Chivalry

[Rainman4707]

De Angelo recommends chivalry in his Double Your Dating. Opening doors, pulling out chairs etc, etc.

I took his advice & do use chivalry. Women really appreciate things like moving them onto the safe side of the pavement especially if when she asks you, you explain why you do this (if a car came off the road it would hit you instead of her)

I've been seeing a girl for the last 4 month. She has really appreciated my chivalry.
Last month I did however think maybe im being too nice with her, opening doors for her a lot, walking her to her flat after every date (I always open my car door for her & walk her up to her flat)
I mentioned this to her :-

Rainman :- I might just let you walk up to your flat by yourself tonight (its only a small flight of stars in a small block of flats)

HB7.4 :- oh my god. Why?

Rainman :- Well, it's not that far. I think I'm being too nice always opening the car door & walking you to your flat. It's not as though it's very far for you to go.

HB7.4 :- Yeah, but I really appreciate when you do those things. It makes me feel special.

Rainman :- Well i'll see how it goes. I might stop doing it at some point.

Walked her upto her flat & fu*ked her.

I'm wondering how often you guys use chivalry with your women & how often?

 

[djthiago1]

I always open doors, walk on the outside of the sidewalk, walking to the door and such. And yes, they love it.

What's the difference between an HB7.5 and an HB7.4 ?

 

[Yorkex]

Do it because you naturally want to but don't do it because you want her to see you different.

Example : I see a girl holding a bunch of bags , I will open and hold the door for her because I would want someone doing the same for me if I was holding a bunch of stuff.

However I WON'T wait 2 mins holding a door for a hot girl just to try and get into her pants after.

 

[Rainman4707]

I always open doors, walk on the outside of the sidewalk, walking to the door and such. And yes, they love it.

What's the difference between an HB7.5 and an HB7.4 ?

HaHa she changes every week from a 7.3 to a 7.5. This week she is a 7.4 meh

 

[SmooveMooves]

Cool.

IMO I wouldn't explain why I made a decision though.

Not in a dìckheaded way, however, I would've aimed for such interaction to go as:

Smoove: *Kisses her at door and walks away*

HB7.4: You're not walking me up?

Smoove: I'm sure you can handle a few stairs, I'll see you soon.

No need to tell her "I feel like I been being a bit too nice...."

Just change what you don't like.

 

[dasein]

Do these things for yourself, not them. The first time you have one tear/stain their clothes, fall in public or twist a heel going through a door you will know why.

 

[Rainman4707]

I am aware of this, but still did it anyway. I feel in a position of power so feel as if I can relax.

 

[Rainman4707]

Nice guy doing chivalry = boring, dried up vagina

Player/Pimp doing chivalry = minfvck, wet vagina.

HaHa these kind of posts make me laugh. It's most likely true also. The thread what girls say & what they really mean also tickles me

 

[princess_124]

De Angelo recommends chivalry in his Double Your Dating. Opening doors, pulling out chairs etc, etc.

I took his advice & do use chivalry. Women really appreciate things like moving them onto the safe side of the pavement especially if when she asks you, you explain why you do this (if a car came off the road it would hit you instead of her)

I've been seeing a girl for the last 4 month. She has really appreciated my chivalry.
Last month I did however think maybe im being too nice with her, opening doors for her a lot, walking her to her flat after every date (I always open my car door for her & walk her up to her flat)
I mentioned this to her :-

Rainman :- I might just let you walk up to your flat by yourself tonight (its only a small flight of stars in a small block of flats)

HB7.4 :- oh my god. Why?

Rainman :- Well, it's not that far. I think I'm being too nice always opening the car door & walking you to your flat. It's not as though it's very far for you to go.

HB7.4 :- Yeah, but I really appreciate when you do those things. It makes me feel special.

Rainman :- Well i'll see how it goes. I might stop doing it at some point.

Walked her upto her flat & fu*ked her.

I'm wondering how often you guys use chivalry with your women & how often?

So, your acting to be a good person just so you can get in her pants? What a selfish, perverted man.

 

[Rainman4707]

Yes I am

 

[princess_124]

Yes I am

These are one of the reasons why some women start hating men.. they play with their emotions just to have sex with them, and after they get into their pants... they just leave them.

