SnoopDoggyCow
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Ok I really need some advice on the whole club scene here.
First of all I serously am a decent looking guy. I have a girlfriend that I've been with a year, but me and some friends were celebrating so we went to a big latin club. I went up to several, and I mean several girls, here's exactly what happend as best as I can remember (I was kind of tipsy)
Well first me and my friends loaded up, drinking by the bar. WHen I started feeling it, I went on the dance floor. I started basically scoping the floor out, seeing what honey's were available etc..
Well the first girl I spotted was standing kind of on the edge of the floor with a few of her friends dancing. We made eye contact, I smiled, and she smiled back. 3 sec rule here we go. I walk up to her and flat out ask her if she wants to dance, she shakes her head yes, and we move a little bit into the floor. We danced for a little, I tried grabbing her waist, and although she didn't push me away, she didn't seem to receptive to it. I would grab her waist for a little, then let go, then try again. I was trying to get a grinding session, but I guess I just don't know what Im doing.
Well after a while the floor started getting packed, so she's like lets move to the edge of the dance floor (where she was originally, and where her friends were) so we did, and basically we were light dancing with each other. Our eyes would meet occasionally, and we'd both smile. I started making small talk to her while we were dancing. I asked her her name, where she was from, how old she was, what she did for work etc... She basically was a 31 year old who worked in finance. She asked me how old I was, and I said guess. She said 25, and I'm like close,26.
So anyway, one of my friends came and started dancing with one of her friends to the right of her, he was trying to make conversation also. I really wasn't feeling this girl and wanted to find a better target, so I told her I'll be right back, she's like ok I'll be here.
When I get back from the bathroom my friend actually met me on the outside, and was telling me to go back to these girls, he thought he could get laid. I really didn't want to, but I guess there was nothing stirring at the time, so I went back, and I said to her "you're still here" she's like "yep" and we started dancing lightly with each other. Well I don't think her other friend was feeling my friend, so she whispered in her ear something, and then this girl told me she's be right back, and both girls went somewhere else.
I was actually glad, cause now it was time to scope out some more hunnies. Well I attempted to try and dance with a few more girls I saw on the floor who were attractive, but they either moved when I approached (on purpose) our indicated with their hand that they weren't interested dancing with me, and continued dancing with their friends.
Ok whatever, so then I see this girl other girl dressed in red, pretty attractive, she was dancing with a group of her friends. I danced up by her, she looked at me, I looked at her, we started dancing. Again, I would try and grab her waist every so often to get a grind session going, but she didn't seem receptive, so then I would let go and just dance. I again would try and talk to her in her ear. I asked her what nationality she was, her name. She said she was 21 and it was her birthday. I said happy birthday, we danced a little bit more, and then she kind of danced away towards her friends.
Ok, I decided to take a little break from the floor. So I finally find my friends, we slam another drink, and then we hang out right outside the dance floor. All of a sudden I see these 2 girls heading to the dance floor. On their way there, some guy approahces this one girl and tries to start talking to her. The other girl just continued walking to the floor while her friend was distracted. I followed her friend and went right up to her and started dancing. She looked at me first, then started dancing with me. Again I would try to grab the waist, then let go. Whenever I did grab the waist, she seemed to dance away like she didn't want to dance that way. Again I made some smal talk in her ear, asking her name nationality etc.. While this was happening her friend got rid of the guy that tried to approach her, so she was bascially alone on the dance floor just watching us. I was expecting the girl I was dancing with to stop and go back to her friend cause they were making eye contact. She did however dance with me for few songs. All of a sudden she shakes my hand and says "thank you for the dance". I asked her "Want to get a drink" and she's like "no no that's ok" and just goes by her friend.
damn......
Ok so Im still on the dance floor... I try dancing with some more girls I see, but they either signal with their hand that they aren't interested, or they dance away. Well I see this pretty hot asian girl in the middle of the floor. I go right up to her and try to dance with her. She looks at me first for like a good 5 seconds and then she puts her hand out and we hold hands and start dancing. I then grab her waist and she seems ok with it. We dance for a little bit, and I try to talk to her in her ear, she's like "Im sorry I can't hear you its too loud in here" then she makes a face like ok it was fun, and turns around and starts dancing with her friends again.
dammmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Ok so same routine I try to dance with some more chicks, get rejected. I then go up to this girl in a red dress pretty good looking. We start dancing, I think we might have held hands at first while dancing, I can't really remember now. Anyway again, I try grabbing the waist, but nothing really comes of it. Im always hoping then when I grab the girls waist, she will then grab on to me, and we still start dancing close, when it doesn't happen I get discouraged, like Im not sure if this girl wants me to touch her on the waist or not. Well anyway I ask her in her ear, her name, nationality. Who remembers her name, but she said she was puerto rican, she then asked me my nationality and I said I was Italian, that's why I have no rhythm. She playfull hit me and was chuckling. Well anyway after dancing with me for a bit, she kind of dances away with her friends. Well get this... I go somewhere else for a second, when I come back, I see this girl dancing with some other guy, and she is rubbing her ass all on him.... What the hell????/
Also, remember the first girl I was talking to that I danced with. Well she didn't seem to dance tight with me right. Well I saw her standing in the same spot I was talking to her in the beginning. I walked up to her and said "you're still here" she's like "yeah" definitely not to receptive as I could tell she wasn't feeling me anymore. Then some other guy takes her hand, they both go to the middle of the dance floor, and dance pretty tight. What gives????
Ok so I start looking for new targets. I go up to this one girl I see dancing with her friends. I kind of approach her from the side and try to start dancing with her. She turns around looks at me with a "you're the ugliest thing I've ever seen" I was looked at her, and said "come on, I know Im not that ugly" she smiles at me and says "oh noo I thought you were just trying to get through"
Well like the others, we start dancing, I try to grab her waist to initate grinding and nothing, she again goes back to her friend after a little bit of dancing.
Ok I know this post is long, there was one more girl I danced with. This girl was probably the most attractive of all the girls I did dance with. I saw her with her friends dancing, and I went up to her and started dancing. She turned around and immediately started dancing with me. Since she seemed to feel me right away, I immediately went to grab her waist, and she actually took my hands and moved them off. So she's still dancing with me, really into the music as she was singing the lyrics out loud while dancing. I make eye contact with her and smile a few times. I then go to ask her name in her ear "and she's like Im sorry I don't understand, I can't hear" then turns around and dances with her friends.
Ok so I know Im doing something wrong, but I think I have potential here. I think what's really the problem is that I can't dance, or dont know what to do. Any advice you can give analyzing my situation would be very helpful.
To top things off, I called my girlfriend like 4 in the morning and left her a voice mail because she got mad last time I went out with my friends and didn't call her when I got back. I obviously didn't tell her I went to a club, but with that voice mail so late she probably thinks that and hasn't called me since.
pimping aint easy
This was a true story.
First of all I serously am a decent looking guy. I have a girlfriend that I've been with a year, but me and some friends were celebrating so we went to a big latin club. I went up to several, and I mean several girls, here's exactly what happend as best as I can remember (I was kind of tipsy)
Well first me and my friends loaded up, drinking by the bar. WHen I started feeling it, I went on the dance floor. I started basically scoping the floor out, seeing what honey's were available etc..
Well the first girl I spotted was standing kind of on the edge of the floor with a few of her friends dancing. We made eye contact, I smiled, and she smiled back. 3 sec rule here we go. I walk up to her and flat out ask her if she wants to dance, she shakes her head yes, and we move a little bit into the floor. We danced for a little, I tried grabbing her waist, and although she didn't push me away, she didn't seem to receptive to it. I would grab her waist for a little, then let go, then try again. I was trying to get a grinding session, but I guess I just don't know what Im doing.
Well after a while the floor started getting packed, so she's like lets move to the edge of the dance floor (where she was originally, and where her friends were) so we did, and basically we were light dancing with each other. Our eyes would meet occasionally, and we'd both smile. I started making small talk to her while we were dancing. I asked her her name, where she was from, how old she was, what she did for work etc... She basically was a 31 year old who worked in finance. She asked me how old I was, and I said guess. She said 25, and I'm like close,26.
So anyway, one of my friends came and started dancing with one of her friends to the right of her, he was trying to make conversation also. I really wasn't feeling this girl and wanted to find a better target, so I told her I'll be right back, she's like ok I'll be here.
When I get back from the bathroom my friend actually met me on the outside, and was telling me to go back to these girls, he thought he could get laid. I really didn't want to, but I guess there was nothing stirring at the time, so I went back, and I said to her "you're still here" she's like "yep" and we started dancing lightly with each other. Well I don't think her other friend was feeling my friend, so she whispered in her ear something, and then this girl told me she's be right back, and both girls went somewhere else.
I was actually glad, cause now it was time to scope out some more hunnies. Well I attempted to try and dance with a few more girls I saw on the floor who were attractive, but they either moved when I approached (on purpose) our indicated with their hand that they weren't interested dancing with me, and continued dancing with their friends.
