Coeds lament men shortage

[MatureDJ]

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Even so, several women at Tulane expressed to me their sense that the gender ratio left them with fewer options, in sheer numbers and in the kinds of relationships available to them. Emma Roberts, who graduated from Tulane in the spring, told me she discussed the problem in her gender-studies class. “I think everyone’s consensus we came to was that it’s pretty disgusting trying to date,” she says. “Because the reality is you’re not likely going to find someone that wants to date you.”

On the evening I met her in early July at an outdoor cafe near campus, she and two friends spoke frankly about their frustrations with dating in college. They characterized the straight men at their school as “picky” and “****y.” All three felt they had settled too often — that by the time they left school, they were less confident about what they had the right to ask for in a relationship.

my opinion: I feel like my whole dating life has been the mirror image of these chicks.

 

[corrector]

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my opinion: I feel like my whole dating life has been the mirror image of these chicks.

They were at least able to settle, so it's actually worst with you.

 

[Mike32ct]

Those pesky supplie chaine issues again.

 

[Dr.Suave]

67% of students are female? D@mn, younger bros these days are playing on Easy Mode.

 

[Fruitbat]

“They discussed the problem in their gender studies class”

Therein lies their problem.

This rightly should be an immediate reason to run as fast as you can. At best it’s hours of petty squabbles. At worst it’s a rope allegation.

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

67% of students are female? D@mn, younger bros these days are playing on Easy Mode.

As a current college student, I will say that it is not easy as it looks. In my experience, only half (three-quarters on a good year) of the females available are actually attractive enough for me to entertain the idea of talking to them, and campus social life has low participation. Shared classes, extensions of friend groups and club meetings are about the only viable way to meet campus females. If you like banging fat chicks, then tinder or bumble set in the radius of the campus is a guaranteed lay, but at what cost?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I am willing to bet these are women who think they qualify for a relationship with a guy way out of their league who is willing to bang a lower tier woman in a dry spell but never be seen in public with her and she automatically thinks that is what she "deserves" for a relationship.

Simply they are unwilling to see the difference between reality and their view of reality.

 

[BadBoy89]

Of course women are more ambitious, more focused, more educated, than ever. They can get a man anytime they want with the snap of the fingers.

I wonder what the height and hair requirements were on that survey.

 

[SW15]

These lopsided gender ratios in college don't seem to matter much. A good portion of men 18-29 are sexless.

In colleges that are 60-65% women, the women still reject the majority of men.

Let's simplify with an example.

A college has 6 women and 4 men. All 6 women only want to have sex with 1 man and maybe some will settle for the 2nd man. 2 men will be completely shut out of the sexual marketplace, 1 man monopolizes, and 1 man might get something. That's college today. At least 5 of the 6 women get laid, typically by the 1 man monopolizing the market. I've summed up college sex there.

For more reading on college sex, this great thread exists....

Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.

I thought I'd share this as someone who went to a party school and was in a fraternity there as well. Not wanting to give too much about myself but I went to UGA and graduated a few years ago. While Athens has its hot girls, I do feel like the quality got worse every year due to the admission...

www.sosuave.net

 

[I_have_BDE]

These lopsided gender ratios in college don't seem to matter much. A good portion of men 18-29 are sexless.

In colleges that are 60-65% women, the women still reject the majority of men.

Let's simplify with an example.

A college has 6 women and 4 men. All 6 women only want to have sex with 1 man and maybe some will settle for the 2nd man. 2 men will be completely shut out of the sexual marketplace, 1 man monopolizes, and 1 man might get something. That's college today. At least 5 of the 6 women get laid, typically by the 1 man monopolizing the market. I've summed up college sex there.

For more reading on college sex, this great thread exists....

Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.

I thought I'd share this as someone who went to a party school and was in a fraternity there as well. Not wanting to give too much about myself but I went to UGA and graduated a few years ago. While Athens has its hot girls, I do feel like the quality got worse every year due to the admission...

www.sosuave.net

I think my college was 55 percent women! Howevers again only a small amount of women are "hot."

Also key is what classes you're taking. I was a business major and the business classes had more men. Thr girls usually took those bs fluff classes like psychology, sociology, and other liberal classes. I took a few for required electives. The woke bs in them was hard to stomach through.

 

[BeExcellent]

The problem both men and women who struggle at dating have is at best an incorrect and at worst delusional idea of their SMV and what the other gender values.

Entitlement gets you nowhere, irrespective of gender unless you legitimately are that famous/good looking/rich and on legit people entitlement is STILL a turn off.

I’ve never struggled at dating ONCE I LEARNED WHAT MATTERED. And I learned it very young, in college. No problem since then.

