Constantly getting flaked on!

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Guys, the woman who flaked out on me hardcore with the "sister locked her keys out of the house" excuse, called me last night around 9pm. I didn't answer, and she did not leave a voice mail.

About an hour later I texted her "What's up?", and she never responded.

What a strange woman.
 

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While I was on the phone with plan B, the flake called again and said her sister will make me a cake to show how sorry she was.

Plan B just flaked too
MNIN, it sounds to me like Plan A didn't really flake; that hers may have been a legit excuse, BECAUSE she offered you something specific to make it up to you. Sometimes a cigar is really a cigar. Flakes don't initiate phone calls offering to make up for their travesties. And then she called you again after that. I'd check it out. Just keep her history in mind.

She may not have left a message, or maybe there's a delay going on in you receiving it. Sometimes I get VM three or four days after they called. It sucks.

As for your text out to her, if she received it, if she hasn't lost interest, this is exactly why I've posted somewhere about not getting caught up in text messages, IMs, emails, all going nowhere fast.

You guys need to stop shooting yourselves in the feet.

CALL her and actually SPEAK. Ask her when the cake's going to be ready.
 
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Mr. Me said:
MNIN, it sounds to me like Plan A didn't really flake; that hers may have been a legit excuse, BECAUSE she offered you something specific to make it up to you. Sometimes a cigar is really a cigar. Flakes don't initiate phone calls offering to make up for their travesties. And then she called you again after that. I'd check it out. Just keep her history in mind.

She may not have left a message, or maybe there's a delay going on in you receiving it. Sometimes I get VM three or four days after they called. It sucks.

As for your text out to her, if she received it, if she hasn't lost interest, this is exactly why I've posted somewhere about not getting caught up in text messages, IMs, emails, all going nowhere fast.

You guys need to stop shooting yourselves in the feet.

CALL her and actually SPEAK. Ask her when the cake's going to be ready.

Alright. I'll dig her # out of the trash and see what she has to say. Thanks.
 
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Mr. Me said:
MNIN, it sounds to me like Plan A didn't really flake; that hers may have been a legit excuse, BECAUSE she offered you something specific to make it up to you. Sometimes a cigar is really a cigar. Flakes don't initiate phone calls offering to make up for their travesties. And then she called you again after that. I'd check it out. Just keep her history in mind.

She may not have left a message, or maybe there's a delay going on in you receiving it. Sometimes I get VM three or four days after they called. It sucks.

As for your text out to her, if she received it, if she hasn't lost interest, this is exactly why I've posted somewhere about not getting caught up in text messages, IMs, emails, all going nowhere fast.

You guys need to stop shooting yourselves in the feet.

CALL her and actually SPEAK. Ask her when the cake's going to be ready.

Well I tried to call her once last night she didn't pick up. Saw her in chat awhile ago and I asked her about getting my cake.

And she's telling me "maybe" I'll get the cake. She didn't mention the horrendous flake from Friday night either.

Is it time to next this b!tch yet?
 

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Hey, MNIN, you checked it out! That's good - leave no stone unturned.

Her "maybe" could be her teasing you. Did you tease her back? Or maybe she's lost interest. But here's the thing, at this point, you can now walk away, and if she steps up to the plate and follows up on her offer, she'll let you know. If you're still interested at that point, you'll decide.

Next time though that a gal cancels but immediately offers up a specific "let me make it up to you" offer of her own volition, take her up on it instead of nexting her because she canceled. See what happens then. We need that idea of what to do for the times that they actually legitimately do need to cancel.

Next the ones that cancel and don't offer anything specific, like the ones that are vague with "call me next week" or "I'd still like to see you though...". Those are usually the real flakes.

But that also means that their interest was low to begin with. So the matter is really about either recognizing a woman's initial low interest so as to move on and/or how to build their (hopefully medium to high) interest level somewhat (or at least not lowering their IL) when first meeting them so that they're less prone to flake later.
 
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Did you tease her back? Or maybe she's lost interest. But here's the thing, at this point, you can now walk away, and if she steps up to the plate and follows up on her offer, she'll let you know. If you're still interested at that point, you'll decide.

Yeah I did the usual teased back etc etc.. I'm still not getting any pu$$y though.
 

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So last Monday, St. Patrick's Day, I hooked up with this chick and had sex that night. Then the next night, we went out and again had crazy monkey sex. Didn't see her for rest of week and she was out of town this weekend.

Man, she's 22 and I want to keep that young pvssy around. How the hell do I prevent a flake? If I call, I might seem desperate to see her...
 

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I'm still not getting any pu$$y though.
Boo the frickin' hoo. You're also not getting jerked around and stood up - if you can prevent flaking the best you can and move on to others that won't flake when you see the signs. You'll survive.

"No drought lasts forever".
 
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Boo the frickin' hoo. You're also not getting jerked around and stood up - if you can prevent flaking the best you can and move on to others that won't flake when you see the signs. You'll survive.

"No drought lasts forever".

At least with that 21 year old she never once flaked when we made plans. She always showed up even if her reasons were doing so were selfish. Free beer in the fridge, free smoke in the bong. I'd always show up too.
 
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