Ok whatever, so then I see this girl other girl dressed in red, pretty attractive, she was dancing with a group of her friends. I danced up by her, she looked at me, I looked at her, we started dancing. Again, I would try and grab her waist every so often to get a grind session going, but she didn't seem receptive, so then I would let go and just dance. I again would try and talk to her in her ear. I asked her what nationality she was, her name. She said she was 21 and it was her birthday. I said happy birthday, we danced a little bit more, and then she kind of danced away towards her friends.
Ok, I decided to take a little break from the floor. So I finally find my friends, we slam another drink, and then we hang out right outside the dance floor. All of a sudden I see these 2 girls heading to the dance floor. On their way there, some guy approahces this one girl and tries to start talking to her. The other girl just continued walking to the floor while her friend was distracted. I followed her friend and went right up to her and started dancing. She looked at me first, then started dancing with me. Again I would try to grab the waist, then let go. Whenever I did grab the waist, she seemed to dance away like she didn't want to dance that way. Again I made some smal talk in her ear, asking her name nationality etc.. While this was happening her friend got rid of the guy that tried to approach her, so she was bascially alone on the dance floor just watching us. I was expecting the girl I was dancing with to stop and go back to her friend cause they were making eye contact. She did however dance with me for few songs. All of a sudden she shakes my hand and says "thank you for the dance". I asked her "Want to get a drink" and she's like "no no that's ok" and just goes by her friend.
damn......
Ok so Im still on the dance floor... I try dancing with some more girls I see, but they either signal with their hand that they aren't interested, or they dance away. Well I see this pretty hot asian girl in the middle of the floor. I go right up to her and try to dance with her. She looks at me first for like a good 5 seconds and then she puts her hand out and we hold hands and start dancing. I then grab her waist and she seems ok with it. We dance for a little bit, and I try to talk to her in her ear, she's like "Im sorry I can't hear you its too loud in here" then she makes a face like ok it was fun, and turns around and starts dancing with her friends again.
dammmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Ok so same routine I try to dance with some more chicks, get rejected. I then go up to this girl in a red dress pretty good looking. We start dancing, I think we might have held hands at first while dancing, I can't really remember now. Anyway again, I try grabbing the waist, but nothing really comes of it. Im always hoping then when I grab the girls waist, she will then grab on to me, and we still start dancing close, when it doesn't happen I get discouraged, like Im not sure if this girl wants me to touch her on the waist or not. Well anyway I ask her in her ear, her name, nationality. Who remembers her name, but she said she was puerto rican, she then asked me my nationality and I said I was Italian, that's why I have no rhythm. She playfull hit me and was chuckling. Well anyway after dancing with me for a bit, she kind of dances away with her friends. Well get this... I go somewhere else for a second, when I come back, I see this girl dancing with some other guy, and she is rubbing her ass all on him.... What the hell????/
Also, remember the first girl I was talking to that I danced with. Well she didn't seem to dance tight with me right. Well I saw her standing in the same spot I was talking to her in the beginning. I walked up to her and said "you're still here" she's like "yeah" definitely not to receptive as I could tell she wasn't feeling me anymore. Then some other guy takes her hand, they both go to the middle of the dance floor, and dance pretty tight. What gives????
Ok so I start looking for new targets. I go up to this one girl I see dancing with her friends. I kind of approach her from the side and try to start dancing with her. She turns around looks at me with a "you're the ugliest thing I've ever seen" I was looked at her, and said "come on, I know Im not that ugly" she smiles at me and says "oh noo I thought you were just trying to get through"
Well like the others, we start dancing, I try to grab her waist to initate grinding and nothing, she again goes back to her friend after a little bit of dancing.
Ok I know this post is long, there was one more girl I danced with. This girl was probably the most attractive of all the girls I did dance with. I saw her with her friends dancing, and I went up to her and started dancing. She turned around and immediately started dancing with me. Since she seemed to feel me right away, I immediately went to grab her waist, and she actually took my hands and moved them off. So she's still dancing with me, really into the music as she was singing the lyrics out loud while dancing. I make eye contact with her and smile a few times. I then go to ask her name in her ear "and she's like Im sorry I don't understand, I can't hear" then turns around and dances with her friends.
Ok so I know Im doing something wrong, but I think I have potential here. I think what's really the problem is that I can't dance, or dont know what to do. Any advice you can give analyzing my situation would be very helpful.
To top things off, I called my girlfriend like 4 in the morning and left her a voice mail because she got mad last time I went out with my friends and didn't call her when I got back. I obviously didn't tell her I went to a club, but with that voice mail so late she probably thinks that and hasn't called me since.
pimping aint easy
This was a true story.