Remember. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over….and expecting a different result.

 

[SW15]

I think my college was 55 percent women! Howevers again only a small amount of women are "hot."

The colleges I was evaluating were all around 52-53% female in the early 2000s when I was making the decision on which college to attend. While I did consider male-to-female ratios, it seemed to be an irrelevant factor in my college decision.

I ended up at "Hot Girl U".

Also key is what classes you're taking. I was a business major and the business classes had more men. Thr girls usually took those bs fluff classes like psychology, sociology, and other liberal classes. I took a few for required electives. The woke bs in them was hard to stomach through.

This is true. STEM classes would be sausage fests. Business classes might be close to 50-50% now with women now 60-40% on the average college campus.

Liberal arts/social science classes would be more female than male.

General education elective classes are some of the best class options for doing approaches and finding dates.

 

[Ricky]

When i went into engineering the reported ratio of the incoming engineering class was almost exactly 80 percent men, 20 percent women.

any women i dated in college weren’t engineers. When i graduated and worked at an automotive engineering company the number of women was even less than 20 percent

 

[I_have_BDE]

The colleges I was evaluating were all around 52-53% female in the early 2000s when I was making the decision on which college to attend. While I did consider male-to-female ratios, it seemed to be an irrelevant factor in my college decision.

I ended up at "Hot Girl U".



This is true. STEM classes would be sausage fests. Business classes might be close to 50-50% now with women now 60-40% on the average college campus.

Liberal arts/social science classes would be more female than male.

General education elective classes are some of the best class options for doing approaches and finding dates.

That seems like a HUGE waste of money going to a college just to see girls.

 

[MatureDJ]

When i went into engineering the reported ratio of the incoming engineering class was almost exactly 80 percent men, 20 percent women.

any women i dated in college weren’t engineers. When i graduated and worked at an automotive engineering company the number of women was even less than 20 percent

It's OVER for EngineeringCels.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Those pesky supplie chaine issues again.

Damn Putin!

 

[BadBoy89]

I’ve never struggled at dating ONCE I LEARNED WHAT MATTERED. And I learned it very young, in college. No problem since then.

What matters?

 

[Ricky]

It's OVER for EngineeringCels.

I am not even sure it ever started for them lol

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Men are not attending post secondary anymore, it's quite alarming actually, yet in their Gender Studies class all they can think about is "I can't get a boyfriend"

You cannot make this stuff up, simply incredible, even under the guise of gender studies its just a focus inwards

 

[Solomon]

I am willing to bet these are women who think they qualify for a relationship with a guy way out of their league who is willing to bang a lower tier woman in a dry spell but never be seen in public with her and she automatically thinks that is what she "deserves" for a relationship.

Simply they are unwilling to see the difference between reality and their view of reality.

The problem is this happens a lot more nowadays compared to 20 years ago. 20 years ago women knew their SMV and accepted it Nowadays, they go on these swipe apps and feel entitled to a higher tier guy so For example a girl is a 4, but has a bunch of guys that are 6's-8's that matched with her. We know that women conflate sexual market value with relationship market value. We're a guy who is an 8 may bang a 4 but he won't take her seriously. However, to a woman, she thinks because she's banging 8s that's what she deserves.

This reminds me of a 46-year-old woman I know who looks like a toad, She loves men that are buff, 6 foot+ tall, and younger (early to mid 20s) however she knows to keep those guys beyond sex she has to shell out money, pay their bills etc. Eventually, she realized that it wasn't enough cause those guys would always cheat on her with younger and hotter women. She doesn't want men her age because she is not attracted to them.

However, I would also go as far to say that men are to blame for this as well because you have some men who will lower their standards enough to bang a 3 or 4 when they're double those women SMV and therein lies the problem as well. 20 years ago a woman would enjoy the experience(typically a one-off) and marry a guy close to her SMV. In 2023 this experience now can be a weekly thing for modern women because of swipe apps. Now women have doubled down and are not settling. A woman would rather be with a guy who is a broke bum if his SMV is an 8+ than be with a rich educated guy who is a 4 or 5 on her level. Let that sink in

Another story I know a 34 year blond, EXTREMELY MID white woman, no T&A. subpar face but she is thin. She has dated tons of men above her SMV who take her on dates all the time. I remember her bragging about going on 30 dates in 30 days years ago on snapchat. When asked by a mutual friend regarding why isn't married yet she said

"I'm hot and I want someone on my level"​

The delusion is real, the average guy in 2023 can't compete it sucks but this is why you see the "High Value Man" trope become so popular on redpill youtube in the last 3 years because most men can't even get an average woman cause average women are holding out for Chad/Tyrone/Enirque/Bruce Lee only