her, it causes her to become confused as to why you are not lusting after her like every other guy does: it makes you stand out. By not overtly desiring her, you become a challenge. Because of the affront to her ego, she all of a sudden wonders how she can make you become more attracted to her or at least notice her. Finally, you will more easily have fun and be more fun to be around which will make women respond more positively towards you.

This paragraph describes playing 'hard to get'. You can do it sometimes, but will work against you most of the time and is a bit of a feminine move. There are better ways of gaining her interest.

Showing no interest is what a gay man does. Saying 'you look good' and 'i like you' are mandatory.

 

[Ciel]

Pook says eliminate your AFC views of desire first, then embrace its more masculine form.

 

[dj ben2]

This paragraph describes playing 'hard to get'. You can do it sometimes, but will work against you most of the time and is a bit of a feminine move. There are better ways of gaining her interest.

Showing no interest is what a gay man does. Saying 'you look good' and 'i like you' are mandatory.

This is what I thought as ever since reading looks posts I do the opposite and Lethe girl know that I am attracted to them by more eye contact and the use of kino but reading that other post made me second guess myself, thanks for the advice I'm sure I can incorporate both at the same time by portraying that I am interested in her but at the same time don't "need" her

 

[Zodiac]

The DJ Bible is a bunch of guidelines and ideas for you to adapt to your syle. You have to pick and choose what you want to use as not all of it will work for yourself. You cant use all the advice within at once or in one "game."

 

[LE6END]

This paragraph describes playing 'hard to get'. You can do it sometimes, but will work against you most of the time and is a bit of a feminine move. There are better ways of gaining her interest.

Showing no interest is what a gay man does. Saying 'you look good' and 'i like you' are mandatory.

D-mn. Second post of yours I saw containing wisdom. I think some men get so nervous about making an AFC move, they forget--if not, refuse-- one of the most simplest of tasks: Saying 'you look good' and 'i like you' are mandatory