Clubbing Report - Prognosis Not Good, approached a lot of chicks

Microphone Fiend

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Alright...Im in an okay mood so i'll break ur post down

1) She says 'lets move to the side'=Isolate her, when she pulls herself away from the crowd that means you are free to do more sensual and hornier stuff. That's why she was looknig you in the eyes
2) When she started looking you in the eyes, lick your lips and go in for the kiss. Triangular gaze that chick!
3) Conversing isn't really for the club scene. The club scene is to show quickly who is cool and takes what they want and who wastes their time. Kiss her when she starts to look in your eyes next time. If she wanted to chat she'd be in a coffee shop or a chat room, realize she is there to get fvcked
4) Have fun in the club. You either want to let em kno that you wanna fvck str8 off the bat, or that you want to party. Don't get caught between the two. Instead of grabbing her hips, try the butt bump and get a laugh, then you have a better chance of progressing without resistance
5) Talk to the gurls about better things. Asking them their nationality isn't the best conversation piece... Get some openers, ask her did she see the fight outside? Do the pants make your ass look big. WHo lies more, etc
6)OH MY FVCKING GOD....Okay when any gurl u think is feeling you says "I can't hear you" in the club, This is when you ask do you wanna go somewhere quieter and talk? Then you can kiss her and makeout, escalate her state, or whatever cuz she won't feel like she's putting on a show for her friends, and she won't feel like a slut
7) From this post we have established that your method of approaching girls may not be the best. Revamp it and try again next time
8) Don't go up to gurls in the club with that "can I ask u a question" sh!t. That crap MIGHT (i stress might) work in daytime setting but u need to do something a little better in the club


Yo man, i grilled you a lil there, but u were good, you were persistent and didn't give up. Just keep at it and you'll be pimpin a large amount of gurls in no time. You got heart. Also try not to get wasted or too drunk b4 u go to get gurls, that cud b fvcking up ur game too
 

FreeStyleZ

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Alright alright I guess I shouldn't grab the waist. The thing is I have gone out before and not touched, and yeah we danced, but not much happend after that. I see guys in the club grinding with girls, how do I get that to happen?
I grab girls waist on first dance sessions... and we start out grinding. I don't know about where you're from but whenever I go to the club, the ONLY dancing I ever see being done is grinding.
 
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There's nothing wrong with grabbing the girls waist and starting to grind, the key is not to try to escalate faster than she is comfortable with. Depends on the scene (if there are other people - especially her friends - grinding) the girl (if she's uptight or what) and how into you she is. Keep trying, but don't try too hard!
 
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