Keep in mind, karma happens. If you hurt someone today, maybe the girl who you love may betray you

 

[BraddH]

Yes I am

Just to inform you about your blindness to your own stupidity: the fact that you care so much about women will kick your ass.

 

[Poon King]

So, your acting to be a good person just so you can get in her pants? What a selfish, perverted man.

Welcome to the real world. You must live under a rock if you're just learning that men will do almost anything to get laid. All women should know this by now and the fact that many don't just shows how little women pay attention to their environment.

Anyway.. getting back on topic..(I am addressing the OP now) since a lot of women complain chivalry is "dead" now.. you can actually go far with it. Dating "game" is like investing and buying stock... you succeed by doing the opposite of what the general population is doing.

When most men were pretending to be "nice" women started chasing the bad boys because they were different, sexy and intriguing. But once the whole "women like jerks" situation went public.. more and more men started acting like jerks to get girls. And with PUA material and the red pill.. we are reaching a saturation point where "nice guys" are becoming rare. So women are starting to gravitate to them again.

Smart men know that with chivalry.. you are giving so you can take later. Most men do it to DV and get their foot in the door (or c0ck in the twaht). Then they put their feet up and stop giving a sh!t. Then the girl gets insecure and works harder and acts nicer because she believes she is losing his love.. which was never there.

This has always been how smart men play the game. I personally, have never played the game this way because I hate being phony. Maybe I'm not that smart.

These are one of the reasons why some women start hating men.. they play with their emotions just to have sex with them, and after they get into their pants... they just leave them.

Keep in mind, karma happens. If you hurt someone today, maybe the girl who you love may betray you

Women play with men's emotions just to get attention, money, and other things. Karma is a fairy tale. Sorry.

Also, even in situations where women get played.. they don't really lose anything other than time. Usually the player still ends up putting in significant work and money to get into her pants. And just because a man f*cks you that doesn't mean he now owes you something. Relationships (like jobs) are "at will".

Offer more than sex and men will want more than sex. Few women can digest this idea.

 

[princess_124]

DAMNIT, you stupid fvcking cvnt!

Get out!!

Why are you always so angry?

 

[skinnyguy]

So opening doors will get you laid? Man, that was easy

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

So, your acting to be a good person just so you can get in her pants? What a selfish, perverted man.

You know, I don't think it's a good idea to let random trolls get away with calling long standing members a "selfish, perverted man".


Fvck this place, there are other forums out there. Going on strike.

She did her job.

 

[Thorninmyside]

I'll be chivalrous to a woman who deserves it, but with complete strangers? I'm close to done with the rudeness and lack of appreciation from many of today's woman. The amount of times you don't even get acknowledged let alone thanked. I've even received hostility.

A week ago a woman at the train station was halfway up the stairs dragging a kid's stroller with child on board, and when I offered to carry it the rest of the way for her, she scoffed "Well, it's a bit late now". I gave her the death stare and moved on.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Offer more than sex and men will want more than sex. Few women can digest this idea.

This quote is so beautiful. This man is speaking the truth here.

 

[logicallefty]

I'll be chivalrous to a woman who deserves it, but with complete strangers? I'm close to done with the rudeness and lack of appreciation from many of today's woman. The amount of times you don't even get acknowledged let alone thanked. I've even received hostility.

A week ago a woman at the train station was halfway up the stairs dragging a kid's stroller with child on board, and when I offered to carry it the rest of the way for her, she scoffed "Well, it's a bit late now". I gave her the death stare and moved on.

Haha Dumb cvnt. Doesn't she know its 2014 we have elevators now. Or maybe she was too dumb to understand the buttons.

 

[Zarky]

I took his advice & do use chivalry. Women really appreciate things like moving them onto the safe side of the pavement especially if when she asks you, you explain why you do this (if a car came off the road it would hit you instead of her)

I've been seeing a girl for the last 4 month. She has really appreciated my chivalry.

Do what you like, but don't do it because women may "appreciate it." If it helps to get you laid (assuming that's what you want) then do it. If it doesn't, don't.

Whether or not a woman "appreciates" something shouldn't really be part of the equation.