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chick pantsed me ...

AlexTheGreat

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Ok, I was chilling with this chick and her friend ... The friend went inside, so the chick and me were outside her window, talking to her from there. Out of nowhere, the chick I was with pantsed me, and got my boxers too .. :eek: and we were outside her building, with other people around.

I first laughed nervously for like a fraction of a second, while I was getting my **** together again, then I kicked her, grabbed her arms while saying "Oh you didn't ..." and the smile disappeared off my face ... I was furious, couldn't control myself, so all that happened was under impulse. So, after a few seconds of having her arms in my hands, me torso against her chest, face a few inches apart, I push her away, take my bike, and (from anger I guess), grab it wrong and it falls next to me. I pick it up again, and I overhear her saying "I think he's pissed" to her friend in the window. I turn around, say "Do I have a reason to ?", and bike away while hearing her say "yeah ....."

A few minutes later, she calls my cell (from her friend's). I let it ring two times, then I pick up. I answer "allo" on a normal tone, and I hear her voice say "hey ....". I simply answer "No." and hang up. Later that night, I go on MSN and see her name being "blahblah I always **** up blahblah". So I know she's sorry for that.

What I'm asking here is, did I react the right way ? All that was from impulse, but I'm wondering now if I didn't overreact. On the spot, all I felt was betrayal : she had just tarnished my image, disrespected me to the max, publicly humiliated me. But now I ask your take on it : did I take this **** too seriously or did I react correctly ?
 

penkitten

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i got pantsed in high school
a few times

i think they just liked to look at my butt or something..

who knows?
 

familyguyfan

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You definitely overreacted. The fact that you actually left and then wouldn't answer her call probably showed her and the others that you were insecure and not confident in yourself and your body.

If I were you I probably would have been a little pissed, and I would've been embarassed too, but I wouldn't have made a big deal of it. I probably would have pantsed her back.
 

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you missed a great chance. you could have returned the favour :p or just started tickling her and just slip it in.

easy homerun.
 

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I have never been pantsed, I am jealous, although I'd only want it done if I had a great ass.
 

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What I'm asking here is, did I react the right way ? All that was from impulse, but I'm wondering now if I didn't overreact. On the spot, all I felt was betrayal : she had just tarnished my image, disrespected me to the max, publicly humiliated me. But now I ask your take on it : did I take this **** too seriously or did I react correctly ? [/B][/QUOTE]

Did you react the rite way?He11 no!!!Sht this same thing happened to me be4.....when she pulled it down(with many other people around,we were at party outside)I just stood there for 10 seconds with my hand on my hips and then told her that she obviously wants my pants off so im just gonna walk around like this for the whole night.So I walked around for bout 5 minutes bottom half naked till she came over and told me to come with her....you know the rest............

She was just tryin to have a good time, youve gotta always be lookin for fun.
And show her that your just a fun guy to be around no matter wat.
 

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what you did wasnt wrong.... but it wasnt the best thing to do. i would have got pissed, yea, return the "joke", if she was wearing jeans of something that couldnt easly come down then id act more pissed and tell her to drop her pants off. she pulled your boxers down too so that was kinda of a dirty pantsing, if there werent people around id leave them off and tell her to start sucking!!!
 

DJ_in_making

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Look to the bright side you actually had 'a chick taking off your pants'.....think about it. :D
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Look to the bright side you actually had 'a chick taking off your pants'.....think about it. :D
well what a ****ing privilage.... you got to take the whole female sex off the pedestal man, a girl taking your pants off shouldnt mean **** or shoulndt make everthing mean all fun and games, or shouldnt make everything better.
 

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dude, a chic yanked down your pants, and you are embarassed?

I would have smiled like an idiot, then later I would have smacked her on the ass the first chance I got.

Just do it. Just do it. Just do it.

This isn't fourth grade anymore (or is it)
 

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I think he was more than justified in his response.

Technically, what she did was assault.

The way he reacted will prevent this from ever happening again. If he played along with it then this chick would feel like it was okay to do it again.

It would have been cool if it was just the pants, but the boxers too! Wtf!

Personally, I think it would be embarassing to have your pants pulled down in front of a group of people especially if I was not hard at the time.

He showed that he's not some punk b!tch for everyones amusement.
 

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
I think he was more than justified in his response.

Technically, what she did was assault.

The way he reacted will prevent this from ever happening again. If he played along with it then this chick would feel like it was okay to do it again.

It would have been cool if it was just the pants, but the boxers too! Wtf!

Personally, I think it would be embarassing to have your pants pulled down in front of a group of people especially if I was not hard at the time.

He showed that he's not some punk b!tch for everyones amusement.
No, he didn't show he wasn't some punk b*tch. What he showed was that he was uptight and overreacted. Girls hate uptight guys.

Assault? Come on.
 

bud_2005

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You missed a grand opportunity. I believe you could of pantsed her also and she could have taken NO LEGAL ACTION against you. I think anyways someone please confirm it.

I realize you were in a situation you weren't ready for. You didn't know how to react. You were afraid of how people would think of you if you reacted certain ways. It's understandable. Just don't worry about it and if it happens again, try to bring humor into it and make everyone laugh at her.
 

McKindley

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(this could ONLY be posted in the high school forum.)

It looks like you overreacted. Never let someone see you sweat. If someone embarrasses you, you can't let them know that.

I'm not going to tell you all the various things you COULD'VE done, because you were only acting on impulse, and you weren't thinking clearly. It happens.

Give her a call, and tell her to come over so you can return the favor :)

Let her know that it doesn't bother you anymore.
 

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
I think he was more than justified in his response.

Technically, what she did was assault.

The way he reacted will prevent this from ever happening again. If he played along with it then this chick would feel like it was okay to do it again.

It would have been cool if it was just the pants, but the boxers too! Wtf!

Personally, I think it would be embarassing to have your pants pulled down in front of a group of people especially if I was not hard at the time.

He showed that he's not some punk b!tch for everyones amusement.
You p*ssy ass b!tch. Are you a fag or something?? "Technically what she did was assault." Wipe the sand out of you vagina. Im done with you.

You should have just played it cool then got her back. Freaking out and getting pissed didnt make anything better. It just made you wonder if you f*cked up or not.
 

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Re: Re: chick pantsed me ...

Did you react the rite way?He11 no!!!Sht this same thing happened to me be4.....when she pulled it down(with many other people around,we were at party outside)I just stood there for 10 seconds with my hand on my hips and then told her that she obviously wants my pants off so im just gonna walk around like this for the whole night.So I walked around for bout 5 minutes bottom half naked till she came over and told me to come with her....you know the rest............

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LOL!!!! Thats ****ing awesome. Awesome. Just... awesome.
 

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Re: Re: Re: chick pantsed me ...

Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Did you react the rite way?He11 no!!!Sht this same thing happened to me be4.....when she pulled it down(with many other people around,we were at party outside)I just stood there for 10 seconds with my hand on my hips and then told her that she obviously wants my pants off so im just gonna walk around like this for the whole night.So I walked around for bout 5 minutes bottom half naked till she came over and told me to come with her....you know the rest............

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LOL!!!! Thats ****ing awesome. Awesome. Just... awesome.
You sound like a friend of mine. Hes one of the goofyest people that i know. Your story is similar to something he would say.
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by undesputable
well what a ****ing privilage.... you got to take the whole female sex off the pedestal man, a girl taking your pants off shouldnt mean **** or shoulndt make everthing mean all fun and games, or shouldnt make everything better.
sigh... you obviously missed the humor I was trying to bring in the situation. :rolleyes:
 
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