AlexTheGreat
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 9, 2004
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Ok, I was chilling with this chick and her friend ... The friend went inside, so the chick and me were outside her window, talking to her from there. Out of nowhere, the chick I was with pantsed me, and got my boxers too ..
and we were outside her building, with other people around.
I first laughed nervously for like a fraction of a second, while I was getting my **** together again, then I kicked her, grabbed her arms while saying "Oh you didn't ..." and the smile disappeared off my face ... I was furious, couldn't control myself, so all that happened was under impulse. So, after a few seconds of having her arms in my hands, me torso against her chest, face a few inches apart, I push her away, take my bike, and (from anger I guess), grab it wrong and it falls next to me. I pick it up again, and I overhear her saying "I think he's pissed" to her friend in the window. I turn around, say "Do I have a reason to ?", and bike away while hearing her say "yeah ....."
A few minutes later, she calls my cell (from her friend's). I let it ring two times, then I pick up. I answer "allo" on a normal tone, and I hear her voice say "hey ....". I simply answer "No." and hang up. Later that night, I go on MSN and see her name being "blahblah I always **** up blahblah". So I know she's sorry for that.
What I'm asking here is, did I react the right way ? All that was from impulse, but I'm wondering now if I didn't overreact. On the spot, all I felt was betrayal : she had just tarnished my image, disrespected me to the max, publicly humiliated me. But now I ask your take on it : did I take this **** too seriously or did I react correctly ?
I first laughed nervously for like a fraction of a second, while I was getting my **** together again, then I kicked her, grabbed her arms while saying "Oh you didn't ..." and the smile disappeared off my face ... I was furious, couldn't control myself, so all that happened was under impulse. So, after a few seconds of having her arms in my hands, me torso against her chest, face a few inches apart, I push her away, take my bike, and (from anger I guess), grab it wrong and it falls next to me. I pick it up again, and I overhear her saying "I think he's pissed" to her friend in the window. I turn around, say "Do I have a reason to ?", and bike away while hearing her say "yeah ....."
A few minutes later, she calls my cell (from her friend's). I let it ring two times, then I pick up. I answer "allo" on a normal tone, and I hear her voice say "hey ....". I simply answer "No." and hang up. Later that night, I go on MSN and see her name being "blahblah I always **** up blahblah". So I know she's sorry for that.
What I'm asking here is, did I react the right way ? All that was from impulse, but I'm wondering now if I didn't overreact. On the spot, all I felt was betrayal : she had just tarnished my image, disrespected me to the max, publicly humiliated me. But now I ask your take on it : did I take this **** too seriously or did I react correctly ?