Cold Approach : I'm ready & Mini-Field Report

[Kineti[C]harm]

Or you're just not intelligent enough to understand the sarcasm and exaggeration in my sentence... But I have actually NOT seen ONE SINGLE person on the town or at a party, E V E R. I actually haven't met someone with braces for over 10 years...

But if you are a short/little guy with braces it makes your situation 10++x harder, I don't give a f if you disagree, it's a fact.

 

[Saine]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Or you're just not intelligent enough to understand the sarcasm and exaggeration in my sentence... But I have actually NOT seen ONE SINGLE person on the town or at a party, E V E R. I actually haven't met someone with braces for over 10 years...

But if you are a short/little guy with braces it makes your situation 10++x harder, I don't give a f if you disagree, it's a fact.

Lol it's not a fact. It's rather "truth" in your head. Fact is something that cannot be disproven. Now let's use math in this.
1+1=2
Fact.
Martin Luther King was a great black man.
Truth.
I can disprove that. But I can't disprove 1+1=2 unless we're using a different subject, like metaphysical philosophy. Now THAT I'll use a different argument, hehe.

I am a short/little guy with braces but I never done cold approach. I am the true DJ who doesn't put people down like you and I do what I know. I thought I knew that this was Cold Approach. I was getting worried when it wasn't worried but afterall, thank god I got it wrong.

SO! I win, you lose. Jk, no argument here, just telling you. It's the internet, it's very hard to tell whether one is being sarcastic or not simply because sarcasm tends to look real.

 

[Saine]

Originally posted by THA REALNESS
I didn't say your post was stupid Saine ..i actually thought it was funny (sorta) i said Afcjobbers4life post was stupid.


And yeah you got the cold approach twisted . It is something you gotta master there is no one definitive opening line and like i said the opening line ain't sh1t ,it's switching up on her and gaming her during a conversation.


You don't really need a plan of action.Don't you talk to strangers everyday?Same thing ,once their attention is yours you switch it up .

BTW.you shouldn't practice on a moving target.

Hehe ok, I will not practice on moving target.. again.

I guess I wasn't wrong in the first place. It was rather not knowing and doing than knowing and doing. So not my fault.

 

[duke007]

Dude, it's good that you're attempting cold approaches but you won't learn anything by insulting girls and fighting.

Yeah that Asian was a b1tch so just keep your cool and leave.

This happened to me last night in a pub:

I see two girls sitting at a table talking, can't really tell if they are good-looking or not though.

I walk up confidently, pull out a chair noticing right then that they are no more than 5.5s. UGs. Oh well more practice.

Me: "You ladies mind if I sit here?"
Girls: "...."
Me: "How has your night been? Having fun?"
UG1: "Yeah"
Me: "Doesn't sound like you're having much fun"
UG1: "Just chilling"
Me: "OK, I'll leave you two to chill alone then"

I walk off. From the moment they saw me they had the most closed body language I'd ever seen. They had facial expressions like they just sucked on a lemon. Ug1s tone of voice was basically communicating, "F*ck off".

I wanted nothing more than to rip into them for being so rude to an easy-going guy who just wanted to chat. They will probably never get any guy to like them with such an attitude. It is their problem. They are UGs with no social skills.

But rather than losing my cool and escalating the situation I left with my pride intact. Then I spoke to a hotter girl more worthy.

Never put up with sh1t, Saine.

 

[Saine]

Oh damn man. Guess I was wrong to fight but... but... I... like fighting!
Ok...

Anyway...

Thanks, best tip so far. I won't lose my cool... again. Hold me back!

 

[drixsa]

Re: Cold Approach : I'm ready

Originally posted by Saine
I'm ready to do another one....

In the Bible I don't see anywhere on how to do a good cold approach, it seems like noone wrote a tutorial on this part.

In the meantime I wait for replies, I'll post what happened today.

Time & Date - 11/28/03 ; left home and did it at around 2:39PM
Surrounding - In NY, there's a lot of beautiful women, their *****shield is very high, VERY HIGH, unless you're very good looking because NYC women, especially the asians (mostly Cantonese) and the whites (mostly NY borned whites) are damn shallow.

saine i have been to NYC im not sure if it is becuase there are so many but the woman there always look good to me and if you know the right areas they dress pretty well too. but woman act the same way wherever you go it doesnt matter if its NYC,

First woman :

I am walking in the train looking for ways, I look like I got lost but really I'm just bored. You know, just trying to look for some target.

So I see this chick walking by (I will not say how any of the women look simply because I don't like being shallow) and I ask her "know the direction for Time Square?"
I knew it was bad to say that, I KNEW it and I didn't really want to "chase the tail" like that but I had to, it was the first thing that came to my mind and I was already nervous but did it without being self-conscious.

