Mike32ct
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I've overhead a LOT of female gossip over the years (at work and other places). But I've NEVER heard a female bragging about how "confident" a guy was. Nor have I ever heard, "I slept with him because he was so confident."
It's usually some 300x zoom analysis of his looks/body and some discussion about his job/career or POSSIBLY charisma or humor.
Not that confidence doesn't matter, but if you have the other traits she wants, she just assumes that you would have the confidence too. If you apply for a white collar job, they don't ask if you can type or have keyboarding skills. It's sort of assumed lol.
Let's just refer to confidence as "necessary but not sufficient."
It's usually some 300x zoom analysis of his looks/body and some discussion about his job/career or POSSIBLY charisma or humor.
Not that confidence doesn't matter, but if you have the other traits she wants, she just assumes that you would have the confidence too. If you apply for a white collar job, they don't ask if you can type or have keyboarding skills. It's sort of assumed lol.
Let's just refer to confidence as "necessary but not sufficient."
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