Her: sure, it's right around of this tunnel, just keep going straight until you get to the W or R
Me: thanks... oh and um... it seems like you know where to go, where you going?
Her: oh I'm going in the same direction as you (you can notice she is trying to "get away" from me as she turn her body)
Me: ok, I guess I'll follow you (my voice was shaky but thank god there are trains)
Her: ok

Situation change, we get on the train.
Me: ok never mind when I asked you for the Time Square direction, I was really not sure how to get to the W, that's all
Her: oh really..
Me: yeah, sorry-
Her: (she interrupt) it's ok
Me: yeah it is, hey um, you doing anything tonight? I'm free by the night, my brothers are all dead doing something
Her: (that's the face she gave me) dead?
Her: ok no, I have to go (she gets off)

So then I get off the NEXT NEXT station and turn the other way (the opposite of Manhattan in Brooklyn) and I go "AHHHHH STUPID ME, why am I so nervous." Yeah.

when you are a rookie or do not feel comfortable at cold approaches then just stick with "hi"

saying "its seems like you know your way around, where are you going?"

it doesnt really make sense. this would be a case of -its not what you say its how you say it-

ok this this girl wanted to get away from you? why? i am thinking that you probably came on too strong too fast and asking her where she was going scared her a bit.

even though i am sure you are not, psychos ride the subway too.

saying that you will "follow" her is never a good thing to do.

if anything you should of said "ok well then you can take me there" or something not so cheesey along those line

i can go into detail and detail talking about your convo but its like i can see your mindset through your writing

you have balls, but your not comfortable in what you are doing.

instead of just talking to someone and letting the conversation go you are forcing it

when i first started out with the cold approaches i just talked to everyone as if they were someone i knew or even like a friend

i wasnt even interested in any type of # close

i didnt care how good looking a girl was b/c i wasnt interested in even getting a # just to have a nice convo

when i took that pressure off myself then things started to work a lot better b/c i wasnt having the convo to get something out of it

Girl #2 was a complete biatch.

if you say hi and she doesnt say hi back the girl has issues or she probably isnt in the mood to meet strangers

the train probably isnt the best place for a pickup

street type pickups can be hard and something that i am still trying to better myself at

but the best type of pickups for a begginner is at stores where girls are literally paid to talk to you

also in a bookstore or anyother laid back environment

also fighting the b-f was stupid, look it really acomplished nothing in the big picture

how short are you anyways?

 

[Saine]

Re: Re: Cold Approach : I'm ready

Originally posted by drixsa
saine i have been to NYC im not sure if it is becuase there are so many but the woman there always look good to me and if you know the right areas they dress pretty well too. but woman act the same way wherever you go it doesnt matter if its NYC,



when you are a rookie or do not feel comfortable at cold approaches then just stick with "hi"

saying "its seems like you know your way around, where are you going?"

it doesnt really make sense. this would be a case of -its not what you say its how you say it-

ok this this girl wanted to get away from you? why? i am thinking that you probably came on too strong too fast and asking her where she was going scared her a bit.

even though i am sure you are not, psychos ride the subway too.

saying that you will "follow" her is never a good thing to do.

if anything you should of said "ok well then you can take me there" or something not so cheesey along those line

i can go into detail and detail talking about your convo but its like i can see your mindset through your writing

you have balls, but your not comfortable in what you are doing.

I'm god.
The rest I have no comments on.

instead of just talking to someone and letting the conversation go you are forcing it

when i first started out with the cold approaches i just talked to everyone as if they were someone i knew or even like a friend

i wasnt even interested in any type of # close

i didnt care how good looking a girl was b/c i wasnt interested in even getting a # just to have a nice convo

when i took that pressure off myself then things started to work a lot better b/c i wasnt having the convo to get something out of it

You seem to know how I feel. Well then I guess I got to take that pressure off me.

Girl #2 was a complete biatch.

if you say hi and she doesnt say hi back the girl has issues or she probably isnt in the mood to meet strangers

Hehe I didn't know but at least tell me you're taken.

the train probably isnt the best place for a pickup

street type pickups can be hard and something that i am still trying to better myself at

Hehe, I see, it's even hard for YOU. No wonder.

but the best type of pickups for a begginner is at stores where girls are literally paid to talk to you

also in a bookstore or anyother laid back environment

Thanks, I got to try that.

also fighting the b-f was stupid, look it really acomplished nothing in the big picture

Like I said, it had nothing to do with DJing, I just like fighting punks. Tough people don't show how cool or tough they are. I'm the type of people who pick on punks.

how short are you anyways?

5'5", almost 5'4" but let's (grammar? hahaha) not talk about how I got that one extra inch.

 

[Saine]

Thanks guys, something I expected. All I need is some sleep... zzz....

 

[drixsa]

Hehe, I see, it's even hard for YOU. No wonder.

its not that it is impossible its just that there are a lot of factors involved with a street pickup that arent involved anywhere else

doing more week by week

 

[Saine]

Too bad you're not in NY, I want to see you in action.

 

[drixsa]

im available to all those in israel, i think as of now the count is at 0

 

[RandomGuy]

5'5 aint that bad man, i am 5'6

but then again, I am asian.